The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Love Life Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Once you've committed to a relationship, it takes a real force of nature to unglue you. Even when your connection has long outlived its utility, you will stick around, plodding along in the same old rut, working and earning, taking comfort in routine and sweeping problems under the rug. Yo...
As everyone knows, communication is a key element to any successful relationship. Good communication entails two functions: speaking and listening. No doubt it's difficult for you to see this, but both of these areas have contributed to problems in your past relationships. For one thing, y...
You know what you want when you see it, and you're certainly not shy about going after the object of your desire in love. Your audacity attracts some and frightens others off, but you are undaunted. The thrill of the chase is a big factor in your romantic process, so you carry on the pursu...
You're a perfect example of the principle that the most important sex organ is the brain. Your very imaginative, slightly kinky side has no doubt turned heads, both toward you and away from you. Previous lovers have had similar notions about fun and sex, so you have quite the eclectic coll...
Don't you think you're just a bit over the top? If your answer is 'no,' why don't you ask your coworkers and anyone else who often shares your space? They may have a different answer! The next step is to ask yourself, 'How might this have affected my relationships?' The truthful answer (an...
You are so sure that there won't be enough (love, money, fill in the blank with anything you value) that you cling tenaciously to what little you do have and refuse to let it go. Funny thing is, both love and money like to flow, so when you've got a death grip on them, instead of flowering...
You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents...
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely diff...
You and your generation were born just before, spent your formative years in or came around just after the revolutionary 1960s, and in many ways, you carry forward this revolutionary energy into the future. You expect a lot from life and from your romantic partners; perfection would suit y...
You have a basic relationship problem: You're a hothead. Easy to insult and quick to criticize, you get in fights over the silliest things, and pursue each battle to the death. These problems are at the very root of the failure of your past pairings. Though you make connections that are pa...
La la la, don't you just love to be in love? Yes, indeed you do, sweet one, but why do you keep picking yourself such corkers? Impulsive, demanding, emotional, entrancing -- your lovers hook you in but good right from the start. You're like a love junkie looking for a fix, trembling and ac...
When you got together with your previous partners, you were seriously attracted to the seriousness you intuited in them. They were your match on an intellectual level, and you felt they could go the long haul with you. And you chose well; indeed, your sweeties were stable and trustworthy. ...
Misunderstandings cropped up frequently between you and past lovers, didn't they? It seemed as if you always ended up bewildered, apologizing for something when you didn't even know what you did wrong. Meanwhile, your lover pouted and sulked, wrapped in suspicion. Much of the problem was i...
Gotta give you credit: You do mean well. It's just that you generally manage to make a mess out of what you've got. You're never satisfied with what's on your plate; instead you're busy envying others for what they've got going. Not only is your cup half-empty, it's spotted and chipped, to...
Whoa, Nelly. Serious jealousy issues plagued your previous relationships. Your powerful, intense lovers turned you on, all right, so much so that you couldn't help wondering who else had hot pants for your One. Where did they go when they were away from you? What were all those numbers pro...