The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
Love isn't just a possibility between you; it's very likely, especially if other aspects of your relationship agree on a positive, affectionate connection. From the start, there will be a sense of sweetness and tender devotion between you. You'll truly like each other, and if other conditions support the relationship moving forward, then like will almost certainly grow into love. You'll feel quite attracted to each other, whether that's at an overtly physical level or one that's more akin to a natural affinity. The sense of ease and comfort between you will smooth the way for a truly sublime partnership. The magnetic promises of this influence will easily outweigh any difficulties that may come with your relationship, and the sense of romance this aspect brings will work to counterbalance any challenges you face as a couple, keeping you feeling great about each other and the relationship. On a day-to-day basis, you're likely to be courteous, thoughtful and considerate with each other. You'll enjoy getting out and being social together, and you'll be known as a loving, affectionate and romantic couple.
This relationship will be nothing if not emotionally intense. In fact, it will have a profound transformative effect on both of you. If you stay together for any length of time, it's almost impossible that you'll remain unchanged. You'll teach each other everything you know about life and love, but more than that, simply being together and interacting will shift the whole way you think about the important things in life -- your general outlook or philosophy, perhaps, or the way you deal with your emotions. Your self-expression will also change a great deal through the course of knowing and loving each other. You'll deepen in your self-awareness, and you'll be able to use this knowledge to enhance not only this relationship but your connections with everyone in your life. The sexual connection you two share will also be highly emotional, and you'll both derive a great deal of emotional sustenance from your physical bond. This will be an important part of your connection.
You'll feel really good when you're together -- easy and friendly, in a simple and natural way. There will be a philosophical focus to this relationship that makes you both want to trade interesting ideas and theories rather than meaningless small talk. You'll love discussing your beliefs and exploring the world around you, whether via conversation, documentary films or travel. This won't just be simple fun; it will also be important for your mutual development. You'll both really want to broaden your horizons. Exploring philosophies and increasing your understanding of yourselves, each other and your places in the world will be a significant part of your connection. You may also feel as if being together brings you luck. Opportunities will certainly seem to have a way of popping up, but it's a lot more likely the result of the fact that you'll keep each other tuned in to recognizing opportunities as they happen -- ones you might miss on your own. The good attitude you foster in each other will keep you both looking toward the horizon as you move forward in life.
It could be really difficult for you two to understand each other. You have very different dispositions, and there will be plenty of times when you look at each other and think, 'Who is this person, anyway?' It will be all too easy to react to these differences with harsh criticism or attempts to control each other. If one of you tends to have a stronger, more aggressive personality, you're likely to be the one who will take on the more aggressively critical or controlling role, trying to push your partner to be more like the person you wish they could be. But it's not fair to place such restrictions on each other, and if you want the relationship to work out long-term, you'll both need to exercise a lot of patience and tolerance with each other. Try to accept your partner for who they are instead of nitpicking their behavior and ideas and constantly sending the message that they aren't good enough as they are. A strong, warm, mutual sense of love and affection will really help tone down the challenges of this influence; so will making sure to get enough time alone, apart from each other. That way, you'll enjoy your time together all the more, and you'll learn to appreciate the fact that you're two distinct individuals.
It will be hard to maintain any sense of stability or continuity in this relationship. Even if you'd like to settle down together and make a commitment, something will stop you -- some feeling of restlessness, perhaps, or a basic unwillingness to do anything so traditional or prescribed as making promises to each other about your level of involvement in the relationship. Possessiveness won't have a place in this connection, and freedom will be necessary for both of you, whether that means getting plenty of time away from each other, dating other people, or simply making sure to pursue your own passions and interests. If you do move toward a traditional type of commitment, such as marriage or living together, you'll both have to be very flexible about the amount of time and attention your lover puts into the relationship, because it will be variable at best. Living together could be a strange and interesting experience, actually. You could find it hard to relax together; you probably won't spend too many evenings on the couch, snuggling and watching TV. But at least you won't get bored! That's one of the positives of this influence: There will always be something new and unexpected going on between you.
You're intellectually and mentally compatible, and the similarities in your outlooks will help to foster a feeling of friendship between you. It's not that you'll always think in exactly the same ways; it's that your ideas and perceptions will complement each other and teach you both a lot about life and your places in the world. Your viewpoints will expand a great deal through being together, and you should both look for ways to increase this growth. Even when you disagree on some interesting, important subject, if you talk out the reasons for your disagreement, you'll both learn something. All this positive communication and healthy outlook will increase your idealistic feelings about the world as well as about your relationship. You'll actually help each other become more forgiving and patient with other people in general, because you'll teach each other about tolerance and a holistic view of humanity.
Giving and receiving love will come naturally to you as a couple, and you'll both delight in demonstrating your passionate feelings for each other. In fact, the intensity of your attraction and affection for each other will transform both of you, permanently and for the better -- no matter what happens with this relationship in terms of its longevity. This transformation may be noticeable, or it may be subtle; either way, it will be a shift in how you look at the world, and in how you respond to life. You're likely to find that being together somehow soothes your souls and makes both of you more whole. Your sexual connection will take on a lot of importance, as well, and being physical together will be similarly emotionally overpowering and therapeutic. Having children together is a distinct possibility here, because you'll both want to find ways to physically manifest your love, and children would be a wonderful way to carry on its legacy.
Spiritually and emotionally, you two will share an incredibly close, warm and romantic connection. You're likely to idealize each other at these levels; you'll both believe you've found the 'perfect love' in each other -- which, of course, is virtually impossible. Disappointment or disillusionment may be unavoidable, at least in moments, because idealization almost always leads to a fall when reality inevitably intrudes. But as long as you make the effort to stay at least somewhat grounded together, such as by facing down your problems as a united couple, you should be able to tap into the wonder and magic this influence has to offer. And you really will make each other feel wonderful! Your connection will help you both tune in more deeply to the beautiful, spiritual side of life. You'll feel your souls uplifted by the love that you'll share, and you'll both work hard to cherish the sense of harmony you feel when you're together. You'll intuit each other's emotional needs to a high degree and you'll work selflessly to meet those needs. Again, if you can stay grounded in other ways, this influence will lend a lot of creativity and subtle passion to your bond.
At times you'll find it difficult to get along and keep the peace, because your mutual partnership needs are at odds with your shared values as well as with the natural way you'll express affection for each other. You'll have to put real effort into making compromises, because cooperation won't come easily to you as a couple, especially in matters related to money, values or your relationship itself. Furthermore, when you're upset with each other, you'll have a hard time remembering why you're together and what you love about each other. Still, this tricky energy also offers you an important growth opportunity. If you can remember to keep giving one another affection and support even when you're embroiled in an argument, you'll both benefit. Also, make a conscious effort to work out your disagreements in a mutually satisfying way instead of becoming stubborn and insistent on having your own way. Learning to compromise and work together will be important lessons for you both, ones that will improve your connection as a whole.
You'll both find it difficult to let each other know how you really feel about each other. Even if you fall deeply in love, there will be some barrier to expressing your true passion. Maybe you'll feel too shy to do so, or maybe you'll worry that your partner doesn't return your feelings, so you'll stay quiet and keep yours in check. It's also possible that outside circumstances could get in the way of fully, freely expressing your affection, such as if one of you is still in love with someone else when you meet, preventing you from really letting go in this relationship. Your sexual connection may also be strained by this influence; you might find that you're out of sync in this area, with one of you feeling turned on and tuned in when the other isn't in the mood, and vice versa. You'll have to look at the other aspects in your composite chart to get an overall picture of the potential of your relationship, and to get a sense of how much this particular aspect will affect you as a couple. It may be something you can work on together, consciously opening yourselves up to expressing your affectionate feelings in a free and spontaneous way; but it may turn out that the barriers between you are too great to overcome.
About the only thing you can expect from this relationship is that it will be unconventional in some noticeable, important way. This influence between you will increase your feelings of restlessness and your mutual need for freedom, as well as any inherent instability in the relationship. This connection might become intense fast and then end even more suddenly; alternatively, it might defy convention in some way, especially if you try to make it conform to any type of traditional path such as marriage, moving in together and the like. It's possible for an influence like this to be outweighed by other harmonizing, uniting influences in your composite chart, but on its own, it indicates a short-lived, unstable, even erratic love connection. You may both desire a commitment and a warm, steady connection, but either your rapidly changing feelings or outside factors will make that difficult, if not impossible. Look at the other aspects in your composite chart to gain a more complete picture of the overall potential of your relationship; that will let you know how much of an effect this particular influence will have on you as a couple.
Your mutual partnership needs are a good match with the natural drive and energy of your connection, which means you shouldn't have much trouble asserting yourselves as a couple. You'll be well matched in terms of your shared sexual passion, and you'll have similar impulses when it comes to the ways you'll express anger, desire, will and more. You're likely to share similar goals for your relationship, and you'll pursue them with similar levels of energy and excitement. These similarities could be both positive and tricky, however. If you're naturally argumentative with each other, get ready for a fiery connection that rarely settles down! Of course, that will match up well with your partnership needs, which means that if you're both into a high-energy, challenging interaction, that might be just what you need to feel connected and engaged. Still, don't take these similarities for granted. You'll still need to work consciously on togetherness.
You'll help each other learn brand-new ways of being and behaving in a relationship, but this shouldn't be a difficult process. It should be a fun, exciting and engaging one, one that you're both happy to be involved in. You'll learn to be less possessive than you've ever been before, because freedom and individuality will be so highlighted. From your first meeting through your courtship and beyond, in many ways, this relationship won't follow the normal, prescribed course that you're used to. The best way to respond will be simply to accept things as they come. The fewer expectations you have, the better; that way, you'll be able to enjoy all the unpredictability and excitement. As long as you're both being genuine as well as enjoying yourselves and each other, there should be no problem! If other aspects between you signal an unstable or unpredictable affair, this influence will add to that energy, but it will also help make sure that your connection is still mutually enjoyable, and that you both grow through sharing this experience.
Separately, you might be the most placid, easygoing people in the world, but when you're together, your aggressive sides will come out in a big way. You'll both constantly try to prove you're right, provoking needless conflict. In the middle of an argument, you may know exactly how silly your behavior is, or how ridiculous the argument itself is, but you'll be hard-pressed to pull yourselves back under control. Something will just make you want to compete against each other -- force against force -- for domination. You'll find it almost impossible to set your egos aside, even when it comes down to what's best for you, your partner or the relationship itself. What does this mean on a day-to-day basis? Lots of arguments and hurt feelings. Lots of anger and aggressive, even hostile behavior. A hard time creating a lasting sense of harmony, togetherness, trust or intimacy. And while you may mistake this abundance of passion for the good kind -- the kind that makes it so fun to kiss and make up after a fight -- sooner or later, you might decide it's just not worth the heartache to stay in this relationship. There would have to be a lot of sweetness between you to counteract this level of aggression and hostility.
This influence will bring two seemingly opposed energies at work within your relationship -- expansion and restriction -- into harmony with one another. Instead of being pitted against each other, these energies will work together to balance each other out. They can serve to keep each other in check, allowing you to have adventures together and push toward new, exciting experiences, but without going too far or extending yourselves beyond your real means. It can also help with seeing each other realistically and setting your expectations for the relationship accordingly. Thus, you won't often put unnecessary demands upon each other, and you'll make a good team when it comes to setting long-term goals and working toward them at a steady pace. You'll treat each other with patience and calm acceptance, which will really help when you hit those rough patches. In short, you'll help each other to move forward in life in a practical way, feeling supported but not limited by your partner.
Your relationship will be about a lot more than simple mutual pleasure and good times. You'll both feel as if your connection is more important than that -- as if you've come together for some higher purpose, to achieve something profound. This influence may tone down the passion between you, turning what would otherwise be something spontaneous and often physical into something more spiritual, refined and restrained. But this restraint won't be unwelcome; instead, it will be something you impose on yourselves in order to honor your commitment to each other and to the relationship. You'll both put a lot of effort into creating an ideal bond, one that is emotionally and spiritually fulfilling. You'll spend time talking about what's most important to you in life, including your problems, and you'll help each other work on your issues and find ways to solve them. You'll look up to each other as mentors, because you'll each bring such an important and helpful influence to your partner's life. With this aspect between you, a long-term connection is a distinct possibility. If your relationship does continue, you'll always respect and look up to each other.
You'll be able to weather beautifully through the difficulties that will inevitably arise during the course of your relationship. This influence will help you work through problems with dedication and an eye for permanent, positive transformation, as long as you stay attuned to the need for change. It may be a little too easy to rely on the security this aspect brings and therefore resist change, but every intimate bond should be about growing and learning. Keep that in mind, and you'll be able to work together on the relationship in a gentle yet effective way, nurturing each other while creating a bond that makes you both feel safe and supported. This aspect ensures that if you both want to stay together, you'll be able to do so, no matter what problems come up between you, either within the relationship or outside of it. This influence gives you a lot of staying power as a couple. You'll find a great deal of strength within this bond, but it will be up to you to stay open and feeling -- meaning, keep your relationship fresh and evolving, so that your feelings for each other never grow stagnant.
You'll be much better off as a couple if you can train yourselves to deal with irritations as they come up instead of bottling them up inside, which will be your instinct. Bottling things up, of course, only makes them expand and eventually boil over, and at that point, the tension you've created may be way too hot to handle. Unfortunately, if you tend to irritate each other on a regular basis, the only thing for it will be to deal with each incident as it happens, clearing the air for the next one. Yes, this will be an annoying process, but it will be far worse to try to sweep your feelings under the rug, only to have them rear up later, far bigger and more insistent. This influence can actually have a healthy effect on your relationship if you can take it as a lesson in honesty and tact. You'll need both in dealing with each other, especially if your relationship progresses and you end up living together or getting married. But if you let tension build up between you too much, it could spell the end of the relationship.
You're a unique couple: everyone agrees on that. But you might never be appreciated for the things that make you truly special, since you reserve these things for each other. Besides that, you don't really care what others think of you, which gives you a lot of independence and freedom to be who you want to be as a pair. You'll rebel in one form or another or take the cutting edge on every subject you discuss. It's your unusual perspective and point of view that brings you together and makes your union different from the rest of the world. You may vividly express your wild side or it may be completely invisible from the rest of your life. Mostly, you just want to be free.
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
There is an intensity about you as a couple, and a certain mystery and charisma, accompanied by an aura of quiet power. This pairing has an internal force, a hidden treasure, and untapped depths. These are important qualities, but with nothing else to restrain or contain them, so they could be either untapped or over-tapped in this relationship. This connection is all about personal transformation and regeneration, and these processes could be turned into something that you feel is beyond your control. It is up to you to direct this powerful energy to accomplish deeds that benefit others besides yourselves.
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