Love Life Remedy

Sun in Aquarius

Improving Your EQ

Don't you love that old saying about Aquarians? 'They love humanity, it's people they can't stand!' You're awfully smart and have little patience for anyone not up to your intellectual standards. You dismiss them with a wave of your hand and a cutting but very funny insult. They creep away to lick their wounds while you enjoy your own humor and new sense of freedom. That is, until you've worked your way through all your friends, acquaintances and blind dates. It's not much fun when there's no one left to make fun of.If you want lovers to stick around, you're going to have to get over this notion that you're better because you're smarter. Intelligence isn't everything, Aquarius. The new buzzword is not IQ but EQ -- Emotional Quotient. Driving away partner after partner doesn't earn you a very high score on this scale. Improving the nature of your relationships and attracting your ideal partner will require a little more tolerance on your part, and you'll have to rein in that desire to mock them. Turn that humor on yourself, and everyone will feel a lot better.

Mercury in Aquarius

Talking Head

Let's be honest. You're a lot smarter than everyone else. You've left a lot of people, past partners included, choking on the dust of your warp-speed, far-reaching thought processes. If anyone dared challenge your ideas, you silenced them with a withering glare and a very funny yet pointed joke. While other people were stuck in 'what's always been,' your radical mind was reaching forward to the most unusual, unconventional theories. The further out, the better, as far as you were concerned. And you'd talk about them anywhere; at the dinner table, at a party, in bed. No wonder your lovers felt like stuffing a sock in your mouth.There's a time and a place for everything. Sooner or later you'll find an ideal partner who is as intelligent and articulate as you are, which may find you stumbling over your words. What's more, their ideas may not all agree with yours. So you'll have a choice: develop a little mental flexibility, entertain some new concepts and possibly adjust your own; or spend even more time isolated in your ivory tower of thoughts, all alone.

Venus in Aquarius

Dare to be Different

Remember the type of people that your mother warned you against? Well, that's exactly the type of person you're attracted to, not least because your mom said not to! You've got a rebellious streak a mile wide, and your attraction for the unusual and unique is even wider. Consequently, your previous lovers make the most interesting motley crew. It's all perfectly OK with you, though, because you're nothing if not tolerant of people's differences. And the things that attract you -- a bright mind, a friendly personality, an original outlook -- come in all shapes and sizes.You prefer to be friends before you're lovers, and often your exes remain your friends long after the fire of your passion has died out. Actually this works out well for you, because your need for freedom is pretty much off the charts, and there's far more freedom in friendship than there is in romance. In fact, you may keep interested lovers at arm's length because of this fact. Your ideal lover will be as eclectic and unconventional as you are, and equally unattached to romantic liaisons.

Mars in Taurus

Snuggle Puppy

Once you get going, you're fine. But getting yourself out of bed in the morning? That's a different story! It can sometimes be a Herculean task. Unless, of course, your lover is making a nice breakfast for you. That makes it a lot easier! Nothing gets you moving faster than the idea of some sensual temptation. Past lovers have all gained twenty pounds with you around, but oh, the memories! They'll feed the soul for many years to come. That's because you're master of the sensual plane. You appreciate earthly goods like no other, and it's hard to resist the pleasures you offer.Earthly pleasures clearly include physical affection, and you've got this all figured out. You're warm and snuggly, strong and solid, and those you like best come right on over for a big hug. The sad fact is that your inclination to always seek pleasure gets a little old to your partners. You're mighty self-indulgent and they don't always approve. You shrug and buy the next-larger size of jeans, but they give you 'that' look -- the one that lets you know they're disappointed in you for your lack of self-discipline. It's in you to do it their way, as long as you can have a cookie after dinner.

Jupiter in Aquarius

Focus on the Future

You eyes are focused far into the future, which means that you miss certain things in the here and now, such as the ways in which your relationships may suffer due to lack of attention on your part. Humanity's greater good is a wonderful cause to devote your energies toward, but there are problems in the present that need your attention, too, such as your lover groveling at your feet for some of your attention. To everything there is a season, and there comes a point when it's appropriate to lay down your mission and be attentive to your immediate environment. This requires more than simply putting down the latest tome you've been reading. You must switch gears completely and get out of your head, the cerebral my-space in which you're lost so much of the time. True relations require heart and body as well as the mind. Your ideal partner will share your passion for humanity, but will also seek balance by insisting that you spend time doing more mundane and exciting tasks as well. Take care of today properly, and tomorrow will take care of itself.

Saturn in Gemini

Head to Head

Think back on your most recent relationships. How often did you utter the words 'I love you'? If you can count the number of times on the fingers of one hand, you have a big clue as to a major part of your relationship problems. You don't like to express emotions. Your thought processes are geared toward evidence, logic and what can be tangibly perceived with the senses. Feelings frustrate you, because they cannot be measured, calculated or based in historical fact. They are ephemeral, inconstant and by their very nature, impossible to confirm by facts or figures.Not everyone is in the same mental boat as you. Most people like to have the liberty to express their feelings at any given time. After you've required them to quantify their emotions, they don't stick around to tell you how they feel anymore; they move on to greener pastures. You're smarter than you realize; give yourself some credit, and stop expecting all forms of communication to be factual or cerebral. Create a pathway from your heart to your mind and articulate your feelings. You, and your partner, will be glad you did.

Uranus in Libra

Upsetting the Apple Cart

You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents. You may decline to participate in long-term relationships altogether, or you may completely rewrite the rules of marriage, factoring in the need for freedom within a relationship. Open marriages, having multiple partners at a time or having different partners for different personal needs are all ways of revolutionizing the world of partnership and romance. Your own relationship history will reflect the changes in the world around you. You and those born around the same time as you will leave a mark on the world that will last for many decades.

Neptune in Sagittarius

The Road to Learning

You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?

Pluto in Libra

Serious Relationships

You and your peers will revolutionize the arena of relationships and romances. As a child, you watched partnerships crumble all around you, if not your own parents', then the relationships of your friends' parents; and you decided early on that you wouldn't repeat the same pattern. You take relationships very, very seriously, and for this reason may wait to start dating or getting serious about anyone. You're not in any hurry, which provides you with enough time to understand yourself and your relationship needs. Don't delay too long, though! Fear of relationship can be just as harmful as hooking up too early. Your challenge will be in finding the right balance of independence and partnership, and in knowing how much of your personal energy to expend toward each.

Sun square Mars

Power Struggles

Of course you have relationship issues! You're attracted to powerful personalities and when you get together with this type of person, you're bound to strike sparks. You are a force of nature yourself and you tend to be impulsive and fearless, lusty and straightforward, with a confidence that rivals the best of 'em. You stride through life with a daring that others only wonder at. When you're in a relationship, your libido shoots off the charts -- but unfortunately, your conflicts with your honey often rival your passion. Titanic arguments, friction, a link that always seems to be teetering on self-destruction -- you never heard love was easy, but does it have to be this hard? You've got to learn to give. You can't struggle over everything or you'll waste your prodigious energies just treading water rather than moving forward. You must learn to accept what you can't change. Stop hounding your lovers over issues that are mere annoyances instead of true deal-breakers. If you manage to quell your troublesome quibbling, you can look forward to some special relationships.

Mercury square Mars

Curtailing the Curmudgeon

You have a basic relationship problem: You're a hothead. Easy to insult and quick to criticize, you get in fights over the silliest things, and pursue each battle to the death. These problems are at the very root of the failure of your past pairings. Though you make connections that are passionate and intense, they're also inclined to tumult, since you tend to view any difference of opinion as a threat to your ego. Not only that, but you also find yourself cursed with a curious compulsion to talk incessantly, or to blurt out the most inappropriate things, or a habit of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. You're going to have to work on your communication skills if you want future romances to be more successful. You'll never meld together smoothly with others if you don't put some time in. Schedule regular time to sit down calmly with a disinterested third party and work out your issues. If you feel yourself moving toward a rager, resolve to table the issue until your next session instead. If you can get a little distance, gain a little perspective, you can learn to appreciate what others have to give, and how to avoid alienating them.

Venus square Uranus

Love's a Wild Ride

Yours are the kind of romances that make for great stories later -- in other words, they haven't always been easy. You and your lovers were drawn to each other right from the start. It always happened so fast. One minute you were on your first date, and the next you were on the phone to your best friend, saying, 'This is the ONE!' You kept falling into love so quickly that you didn't look where you were headed, and therein lies the problem. You keep choosing such darned tricky, unstable sweeties. They are full of electric excitement, of drama and blistering, little-hairs-standing-up-on-the-back-of-your-neck passion. But as you've no doubt found out, they also signify upheaval, disruption, a heaping helping of the wrong kind of excitement.Well, if nothing else, you've had yourself one heck of a ride so far. And if you're willing to hang on, accepting all the bumps and jolts that are sure to come your way, more thrills will be yours. One thing you can say for your relationships -- they're absolutely never boring. For best results, learn to enjoy the wild ride.

Mars square Jupiter

Bringing Out the Best

There's something unhealthy about your relationships, and you're just beginning to figure things out. What are the unsavory acts or emotions your past lovers have triggered in you? Your worst side has been emphasized in the presence of your lovers; you became more aggressive, temperamental, egotistical and impatient, while their tendencies toward laziness and excess seemed to swell when you were around. You may still be paying off the accumulated debt you accrued with past partners (perhaps credit card debt, gained from your tendency to spend too much on fripperies), and you may still have difficulty keeping to a budget. Even worse, your sharply dissonant views on matters like beliefs, ethics, politics and education meant that you had difficulty finding common ground with past partners.Nonetheless, opportunities abound for a fine connection. You have a certain drive and passion, and are openhearted and loving. Potential lovers surround you. If you can find a way to compromise, a way to look past the differences you have and create new habits that serve you both rather than creating problems, then you can have a very solid and sweet relationship indeed.

No Oppositions

No Sympathy

You're pretty secure in your own viewpoint. You're not the wishy-washy type, and if you are, you're absolutely dedicated to each particular opinion -- even if you completely change your mind five minutes later. In short, you've got the courage of conviction, but in your past relationships, this often looked to your partners like smugness, or even emotional neglect. Even when you felt certain that you understood them and their feelings, they were still upset that you just didn't get where they were coming from. If they were the patient, communicative type, they might have kept trying for a while before giving up on you. If they were the short-fused type, they probably left in a huff the first time you gave them that blank look that meant, 'What's the problem, babe?' Sympathy and empathy are essential to a functional intimate relationship. You and your lover are two completely different people, and while you'll each experience life from your own unique perspective, you still need to be able to translate your experiences to each other, and you both need to feel respected and understood. In future relationships, you'll have to work on listening to your partner when they describe their feelings or how they view a particular situation. Even if what they describe sounds utterly foreign -- and therefore negligible -- to you, take them seriously anyway. You may even need to remind yourself on a regular basis that their feelings and perspective are every bit as valid as your own.

Venus quincunx Saturn

Relationship Baggage

The problems in your past relationships might not have been a problem for everyone, but given your makeup, they were for you. You've had a hard time connecting with anyone on the physical level. You lacked heat with your lovers. When you kissed you didn't feel butterflies; in fact, you had to work to feel anything at all. Worse, you chose lovers who tended to be somewhat cold, withholding the easy affection and cuddling that might have make up for a lack of ardor elsewhere. The answer lies, surprisingly, in your distant past. Why are you so intent on showing your love physically? What would it mean to you to have a lover who yearns for an erotic connection with you? What insecurities of yours are tweaked by a lover who can resist your wiles -- and just who in your past does this attraction/repulsion, push/pull scenario remind you of? Once you rid yourself of your emotional baggage, your ideal relationship could be blessed with lasting stability. The power is within you, so get to work!

Mars quincunx Neptune

Something Fishy's Going On

There's something a little off in your relationship history, something unhealthy lurking just beneath the surface of each pairing. Were you or your lover dealing with issues of addiction? Was one of you being unfaithful to the other? Did problems from the past make themselves known in the present? There was something fishy going on, but it was insubstantial, difficult to grasp and see. But likely it could have been that you weren't looking honestly at your problems, that you ignored what you saw and just blithely focused on day-to-day issues. You didn't dare look any deeper; in your heart of hearts you knew there was something your lover wasn't telling you. It's always been difficult for you, the straight-ahead communicator, to read signs and vibes, but you're going to have to learn, and fast, if you want your relationships to improve.Your best bet in partnerships is to to face your problems squarely. Bring them out into the light and they won't seem so mysterious and looming. Ask questions. Listen to the answers. It's not that your lover means to withhold information, it's just that you're so intimidating at times. Your relationship problems aren't insurmountable, just difficult -- and figuring out what you have to work with is your first step.

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