Romantic Compatibility Guide

Venus sextile Venus

Sweet love

Whatever becomes of this relationship, this is a wonderful aspect to have between you, because it promotes such a feeling of attraction, sweetness and harmony. You feel really into each other, and the feeling isn't likely to fade fast, so it's very possible that this will become a long-term bond that is just what you're both looking for. You find it really easy to blend your lives and become a romantic team with shared goals for the future. You have really similar tastes: You like the same art, the same music, the same foods; you have the same tastes in what's fun to do on a date and where you envision your life to be five years from now. This aspect increases your physical attraction to each other; especially if there are other aspects between you to support a strong physical bond, you feel like you just can't get enough of each other -- like you can't take your hands off each other! If there are more difficult influences between you, this one helps to override their negative energy. You just feel like great friends with a fun, flirtatious bond that runs deep and true. Because this is a long-lasting influence, you're able to make a long-term commitment if that's what you want to do.

Mars sextile Mars

Go, team, go

This influence is one of combining your energies for the greater good. You're right in tune with each other sexually, for starters! You're quite passionate with each other, and your rhythms are in sync because you instinctively express yourselves in such similar ways. Fortunately, this energy isn't likely to fade over time. You just feel stimulated when you're around each other -- as if the world is full of limitless possibilities. Thus, this influence extends outside the bedroom and into many other areas of your relationship. You work together toward your goals, whether they're related to your jobs, your personal lives or any other area. You're great at brainstorming together; put you two in the same room and the ideas, and the sparks, fly! So don't let this opportunity pass you by. You have a chance at operating as a true team, so use that positive energy to move your lives forward. You're able to take on any competition that might come up if you meet it together. For this reason, you can work together well on business enterprises or other projects. Sports are your forte as a couple, as well. Physical activity is highlighted between you; joining a softball team together or going rowing or hiking could be a really fun way to spend time together while blowing off steam.

Saturn trine Pluto

Change and challenges

This aspect really helps to lend purpose and stability to your relationship, as long as you stay motivated about grabbing hold of the opportunities this influence presents you. This relationship supports a lot of growth and transformation within each of you. You support each other's journeys, and you trust and understand each other. Any issues that come up, whether they're in your own life or in your relationship as a couple, are dealt with as a team, because you're such a strong, motivated pair. You tend to be practical and hardworking, and your lover has a deeply rooted power that can be used not only to transform themselves, but to help you change your own life for the better. Just avoid the tendency to begin dealing with each new situation in the same, tried-and-true ways. You want to use the methods that have been proven to work, but doing so can discount the fact that new challenges will always arise that are unique from previous ones. The point is to keep growing, right? Not to calcify, even if it's comfortable. So stay creative in your approaches to problems, and you can continue to have an amazing effect on each other's lives!

Venus sextile Jupiter

Lucky in love

You didn't just fall for your partner; you learned from them and look up to them as a mentor who can teach you about the kind of person you want to become. You're able to talk openly with them about anything and everything that comes up, and they understand you really well. Through this openness, you can grow to understand yourself better, which can aid in your career, your personal relationships and all other areas of your life. Your lover has a wonderful effect on you, and you do the same for them. Socially, you encourage them to make the most of their contacts. You both have fun when you go out together, and you also point it out when there's a social opportunity that could develop into something more. You make each other feel strong, motivated and even lucky. And your lover makes you feel smart, as if you're more able to put things together in terms of what your social experiences mean in the larger sense. Their grasp of philosophy is welcome, interesting and helpful to you. This aspect greatly increases your chances of continuing this long-term bond, because it fosters such warmth and affection between you.

Saturn sextile Venus

Loving responsibility

This aspect helps forge a strong bond between you that could easily translate to the long-term. Your blend of creativity and practicality makes this relationship a supportive haven for both of you. You both know that you can bring your problems to the table, whether they're personal problems or issues related to work or anything else, and together, you figure out how to solve them. Clear communication and practical innovations are your forte as a couple. You communicate well with each other and you treat each other with generosity. There is a feeling of 'what's mine is yours' between you. You're down to earth together, but your partner also encourages you to run with your best, most creative ideas. You blend your traditional values with their unique thoughts, and the results are amazing! This aspect also helps your partner to budget their time and resources well, because you have a good grasp of what's of value to you both, as individuals and as a couple. If you end up working together on a project or business enterprise, you help your lover focus on what needs to happen to get the job done well. You expect a lot of each other and of yourselves, and you strive to meet those expectations. In many areas of your lives, you encourage each other to be the best people and partners you can be.

Mercury sextile Mercury

A bridge of communication

Even if there are other more challenging aspects between you, this one helps keep you on the same wavelength. You agree on most things, and even the subjects you don't agree on are interesting, because you get to look at both sides of an issue together and debate over it. At base, you think in similar ways -- your thought processes take similar tracks, ones that each of you recognize in the other. The individual style in which each of you reasons things out and processes information blends together nicely, so you share a feeling of familiarity. Conversation flows; your ideas come out in a tumbling rush, and you egg each other on, urging each other for more. Both intellectually and philosophically, you're on a par. You love discussing things together, both to form your own thoughts as well as to get the other's take on it. You don't shy away from profound subjects, either; they have as much appeal as lighter ones. You probably share interests in many subjects, and want to take classes together or at least go see films or lectures and discuss what you learned afterward. Whatever differences there may be between you are greatly mitigated by this influence, which acts as a bridge between you.

Venus conjunct Mars

A consuming passion

Your sexual bond plays a key role in your relationship, and you maintain a high level of attraction for each other, even over a long period of time. Your intimate, sensual moments are highly charged, your desire for each other consuming, passionate and vivid. You might find that you're more compatible with your partner sexually than you've ever been with anyone else in your entire life, and that alone keeps the inner fires burning! But though sensuality is a real focus between you, a high point in your relationship and a great way to connect, it isn't just about the physical sensations your lover brings to you. You have a very affectionate bond as well, and you love connecting with each other on both a physical and emotional level. It can't all be smooth as cream, though -- you irritate each other sometimes, and your partner, especially, might even antagonize you from time to time, or exhibit coarse, offensive behavior. However, your partner definitely enjoys getting into it, because making up is very amorous for them indeed. And even as they have an exciting, even irritating influence on you, you have a calming influence on them. You know how to talk them down when they get worked up, and you often take different -- meaning, complementary -- approaches to a problem. That means you bring your own strengths to any given situation, and working as a team, you're stronger than you would be alone.

Mars conjunct Venus

A consuming passion

Your sexual bond plays a key role in your relationship, and you always maintain a high level of attraction for each other. Your intimate, sensual moments are highly charged, your desire for each other consuming, passionate and vivid. Your lover might find that they're more sexually compatible with you than they've ever been with anyone else before, and that alone makes them want to dip into that well again and again, if only to test the water and remind themselves that it's real! Though sensuality is a real focus between you, a high point in your relationship and a great way to connect, it isn't just about the physical sensations you bring to this person. You have a very affectionate bond as well, and you love connecting with each other on both a physical and emotional level. It isn't all smooth as cream, though -- you irritate each other sometimes, and you, especially, may even antagonize your partner from time to time. But what excitement this creates! You definitely enjoy getting into it together, because making up is very amorous for you. Even as you have an exciting, even irritating influence on your partner, they have a calming influence on you. They know how to talk you down when you get worked up, and you often take different -- meaning, complementary -- approaches to a problem. That means you bring your own strengths to any given situation, and working as a team, you're stronger than you would alone.

Mars conjunct Jupiter

Luck and timing

There is a lot of energy between you, and you love being active together. Whether this takes the form of playing sports together, going hiking, building or renovating something or any other enterprise is up to you -- but you two stay active, and whatever projects you undertake are almost always a success! If one of you is normally a more reticent type, this relationship can help to draw you out of your shell and bring out the courageous, even competitive side of your nature. You two work together as a team, and you know that you can rely on each other as teammates -- and that frees you up to take on almost any challenge that could arise! You have a positive, optimistic effect on each other. You help each other meet life head-on, with both eyes open. It could be that you get more accomplished through the course of this relationship than you would have on your own, because of the teamwork effect of your bond. Sexually, you have a very arousing effect on each other. Your intimate connection is passionate indeed, and you can each learn a lot through being physical together. In fact, learning is a focus due to this aspect. Encouraging each other to take on any activity that involves education is great for both of you. Taking a class together or teaching one would be a wonderful use of this energy, which could become excessive if you don't find a proper outlet for it.

Mercury conjunct Neptune

Developed imaginations

The emotional, intuitive connection between you is greatly enhanced by this aspect. When you're together, your creativity is heightened. Your imaginations roam into new territories and after all this time, you two still find new things to discuss! You should talk about your dreams together, because there's a good chance you, especially, have unique interpretations of your partner's subconscious mind -- and they have some creative interpretations of your thought processes, as well. Your communication isn't all verbal; because of this person's natural attunement to you, you two have a strong psychic bond that helps you understand and connect with each other without even speaking. You can learn as much about each other in the quiet moments as during your conversations about everything under the sun. Because of this high level of psychic connection that runs between you, things aren't always on sturdy ground; you might find that misunderstandings occur because your thinking is muddy when you're together. For your partner, this isn't be a new thing, but you, you're used to clear and logical thinking, and that could be difficult here! As wonderful as that intuitive bond is, you can both misread the signals from time to time -- or pick up on too many conflicting signals at once, and not know which to believe! Deception is possible here, too. Make sure that you don't abuse this mental connection. You should both strive to listen well and communicate clearly with each other. Always be aboveboard in your dealings with each other, and you can experience this influence as a benefit to your relationship.

Jupiter conjunct Neptune

Feet on the ground

You've found that you two have much in common when it comes to your spiritual values and philosophical beliefs. You may even feel as if you've been called together in some way, because your spiritual bond is so strong! Along the same lines, you could share a psychic bond, one that helps your partner, especially, know intuitively what you're thinking or feeling without you having to put it into words. This strong emotional tie increases your feelings of commonality and sensitivity toward each other, and you might share a greater respect and protectiveness than either of you has ever felt in a relationship before. The only problem with this aspect is that it encourages a dreaminess that can move you two away from reality -- meaning, if you're not careful to stay firmly grounded, you might just float off into the stratosphere with your dreamy partner! This is a wonderful quality for certain activities -- lovemaking, or lying together beneath the stars, letting your thoughts wander -- but you should be careful when it comes to taking risks together. A trip to Las Vegas might not be the best vacation for you two, because you might leave home with dollar signs in your eyes -- and then come back with empty wallets and broken dreams. Your combined tendency toward exaggeration, on your part, and gullibility, on your partner's, can get you into trouble unless you make sure to keep your feet on the ground.

Sun square Venus

Romantic tension

Well, one thing is certain -- you won't find each other boring! You may not feel physically or romantically attracted to one another in the beginning, but you will definitely feel an attraction of some sort -- and maybe even a magnetic pull based on your differing personalities that is compelling enough to surprise both of you. There will be a certain level of tension that naturally exists between you, and it will be based on balancing your own individual natures with your ability to offer one another love and support. Your ideals and values will most likely be at odds, and the differences will be apparent from the get-go: Your lover will view you as eccentric, crass or careless, or somehow living on the edge. The resulting tension could be a trying experience for both of you, leading to misunderstandings and other difficulties; if so, the best way to deal with it will be to talk it out as best you can, and see if you can understand at least where the other is coming from. But it's more likely that this inherent tension between you will act as a stimulant in your feelings for each other. You'll be actively aware of one another and interested in this new person in your life who's so different from you, and from anyone you've ever known. You'll be attracted to one another for your very differences, as each of you will instinctively recognize that this is no ordinary connection that you share.

Venus opposite Saturn

An unequal partnership

When it comes to relating naturally as a romantic couple, this aspect could make it difficult or even impossible. This person may try to control your behavior, both in private and in public. For example, you probably don't feel free to just lean over and give them a kiss, because they'll give you a look to let you know they're not okay with public displays of affection. When you're together, you feel restricted, sober, rigid and overly self-controlled, as if there are outside forces pushing in on you, making you behave in a certain way. And their romantic expression toward you is definitely cool. The problem is that they want to stay in control at all times, which, of course, is both impossible and no fun, especially when you're fooling around together. Why would they want to maintain such control? The answer probably lies in some past relationships that set up a dynamic for them that they're now living out through you. And the other question is, why do you put up with it? Again, the answer lies in your own past relationships, what you've experienced before and what you're living out again through this one. You automatically set up a dynamic that sets them as the superior and you as the inferior partner. But you're equals, and you should exist as such in your romantic relationship. Where's the romance in trying to control each other and yourselves all the time? It's important to face this problem and deal with it, so it doesn't continue to block the complete development of your relationship.

Jupiter square Venus

Different values

With this aspect, your bond should be strong in spite of a few obstacles that come up again and again. You find that you disagree repeatedly on the same certain subjects. Your different values and beliefs prevent you from being able to fully support each other in all you do. Your partner, especially, is probably able to smooth things over easily enough, unless other aspects between you make the rift even wider. You both like and respect each other , but you tend to be very opinionated, and with differing values like the two of you have, being stubborn and opinionated can cause problems! You might especially differ on issues related to money or spirituality and philosophy, and these issues could be so close to your heart that you have a hard time finding common ground with your partner. Though your impulse might be to try to ignore your differences and work around them, you should both try to face them down and see if you can't come to some kind of agreement. After all, the subjects that you disagree on are big, important ones -- ones that come up again and again throughout your relationship. Especially if there's a chance that you last long-term as a couple, wouldn't it be better to do the hard work of hashing things out and finding a compromise?

Sun square Jupiter

More than you can handle

The relationship the two of you have is an experience that has resulted from two rather different personalities trying to create an intimate bond in the only way they know how. That means that each of you has your own ideals in life -- what's important to you, what your needs are in a romantic relationship, what a relationship should entail and so forth. In this case, those ideals may not coincide perfectly, and you can both feel slightly frustrated by that conflict. The better you've gotten to know one another, the more those issues have likely increased, but instead of talking things out and striving to understand the differences that exist between you, you're both more likely to just let the issue drop in a temporary truce. However, there is a bond between you that you both want to preserve. The benefits of your union far outweigh the difficulties, and confronting your differences isn't something either of you want to do. Instead, your lover, especially, tends to take an unrealistically optimistic stance -- we don't have to worry, they tell themselves; everything will work itself out in the end! And it often does, for essentially you both feel generous and tolerant of each other. Facing the issues you share and communicating about them openly and honestly will help overcome any problems with excessive behavior that you two may encounter.

Saturn square Sun

A heavy tension

This is a challenging relationship at best. In a romantic bond with each other, there are plenty of times when you look at one another -- or at yourself in the mirror -- and wonder exactly why you got into this in the first place. Problems arise from the very serious differences that exist between you as individuals. There is an element of criticism and control between you; your partner always feels as if their individuality, who they are as a strong, vital human being, is being challenged by you -- or even put down. This could start in small ways -- perhaps when you were still just dating casually, you had conversations in which your opposing viewpoints come up again and again, and you might even have been able to laugh over your differences. Now that your relationship is something more long-term, your partner's sense of humor fades in the face of a feeling of burden and limitation that only grows with time. After a while, you aren't even able to see one another as individuals; instead, all you see when you look at one another is a list of grievances, of expectations that are disappointed, of needs that are never met. You must both take care not to let this heavy, troubled energy overpower the other, lighter, more positive aspects of your relationship. Work hard to accept each other -- and not to allow excessive criticism obscure your sense of who you are.

Jupiter square Jupiter

Respect your differences

Your morals don't match up, and the differences probably offend both of you. You have a hard time taking a live-and-let-live attitude about this, because they're such basic and important beliefs that are at odds. Your spiritual views are likely to be completely different, and instead of respecting each other's beliefs, you both probably cling even more fiercely to your own as if they're the only acceptable beliefs there are. So who's right and who's wrong? That's just the problem -- neither one of you! These are your opinions, formed after a lifetime of experience and learning. To argue over them could be interesting, to a point, until things get ugly and you both throw up walls to avoid facing the fact that your own way of viewing things isn't the only one -- and it's not necessarily even the most well-founded, either. Education could also become a big issue between you, especially if you've reached different levels of it. And if you travel together, get ready for some major disagreements! Everything from which type of hotel you should stay in to where you should eat sparks discussions, at least, and more likely arguments. This aspect's intensity is determined by other aspects between you. If you communicate well and treat each other with respect, this isn't too hard to deal with, but if your communication is already afflicted, you have battles.

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