The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Love Life Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
You're a picture of loyalty, and that's admirable. Once in a relationship -- not an easy task in itself, due to your shy and vulnerable nature -- you'd no sooner leave than you'd sell your favorite piece of furniture. Too bad you forgot to warn your sweetie about your 'cold spells.' You're not unlike a turtle; you're just fine as long as you feel safe and comfortable, basking in the sun, arms and legs stretched out. But the moment anything happens, you snatch yourself inwards, withdraw under your shell, and there's no getting you out until you feel comfortable once again, at some undetermined point in the future. In real life, this translates to moodiness, cold shoulders and sealed lips, and it's no mystery why someone else would quickly get tired of such behavior.It's not so bad out here, Cancer. Your ideal partner will provide a warm and safe place for you to express your fears, but you'll never know that if you don't come out and try. It will take a big leap of faith, but it's one that will pay off in spades for you.
Isn't it great, always being right? You're so confident of your ideas, so inspiring in your speech, so convincing to others, that there's really no reason for anyone else to hold the microphone, is there? You may as well keep it, because as soon as you're finished expressing yourself, you're going to direct the group in what to do next. That's why your past lovers have nicknamed you 'Sarge.' Which, frankly, works for you. That way, fewer people challenge you, because you don't like being challenged. Just who do they think they are, anyway? Well, maybe they're someone important to you who just happens to think a little differently. They're not trying to shoot you down, despite what you think. They're just questioning one of your unquestioned concepts, and it would be to your benefit if you would listen. If you didn't cling so stubbornly to your own ideas, you could expand your mind with some new ones.
You're flirtatious, fickle and funny, and you've probably left a long string of unclaimed lovers in your wake. Even on the rare occasions when you settle down long enough to form an actual relationship with someone, you're out the door as soon as the idea of commitment or longevity comes up. That's just not your style! No one satisfies you for long, because the wind changes direction frequently in the climate of your romantic fascinations. Your head turns here, your eyes turn there. Be careful that you don't wind up with disjointed vertebrae!You chat up anyone who will sit still. You love to share ideas and you welcome new people and intellectual input into your life. You seduce lovers with your wit and charm. Sooner than later, you'll meet your match: someone as intelligent as you, who can match you joke for joke. They'll come fully equipped with their own set of friends and will expect you to get along with them, too. How does it feel to have a taste of your own medicine? Suddenly commitment doesn't seem like such a bad idea.
You have so many wonderful qualities to offer: pride, leadership, strength, ardor. Why, then, do you get offended so very easily when someone says something against you? Your quick overreaction to challenges and criticisms suggests that maybe you're not quite as confident as you pretend to be. More than one previous partner has said that you're defensive, and that you can't take a joke or even recognize one. Which, of course, makes it all the more tempting to play jokes on you! Why not, when the results are so satisfying?Lighten up, and you'll have just as much fun as the next guy. Don't let them get under your skin; it's really not worth it. Criticisms are often honest statements of your lover's point of view, rather than the purposely hurtful barbs that you perceive them to be. As far as jokes go, you can deflect them with humor of your own -- but not at anyone else's expense, of course; you know how much that hurts! Next time, choose a lover who's not such a jokester, but one who will appreciate your many fine characteristics without feeling compelled to make fun of them. They will be amply rewarded with the fine love that you shower down on them.
In your drive for material security and wealth you have no doubt left some crying hearts out in the cold. By dint of your hard work and effort, you are very likely to achieve your worldly ambitions. But with whom will you share the proceeds of your success? The whole subject of relationships puts you in quite a pickle. Hook up with someone early on and they'll complain that you're an absentee lover. Hook up after your achieve success, and you'll always wonder if they just want you for your money.What to do?If there is one thing you lack in your life, it is balance. You can counteract the negative effects of too much time at the office with a warm and cuddly relationship at home; but to maintain that relationship, you'll have to work a little less and -- gasp -- take the occasional day (or week) off in order to make time for your honey. It's not all about money, fortune and fame. Think seriously about your priorities and you'll realize: Loved ones come first. When you're old and gray and sitting in your rocker, you won't be remembering all those hours spent at the office. Instead, you'll think back on the love you've had -- and let's hope not the love you lost to workaholism.
Think back on your most recent relationships. How often did you utter the words 'I love you'? If you can count the number of times on the fingers of one hand, you have a big clue as to a major part of your relationship problems. You don't like to express emotions. Your thought processes are geared toward evidence, logic and what can be tangibly perceived with the senses. Feelings frustrate you, because they cannot be measured, calculated or based in historical fact. They are ephemeral, inconstant and by their very nature, impossible to confirm by facts or figures.Not everyone is in the same mental boat as you. Most people like to have the liberty to express their feelings at any given time. After you've required them to quantify their emotions, they don't stick around to tell you how they feel anymore; they move on to greener pastures. You're smarter than you realize; give yourself some credit, and stop expecting all forms of communication to be factual or cerebral. Create a pathway from your heart to your mind and articulate your feelings. You, and your partner, will be glad you did.
You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents. You may decline to participate in long-term relationships altogether, or you may completely rewrite the rules of marriage, factoring in the need for freedom within a relationship. Open marriages, having multiple partners at a time or having different partners for different personal needs are all ways of revolutionizing the world of partnership and romance. Your own relationship history will reflect the changes in the world around you. You and those born around the same time as you will leave a mark on the world that will last for many decades.
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
You and your generation were born just before, spent your formative years in or came around just after the revolutionary 1960s, and in many ways, you carry forward this revolutionary energy into the future. You expect a lot from life and from your romantic partners; perfection would suit you just fine! Unfortunately, Real Life rarely delivers perfection, so you may spend your life in fruitless pursuit of it. Yet while you may never find the perfection you seek, you'll make the world a much better place in the meantime. Your relationships should fulfill a practical need as well as romantic ones; your best partnerships will have goals above and beyond your romantic liaison.
Hey, jealous lover! It can't be helped that you've chosen such intense and difficult partners, but did you have to reveal your insecurities so nakedly? You should have had a little pride -- no one likes to be begged. Particularly not your button-pushing significant others, who enjoyed your predicaments just a little too much. You were over a barrel, wondering where they were every second you weren't together. What's worse, you then went searching for clues. Emails, phone calls, notes in pants pockets... Shame on you. You let your emotions get the better of you, and it was not a pretty picture. Time to pick yourself up and dust yourself off.The problem lies in the lovers you've picked. Your partners were sexy and compelling, magnetic and irresistible. But there were a lot of negatives along for the ride as well. You're a strong soul, but you'll never be the one in complete power. So it's time to muster your inner confidence, and vow neither to control nor to be controlled. Be your own person instead. Make your own choices. Follow your own path. Your ideal sweetie will come around once it's clear that you're no mere worm to be trod upon -- and won't being wooed feel great for a change?
You're a person who likes to have a lot of fun with their partner. In the past, you've chosen lovers who were as intelligent, expansive and cheerful as you, and you liked people who had interests in common with yours. And that's a good thing. You've been part of some warm, dynamic duos that other people wanted to be around, just so they could bask on your glow. However, what outsiders didn't see was the somewhat hollow middle beneath the gleaming exterior of your relationships. You were so busy having fun together, so immersed in enjoying yourselves, that you never bothered to dig deep. Did you even discuss what each of you wanted from the relationship? What direction you hoped to go in, and when? You're fun and attractive so you have no problem meeting people. You are well-placed to move ahead into a fulfilling and lasting relationship. But in order to get there, you're going to have to do some work. Talk about what you want, and listen to what your lover is looking for. Do not ignore what you hear in order to gloss over any potential conflicts; instead, seek compromises. The longevity you seek can be yours provided you are willing to bend just a little.
You always go for sweet-natured lovers, don't you? Kindhearted, loving, lovable. Your family approves, your friends are big fans and everyone tells you how lucky you are to have landed such a fine fish. Yet you've never been able to just relax and enjoy yourself when you've been with someone. You feel uneasy just beneath the surface, and you can't quite put your finger on it. Everything looks great on paper. You shared so many fine qualities with each person: integrity, generosity, a desire to be genuinely good and helpful to others. Why is it you've never seemed able to connect? Your relationships feel forced, strained. You struggle to make conversation. You just can't relax. Unfortunately, what you fear in your heart of hearts is the case: It will take a lot of effort on your part for love ever to run smoothly. You can never relax into easy contentment. The fundamental problems you've already glimpsed will not dissipate. But you have so much to offer. Remember what so attracted your past lovers to you -- that expansive sense of humor, your generosity, your intense good will. If it's worth enough to you, you'll find a way to work around the rough spots in your love life. A little humility and a big smooch can go a long way.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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