Love Life Remedy

Sun in Taurus

Built for Comfort, Not Speed

Once you've committed to a relationship, it takes a real force of nature to unglue you. Even when your connection has long outlived its utility, you will stick around, plodding along in the same old rut, working and earning, taking comfort in routine and sweeping problems under the rug. Your stubborn refusal to change anything about yourself weighs down those around you as much as it prohibits your forward motion, but it usually takes quite a shocking event for you to perceive this. Jolted out of complacency, your dogmatic and rigid tendencies evaporate, leaving a morass of vulnerability and uncertainty.Once you've found your ideal partner, the cycle starts again, but this time you've got a heads up. You can steer problems off at the pass instead of hoping they'll just go away, and you swear to take a different route to work at least once a week. Handling these issues leaves you free to emphasize your most wonderful qualities: your affectionate, physical expressions of love, your grounded sensuality, your stability and love of comfort. Surround yourself and your sweetie with all the earthly pleasures you can afford.

Mercury in Gemini

Fast Talker

You talk a lot, but are you really saying anything? You think fast and speak faster, anxious to get your many thoughts out before any of them slip away. A glutton for information, you read everything you can get your hands on, with no discrimination whatsoever. It's information for information's sake. Your restless mind and undisciplined tongue have gotten you in trouble in your past relationships, and no wonder. When you don't listen, others get annoyed. People become irritated with your short little span of attention, and partners tire of tripping over all the books you've started but not finished. In conversation, your wandering eye reveals your boredom.There's not much you can do to change your energetic, active mind, but you can certainly divert it. Exercise a lot and you'll be less nervous. Take up a craft like knitting or woodworking to keep your fingers busy. Fortunately, you're good at meeting people, and social interaction is another way to entertain your mind, if you develop a few simple social skills. Your ideal partner will be as intelligent as you are. You'll be friends before you're lovers -- and maybe afterwards, too.

Venus in Cancer

A Real Softie

You may be emotionally cautious when first entering a relationship, but once a person is in your heart, it's for keeps. You feel deeply committed to them, and herein lies your vulnerability, for, you fear, what if they aren't so committed to you? Your natural reaction is to start taking care of them, not only out of your own natural inclination to do so, but also in order to keep them around. Quickly, an energy imbalance develops. Once again, you give more than you get -- much more. Extricate yourself from such relationships immediately. Resolve to restrain your love until you find someone deserving of it. Your ideal mate will have a heart as tender as yours and will not wander from your protective gaze. You've earned a love like this, one that will provide you comfort instead of worry, a person who will take care of you as well as you take care of them. You've got caretaking energy to spare, so spend it on a pet, or in your garden, tenderly nurturing living things.

Mars in Pisces

Passive Attraction

Your previous lovers have all had the same complaint: They were always the one to initiate sex. If they had waited around for you to do it, they'd still be waiting! It's not that you don't like sex, because you do, a lot. That dreamy, sensual space between time and reality is one of your favorite places to be; why then is it so hard for you to send a signal to your lover that you're ready to hop in the sack with them? Maybe if they weren't so gosh-darned aggressive, they'd give you a chance.Your ideal lover will realize this about you, and won't put any pressure on you to perform when you don't feel like it. You tire easily, so often it's better for you to wait till the morning, or at least until you've had a nap. You, more than most, are not at your best when you're exhausted. Once you find a lover who lets you set the schedule, who provides some sort of stability to your dreaminess and who shares their heart as well as their body, you both will be in happy land. Finally, a relationship with all of the joys and none of the pressures.

Jupiter in Aries

Me First

You're not afraid to go where others fear to tread. You're a pioneer, a groundbreaker, a trendsetter. You're happiest when you're the center of attention. The trouble with your pesky past relationships is that you've had to share the limelight, which doesn't come easily for you. Oh, you've tried to work with it. You tried to choose someone who needed an equal amount of attention, but you got resentful. You tried someone else who disappeared into the background, and you got bored. This presents quite the dilemma for you, does it not?Pride prevents you from giving up, and why should you, anyway? You've got a lot to offer your ideal partner. You've got the self-confidence to attract someone wonderful, as long as that confidence does not develop into hubris, which would prevent you from recognizing a potential Perfect Partner to begin with. You know what you want, and you recognize it when you see it; you're not willing to compromise on the qualities you're looking for in a lover. You're most likely to meet this lover in your day-to-day activities and business affairs, so the search isn't limited to evenings and weekends. Keep your eyes peeled for that special someone. You'll have the initiative and gumption to get things going.

Saturn in Cancer

Reason to Believe

If you're one of the rare people who received unconditional love from both parents at an early age, your relationships are probably in fairly good shape, despite your reticence at expressing your true feelings. But if you're like most of us and suffered through an imperfect childhood, it's those experiences that have affected your relationships thus far in your life. Your feelings are wounded very easily, but rather than confront the person who has hurt you, you nurse your wounds in private and add the experience as the latest in a long line of examples of the reality of the cold, cruel world. You trust few, or maybe even no one. Your fear of connection is palpable, not because you're afraid of love, but because you're afraid of losing it. At this rate, sooner or later, you might get out of touch with your feelings altogether.You may always hunger for the emotional stability you lacked as a child, but that doesn't mean you can't find it as an adult. The big news is, there's more than one person out there in the world who can provide it for you. But to find them, you've got to believe it's possible. Let this be your mantra: 'I deserve love.' Cast out the disbelief inside you, and have faith that you'll find what you seek.

Uranus in Libra

Upsetting the Apple Cart

You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents. You may decline to participate in long-term relationships altogether, or you may completely rewrite the rules of marriage, factoring in the need for freedom within a relationship. Open marriages, having multiple partners at a time or having different partners for different personal needs are all ways of revolutionizing the world of partnership and romance. Your own relationship history will reflect the changes in the world around you. You and those born around the same time as you will leave a mark on the world that will last for many decades.

Neptune in Sagittarius

The Road to Learning

You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?

Pluto in Libra

Serious Relationships

You and your peers will revolutionize the arena of relationships and romances. As a child, you watched partnerships crumble all around you, if not your own parents', then the relationships of your friends' parents; and you decided early on that you wouldn't repeat the same pattern. You take relationships very, very seriously, and for this reason may wait to start dating or getting serious about anyone. You're not in any hurry, which provides you with enough time to understand yourself and your relationship needs. Don't delay too long, though! Fear of relationship can be just as harmful as hooking up too early. Your challenge will be in finding the right balance of independence and partnership, and in knowing how much of your personal energy to expend toward each.

Venus square Jupiter

Learning from Excess

You're a social butterfly, a gleeful hedonist, an appreciator of the finer things in life. In past relationships, you've chosen partners who have egged you on in your hedonistic ways. Limits were ignored and sensibilities offended. Your big heart was opened to far too many. Your freewheeling, easy lifestyle helped you blissfully ignore the morning after. But excess has its downside: squandered resources, and that doesn't just mean money.Your ideal sweetie is more attuned to the intellectual, as well as tangible signposts of financial success. At first they may seem rather stodgy and too wrapped up in matters of the mind. They could find you to be impractical and self-indulgent. Who'll be right? Both of you! But however it may seem on the surface, any mismatch in values and interests you have with your ideal love won't be as difficult to bridge as it seems. You will each temper the other. You'll help your lover to lighten up and enjoy life, while your lover will teach you how to set goals and reach them. Though you must plow through some friction to meet in the middle it will be well worth the effort. By learning from each other you will both become better people.

Venus square Pluto

The Upper Hand

Oooh, you like 'em hot. Your friends are all jealous of you. How do you keep bagging such magnetic, sexy specimens? You're in awe yourself. You get so attracted that you can barely think -- and there's the rub. You wish you could wrap your lovers around your little finger with your sultry and seductive power, but most times you've found a sweetie who won't let you have the upper hand. They've got you waiting around for phone calls. You've let your lover decide where you were going, and when, and how. You've even kept silent rather than expressing any negative feelings, for fear your lover might run in the other direction. Ouch! Doesn't it feel awful to be so squelched?Here's a little secret -- as much as your lovers seem to want to control you, giving all your power away will soon make them view you with contempt, not adoration. It doesn't have to be this way. You're plenty powerful enough to get what you need from another. Marshall your confidence and fight back. Ask for what you want. Demand equal time and equal power. Winning a few battles is the only way you can ultimately win the war.

Jupiter square Saturn

Action Gets Things Rolling

You've certainly admired your past loves. There's been such a studiousness about them, a certain drive and appreciation for hard work that lit up your inner scholar. But you longed for more lightness, more fun. Everything was a slog. Each little detail had to be nailed down and planned. Nothing was spontaneous and romantic and breathless; it was all work and no play, and that made you a dull sweetie. It's not that you didn't appreciate finding a solid, stable love mate, not after all the losers you'd been through before. Just that you would've appreciated a little more levity. There may also have been family problems that threw more bad energy in the mix. Activity is the key to smoothing the path for your future relationships. They will stagnate if you don't put real work into them. Arrange for more productive time with your ideal partner -- take a class! Get involved with a sport. With less time spent in serious discussions and more time spent just enjoying each other's company, you can start some good habits. But it's up to you to get the ball rolling. After all, you're the one who wants change.

Mercury opposite Neptune

Loose Lips

Are you sitting down? Here's a news flash: Past lovers see you as a great big blabbermouth. You handed them the microphone and invited them to share. They trusted you to be the repository of their most private, heartfelt dreams, hopes and secrets. Then, you turned around and divulged them all to the next pair of ears who would listen. It hurt them. It was betrayal, and you knew it. And yet you couldn't seem to stop doing it, even though you knew you were misbehaving. Your lovers were sweet, optimistic and certainly stuck on you. But all the drifty dreaminess drove you simply mad; the missed appointments, the crossed signals. The truly funny thing is, it was you, not them, who created this problem. Don't depend on logic to find your ideal mate. You're particularly vulnerable to confused thinking. Instead, make a list of the most important qualities you want in a partner, and drag out the list when you encounter a likely candidate. Let that be your tip of the hat to your brain. Then, follow your heart.

Jupiter opposite Pluto

Is it Love, or Is it Manipulation?

Your past love relationships were not always a comfy place to be. Both you and your sweeties seemed more interested in manipulating each other than in being in love. You raged and pouted. They slammed doors and withheld affection and reassurance. You finally felt so frustrated that you chucked everything into the garbage. Too bad you were so quick to discard everything you'd built so far. Your lovers were challenging mates, to be sure. But that's exactly what kept you on your toes and coming back for more. Splitting when the going got rough only ensured that you'd repeat the same patterns in your next relationship.What you need is a dispassionate tallying up of the status of your past hookups. What worked in your relationships? What didn't? And the next time you get together with someone who's worth your while, put your newfound skills to the test. The ability to calmly take your connection's temperature is the first step toward solving your problems. Find some issues that need a little work, and then get going! Talk about what you both want. Make agreements on how you're going to move from here to there. It's not fun, all this negotiating, but it's the only way to break you out of your rut.

Mars quincunx Uranus

A Stunning Ride

Have your past lovers all had the roaming eye? Have you named those butterflies of suspicion in your belly? Or did you just get all worked up over what you imagined to be the truth? The main problem in your relationships has been that you, in your haste to activate your attraction, have chosen to grab on to some live wires. Your partners have a history of tumult, of disruptions, of passionate but unreliable love affairs. You've had excitement to spare, but you've missed the security and calm you gave up to follow your lovers thither. You may have felt as if you were doing all the giving while your lovers did all the taking, or as if you were far more attached to romance than your sweeties were.Sorry: Even with all your force and drive and might, you can't harness a hurricane. Your ideal lover will shake things up, and can't help but to be quicksilver rather than a rock. You may have to worry about infidelities, and you certainly won't be getting any balm for your insecurities. So what will you have? A hot, hot lover who's so enthralling that they're worth the shaking up. Stop demanding what you cannot have, and just hang on and enjoy the ride -- it's a stunner.

Saturn quincunx Neptune

Move Forward by Letting Go

Past indiscretions have a way of coming back to you, and yours have rebounded on you more than once when your partners discovered something you wanted to keep hidden. You felt exposed and insecure. What you feared came to be true -- your lovers thought less of you than before. But what you didn't know was that the shift was due more to your secrecy than to your actions. How can a mate trust you if you keep things hidden? Come on, open up. Reveal all the aspects of the situation. What were you doing and how did you feel at the time? How has this affected your life? How have you changed since then?Opening up like this is quite uncomfortable for you. You would much rather revert to your usual pattern, pretending that nothing's going on while you bury your head in work. You also fear you'll be rejected if your ideal lover learns the whole truth about you. But you must let some air into your dark closet. It's hard to breathe back there! Let your lover know what's up; explain the repercussions of your past choices, and how you're making better choices now, starting with them. It's scary being an open book, but you can only move forward by letting go.

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