The Friction, Differences and Karma Meters: every couple faces a certain set of challenges, and the number and type of challenges determine whether your relationship will be merely interesting or out-and-out difficult. At The Astrologer, we've broken down these challenges into three sections: sources of friction, the major differences between you, and the karmic ties from past lives that draw you together today.
On the first two meters, Friction and Differences, a score somewhere in the middle is probably best. Friction can be a good thing -- after all, the same energy that makes you lust after each other also makes you fight. And we all know that a good argument, like good sex, clears the air and lets you know your passion is alive! The same goes for differences between you in the ways that you think and view the world: These contrasts keep the relationship dynamic.
Karma, on the other hand, isn't such a great thing, even if your past-life bonds were positive ones. This lifetime is... Read more
7-10: Open warfare
4-6: The occasional dispute
0-3: Whatever you have to say dear
7-10: Who the $#@% are you, again?
4-6: Some interesting contrasts
0-3: Two Peas in a pod
7-10: New love, same old story
4-6: Total deja-vu
0-3: No past life ties (whew!)
Sun square Venus
Few can resist your magnetic, magnificent lover, and certainly you're not immune to your sweetie's many, many charms. So why is it you find yourself chafing under the bonds of your link? You find yourself irritated by things large and small; you pick fights when your sweetie would rather be snuggling on the sofa or making a hand-in-hand grand entrance at some glam party. Why is it you can't seem to relax and enjoy a relationship that looks so good on paper? The good news is that your relationship shows exceeding promise, if you can make it past the rough spots you experience. You and your mate share a certain generosity of spirit, enlivened by a love of good living and a desire to connect deeply with others. Yes, your pairing is challenging, because you demand the best from yourself and from others, and neither one of you will let the other one slack off. Learn to live up to each other's expectations. If you can rise to the challenge, you'll craft the kind of remarkable relationship that makes others envy what you've got.
Venus square Sun
Mmmm, yummy. Your relationship is the kind of warm place puppies like to curl up in. Both you and your sweetie are kindhearted and loving, sensual and sexy. Other people envy what you've got. But at the same time, there are cracks on the inside of your cocoon that don't show from the outside. You can be a bit of a stomper and a door-slammer -- and you've never been known for your fidelity. Think about it: if you actually have to set up rules for what's cheating and what's not, you're skirting close to a dangerous line. Your lover, on the other hand, can be self-righteous, vain, and impulsive. In a lot of ways, you rub each other the wrong way, picking stupid fights with each other, viewing each other's flaws with contempt. The answer lies in good old-fashioned hard work. Roll up your sleeves and schedule some time to work on your issues. Actual changes in your habits and behaviors are needed this time, not just a whole lot of hot air and empty promises. The reward for the work will be a deepened connection that'll grow with time. The penalty for doing nothing will be a crash and burn.
Mercury square Mercury
This relationship hasn't been easy from the beginning, and frankly, it's a wonder you've made it this far. You and your lover lack common ground. You have different beliefs and attitudes -- it could be you adhere to different political affiliations, or don't share common views on morals and ethics. In any case, your differences of opinion drive you apart. You start out in a friendly debate, but as both of you yak and yak away you cease to listen to each other. You feel you're constantly being interrupted, as if you can't get your words out. You don't see eye-to-eye, and it seems like you never will. But don't be so quick to turn your back on this sweetie. While it's true that things are sometimes strained between you, there is much potential for your future. Though it's hard for you to understand each other, you must keep working on it. In your heart of hearts, you share more than you realize. Keep on plugging. Keep on talking. Try to listen, and hear the intent behind the words as well as what's being said. You could really bring out the best in each other, somehow, someday.
No oppositions
Do you two have trouble walking a mile in each other's moccasins? Is it difficult for either of you to view things from your partner's perspective? In arguments as well as in day-to-day life, are you both so attached to your own points of view that you just can't comprehend where your sweetie is coming from?If you answered 'yes' to any of the above questions, it may be because the two of you lack any oppositions between you. An opposition is a somewhat stressful planetary connection, but it does something very important: It provides a wider perspective than just your own. Oppositions bring awareness of The Other and the ability to see things from your partner's point of view.Not being 'in opposition' to your lover might sound like a good thing, but look at it this way: When there are no oppositions present between you, it's like you're each going in your own direction, but your paths don't align. They don't cross and they don't run parallel. You're each simply moving along on your own track, one that's noticeably unrelated to your partner's.You each think you know the other, but if you took a test on each other's likes and dislikes, you probably wouldn't do as well as you think. There's a basic inability for either of you to look across the table at the other and see the person who's actually sitting there; you both have a strong tendency to view the other through your own looking glass, which distorts the picture. Finding the balance between you will require a lot of awareness and honesty on both your parts -- difficult, but not impossible.
Mars quincunx Sun
Now here's a spicy meatball. Others envy your relationship, and they should, because what you have here is something pretty hot. You are equally attuned towards the pleasures of the flesh: sensual, lusty, sexy idylls can occur in the morning, noon, or night. Just being next to your lover is a delicious dream, and as you snuggle and drowse you're in heaven. But out of the bedroom, things aren't as rosy. Though you share many goals and interests, you just aren't as comfortable as you should be by this point in your relationship. You can't relax and let go. Your partner is reluctant to commit. Relax. Though your tendency is to move, to do, to go, your love relationship is a fruit on the vine that just needs a bit of ripening. Must you always be in such a hurry? Keep a lid on your rampaging ambition for once, and just enjoy what you've got. Be in the moment. Don't plan ahead; instead, just think about today. The friction between you will evaporate if you can start a chain reaction: Love, and bask, and laugh, and delight in what you've got instead of chafing.
No conjunctions
There's glue, and then there's glue. Elmer's versus epoxy, Velcro versus nails. Fortunately, with no difficult conjunctions between you, your relationship is bound by the easy-to-separate type of togetherness, not the wild-horses-couldn't-drag-us-apart variety. Now, don't misunderstand: This is not to say that there's not a strong connection between you. But it's nice, isn't it, to be able to take the occasional separate vacation; to enjoy your own interests without your partner feeling threatened; to be two distinct individuals who choose to hang out together. Compare this to the joined-at-the-hip, can't-bear-to-be-apart couple. Don't you always wonder about them? What do they think will happen if they're not together for an entire evening, much less a day or even a week?Separation is not a problem for you two; in fact, you may do it by choice on a regular basis. After all, absence makes the heart grow fonder, and this is surely true of you and your partner. You take great joy in sharing your individual experiences, as well as in spending time together. If anything, you might have to make it a point to schedule in time to be together! You may each be so wrapped up in your own orbit that you suddenly realize that days or even weeks have gone by without you two sharing a full day together.Don't let that happen. Use the previous sections of this report to discover the challenges of your relationship, which so often turn out to be opportunities for growth and development. You two have chosen to be together, and likewise, you can choose to grow together.
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