An astrological report prepared for

Person 1, born April 6, 1975 and person 2, Born July 18, 1974:

When Love Hurts

How to Uncover Roadblocks in Your Relationship

SOMETIMES LOVE THRILLS THE BODY AND FILLS THE SOUL; IT CAN PUT A BOUNCE IN YOUR STEP AND A SMILE ON YOUR FACE NO MATTER THE WEATHER. OTHER TIMES, LOVE JUST STINKS.
That's where When Love Hurts report comes in. If you've been together for a while and things aren't looking quite so rosy anymore, When Love Hurts can help. 

After all, facing your problems is half the battle, but sometimes that's the hardest part. Not because you don't want to face them -- you do -- but because they mystify you. You try to get along with your honey, and you know they have good intentions too. Yet somehow, things just don't go as well as you'd like.
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Friction, Differences, and Karma Meters

The Friction, Differences and Karma Meters: every couple faces a certain set of challenges, and the number and type of challenges determine whether your relationship will be merely interesting or out-and-out difficult. At The Astrologer, we've broken down these challenges into three sections: sources of friction, the major differences between you, and the karmic ties from past lives that draw you together today.

On the first two meters, Friction and Differences, a score somewhere in the middle is probably best. Friction can be a good thing -- after all, the same energy that makes you lust after each other also makes you fight. And we all know that a good argument, like good sex, clears the air and lets you know your passion is alive! The same goes for differences between you in the ways that you think and view the world: These contrasts keep the relationship dynamic.

Karma, on the other hand, isn't such a great thing, even if your past-life bonds were positive ones. This lifetime is... Read more

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3

Friction
= 10

7-10: Open warfare

4-6: The occasional dispute

0-3: Whatever you have to say dear

Differences
= 4

7-10: Who the $#@% are you, again?

4-6: Some interesting contrasts

0-3: Two Peas in a pod

Karma
= 3

7-10: New love, same old story

4-6: Total deja-vu

0-3: No past life ties (whew!)

Person 1, here is your When Love Hurts report

Sun

illustrates your basic commonalities
tells your basic differences
indicates how well you get along with one another
shows what each of you brings to the relationship

Mercury

shows how you communicate with each other
reveals who is the thinker & who is the feeler
helps you understand each other’s communication style

Venus

reveals your connection to each other
indicates how each other prefers to receive love
highlights how both of you express love

Mars

represents the physical bond you share
reveals each other’s desires and impulses
shows how each person expresses frustration

Jupiter

highlights the non-negotiable values held by each of you
shows what is important to each person
indicates whether the relationship will grow

Saturn

challenges the relationship
unveils each other's shortcomings
demonstrates where extra effort is needed in the relationship

Uranus

uncovers each other’s rebellious side
points out the unique qualities each person brings to the relationship
shows how the two of you have fun

Neptune

rules the psychic connection you have to each other
reveals how you help each other grow
indicates if a relationship is a spiritual one

Pluto

reveals each person’s greatest fears
indicates opportunities for change
demonstrates the self-transformation the relationship brings to both of you
Read below to find out where each planet was on April 6, 1975, and how your birth chart has shaped your personality and guided your decisions so far…

From Friction To Fulfillment

Venus square Mars

Hot In Here

Is it hot in here? No, it's just you two. Mmm, everyone's wanting some of what you have between you: sweaty, sticky, lovely lust. Your connection got physical fast, simply because neither of you could resist each other. Opposites attract, so they say, and in your case they're absolutely right, with one's receptive energy meeting the other's force with explosive results. But there is (or should be) life outside the bedroom, and you two haven't had very much of it. It could be that one of you is using the other merely to slake a physical urge -- not a problem if both of you are in on the agreement, but nasty and painful if one of you is looking for love and the other just lust. One of you may also be very jealous and possessive of the other as well. The solution lies in extending your compatibility beyond the bedroom. Do you share interests in common? If not, better develop some soon. Talk about your values, your hopes, your dreams. Being close on one level does not an emotional connection make; you need to spend more time bonding and less time smooching.

Mercury square Venus

Declare a Truce

You certainly chose a partner who's a match for you, and that's a good thing, ultimately -- it just drives you nuts is all. It feels like you and your lover have difficulty understanding each other, particularly around emotional issues. And it's funny how a lot of things -- dishes, who's buying dinner, where you're going on vacation -- turn into an emotional issue with the pair of you. You plow through life with acumen and logic, determined to make sense of the world in front of you. Your partner, on the other hand, is more of a feeler than a thinker, and tends to overindulge your moods and notions. The result? You sometimes view your partner with something more akin to contempt than adoration, and neither one of you feels an easy connection with each other. The cure is better communication, and since you are the Great Communicator, you're well-placed for the task. If you want to stay in this relationship, it's up to you to bridge the gap. Stop finding fault with your partner; instead, find things to love and admire. The more you give the more you'll get.

Jupiter square Venus

Opposites Attract

You can be a real pain in the butt, and we wouldn't blame your sweetie for booting you right out the door. Lucky for you, things haven't gotten that bad yet -- but you're pushing your luck. The fact of the matter is that you chose a lover who doesn't harmonize with you naturally. They tend towards the indulgent: fine food, good wine (and plenty of it!), and abundant socializing while your more discerning, intellectual nature cries out for weightier stimulation. You crave a lover who can talk and argue and analyze as well as experience and enjoy. So, feeling stifled in your relationship, you take it out on the one person who loves you more than any other, which just isn't fair.If you can squash your desire to lecture and hector, you can make it past this rough period. Though you refuse to see it, your lover and you actually bring out the best in each other -- you're drawn out of your stolid funk, while your lover's self-indulgent tendencies are curbed in your presence, whether you realize it or not. Try to give your lover a break. Stop trying to control and change them. Ultimately, the love you want is already in your hands.

Sun square Saturn

A Learning Experience

On paper you and your lover don't work at all. You're directed, goal-oriented, a little impetuous, a lot dramatic. Your lover, on the other hand, is solid and, to your mindset, a little stodgy. You come up with grandiose dreams, your sweetie stomps on them by pointing out all the flaws. You express dreams and your lover lets in all that bothersome reality. Sometimes it feels like you're a big balloon all inflated with hope, and your mate is a big ol' pin just waiting to puncture you. No wonder you've experienced some friction over the course of your relationship; fights little and big. But look more deeply at the problems you've been having. Is your mate trying to bring you down, or give you a hand by helping ensure you turn big ideas into actual plans? You've gotten so wound up with what you view as criticisms that you've stopped listening to the sense behind what your lover says. Are you playing the part of a rebellious adolescent, agitating against Mummy and Daddy? Act your age, sweetie, and try listening like an adult instead. Your lover has much to teach you when you're willing to let go and learn.

Mercury square Mercury

Opposites Attract

This relationship hasn't been easy from the beginning, and frankly, it's a wonder you've made it this far. You and your lover lack common ground. You have different beliefs and attitudes -- it could be you adhere to different political affiliations, or don't share common views on morals and ethics. In any case, your differences of opinion drive you apart. You start out in a friendly debate, but as both of you yak and yak away you cease to listen to each other. You feel you're constantly being interrupted, as if you can't get your words out. You don't see eye-to-eye, and it seems like you never will. But don't be so quick to turn your back on this sweetie. While it's true that things are sometimes strained between you, there is much potential for your future. Though it's hard for you to understand each other, you must keep working on it. In your heart of hearts, you share more than you realize. Keep on plugging. Keep on talking. Try to listen, and hear the intent behind the words as well as what's being said. You could really bring out the best in each other, somehow, someday.

Jupiter square Mercury

Parent and Child

Nag, nag, nag. You can hardly blame your lover for turning off -- your needle's stuck in a groove, and you're running over the same script once again. Was it by design that you fell into being the bad-guy parent, the scolding teacher? Or did it just somehow happen, with you viewing your restless, hard-to-pin-down lover as a great big blank canvas for you to paint on? You bagged yourself a remarkable sweetie, and a good match for you. You enjoy the crackling energy between you -- you spar with words and never get tired of being in each other's company.Yet your desire to mold your lover into someone else causes friction. And when your lover is challenged, there is a tendency to blurt out the wrong thing at the wrong moment. Then you are wounded and hold a grudge. Can't you see that the whole cycle starts with you? If you'd relax a bit, live and let live, things would cool down. Your lover wouldn't need to rebel if you weren't always putting on the screws. Channel the generous, kind side of your nature and give your lover a break, willya?

Mercury square Saturn

The Smart Set

You've never been a model of serene stability, but sometimes your jitters are near-constant. Have you been sleeping poorly? Eating junk food, or almost nothing at all? Craving cigarettes and other illicit substances? And hey, how are those dreams? It's true; your love life's been going downhill for some time, and there's a reason: You chose yourself a lover who can meet you eye-to-eye intellectually, but who is a bit chilly. Whereas you reach out to the world with a rather playful and impish warmth, your lover is rather stern. If you were in a sitcom, you'd be the bratty little brother and your sweetie would be the grouchy dad in the La-Z-Boy.On the plus side, your lover provides you with plenty of stimulation on every level. Much is demanded of you, and you've had to work hard to deliver. This has polished you, like a rock eroded by a powerful river. No one ever said growth was fun! And grow you have, though you remain insecure of where your relationship is going. Try to relax a bit, and just enjoy the ride. You're well-placed for the future if you can engage in meaningful communication.

Jupiter square Saturn

A Serious Suitor

There's so much you admire about your lover. There's a studiousness to your sweetie, a certain drive and appreciation for hard work that the scholar in you responds to. But you long for more lightness, more fun. Everything's a slog with your lover. Everything has to be planned and nailed down. Nothing is spontaneous and romantic and breathless; it's all work and no play. It's not that you don't appreciate finding a solid, stable love-mate after all the losers you've been through. It's just that you'd appreciate a little more levity. There may also be family problems -- one of you is on the outs with a father, or another male relative? The problem throws more bad energy in the mix. Action is the key to smoothing the path for you two. Your relationship will stagnate if you don't put real work into it. Arrange for more productive time together -- take a class or get involved with a sport. Less time spent in serious discussions, and more time spent just enjoying each other's company, can start some good habits. But it's up to you to get the ball rolling. After all, you're the one who wants change.

Friend or Foe?

Mars opposite Mars

Exhausting Vigor

One look at your relationship confirms the old maxim: opposites attract. There's never a dull moment with you two. You're on the go, moving, shaking, impressing others with your magnificent, sparkling energy. Individually you are live wires; together you are a force of nature. But in many ways, you don't bring out the best in each other. You argue passionately; and even the equally passionate make-up sessions that follow don't make that stress worth it. One or both of you is always blowing hot and cold -- now you're together, now you're apart. All the tumult is confusing and stressful. The secret to turning things around is to bring a little calm to your storm. This is one relationship where you shouldn't be spending every minute together. Get involved in your own projects, maintain your own friendships. You can help each other out when needed, but you each need your own individual outlets for your prodigious energies. In addition, both of you are going to have to learn how to compromise. Turning your energies inwards will help -- you'll have less to unleash on each other.

Mercury opposite Pluto

It's Addictive

At times you feel like a lab rat. Is it your imagination, or does your partner kinda enjoy pushing your buttons? Your limits are tested, your reactions gravely noted. And when you finally fall into a towering rage, your lover turns off, cutting off the interaction as swiftly as a knife blow. It's all left you feeling confused and tender. But don't try seeking soft comfort in the arms of your lover, who'll despise you for what'll be viewed as weakness. If it's any comfort, the problems you see in your coupling aren't your imagination. Your lover really does have a rather cruel and secretive side, controlling and withholding. The thing you have to accept is that there's a huge part of you that digs the semi-abuse. You like the challenge of trying to tame your powerful lover. You like having a partner who won't let you walk all over them. And the very fact that affection is doled out in such small doses makes it so heady that you're addicted. Don't fight it. Submit. Go along, get along. This could be quite a ride if you could stop chafing under the saddle.

Jupiter opposite Pluto

Much Manipulation

Your love relationship's not always a comfy place to be. Both you and your sweetie seem more interested in manipulating each other than in being in love. You rage and pout. Your partner slams doors and withholds affection and reassurance. And both of you are driven absolutely crazy. You're feeling so frustrated that you're about to chuck everything in the garbage -- but don't be so quick to discard everything you've built so far. Your lover's a challenging mate, to be sure. But that's exactly what keeps you on your toes, and keeps you coming back for more. Splitting when the going gets rough will only ensure that you repeat the same patterns in your next relationship.What's needed is a dispassionate tallying up of the status of your relationship. What's working in your relationship? What's not? The ability to calmly take your connection's temperature is the first step to solving your problems. Found some issues that need a little work? Great! Get going! Talk about what you both want. Make agreements on how you're going to move from here to there. It's not fun, all this negotiating, but it's the only way to break you out of your rut.

Sun opposite Uranus

Unbalanced but Hot

Let's start with the bad news, shall we? Ultimately, you may want more from this relationship than your lover does. You're so very attracted, it's true; your lover is possessed of an original point of view, and a stylish way of doing things that impresses you. You're charmed, dazzled, turned on your head. So that's led you to ignore some of the warning signs you should have been heeding. Ask yourself some difficult questions. When the subject of permanence comes up, does your sweetie offer up plans of growing old with you in some rocker somewhere? Or does a strange silence suddenly fall? Better to have such conversations sooner rather than later, you know, when you're laying your heart on the line. If you want this thing to work, you simply have to scale back your expectations. C'mon, rustle up a little of that confidence that's always been yours to command. Don't expect your lover to be the cuddle-by-the-fire type. Instead, revel in a connection that's less constant, but more passionate. After all, who needs to snooze on a sofa when you can have long, hot sleepless nights instead?

Why Are We Involved, Again?

Mars quincunx Sun

One Spicy Meatball

Now here's a spicy meatball. Others envy your relationship, and they should, because what you have here is something pretty hot. You are equally attuned towards the pleasures of the flesh: sensual, lusty, sexy idylls can occur in the morning, noon, or night. Just being next to your lover is a delicious dream, and as you snuggle and drowse you're in heaven. But out of the bedroom, things aren't as rosy. Though you share many goals and interests, you just aren't as comfortable as you should be by this point in your relationship. You can't relax and let go. Your partner is reluctant to commit. Relax. Though your tendency is to move, to do, to go, your love relationship is a fruit on the vine that just needs a bit of ripening. Must you always be in such a hurry? Keep a lid on your rampaging ambition for once, and just enjoy what you've got. Be in the moment. Don't plan ahead; instead, just think about today. The friction between you will evaporate if you can start a chain reaction: Love, and bask, and laugh, and delight in what you've got instead of chafing.

Venus quincunx Uranus

Free Bird

Your lover is the ocean, and you're helplessly swept away by the waves. You're usually one to handle your affairs with a light, sure touch. Others may swoon or weep in your wake, but you're the one on top, confident and smiling. This particular amour, however, has flipped your switch but good. You were drawn to your sweetie right from the start. You ignored your good sense and went too far, too fast. Sometimes you feel helpless in the grip of a towering passion. Yet your lover isn't similarly enthralled. Have you been suspecting infidelity? Do strangers call your house and hang up when you answer? Is your lover absent for unusual lengths of time?You fear all is lost, but is does not have to be so. However, if you wish to stay where you are, you're going to have to work harder than you ever have before. You will not be able to make this lover dance to your tune; instead, you will have to learn how to play it cool and not reveal how affected you are by your lover's foibles. This is a bird who will not sing in your cage -- but let it fly free and it will surely come back to you.

The Ties That Bind

No conjunctions

Enjoying Togetherness and Apartness

There's glue, and then there's glue. Elmer's versus epoxy, Velcro versus nails. Fortunately, with no difficult conjunctions between you, your relationship is bound by the easy-to-separate type of togetherness, not the wild-horses-couldn't-drag-us-apart variety. Now, don't misunderstand: This is not to say that there's not a strong connection between you. But it's nice, isn't it, to be able to take the occasional separate vacation; to enjoy your own interests without your partner feeling threatened; to be two distinct individuals who choose to hang out together. Compare this to the joined-at-the-hip, can't-bear-to-be-apart couple. Don't you always wonder about them? What do they think will happen if they're not together for an entire evening, much less a day or even a week?Separation is not a problem for you two; in fact, you may do it by choice on a regular basis. After all, absence makes the heart grow fonder, and this is surely true of you and your partner. You take great joy in sharing your individual experiences, as well as in spending time together. If anything, you might have to make it a point to schedule in time to be together! You may each be so wrapped up in your own orbit that you suddenly realize that days or even weeks have gone by without you two sharing a full day together.Don't let that happen. Use the previous sections of this report to discover the challenges of your relationship, which so often turn out to be opportunities for growth and development. You two have chosen to be together, and likewise, you can choose to grow together.

Next Steps

I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!

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