The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Love Life Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Sun in Cancer
You're a picture of loyalty, and that's admirable. Once in a relationship -- not an easy task in itself, due to your shy and vulnerable nature -- you'd no sooner leave than you'd sell your favorite piece of furniture. Too bad you forgot to warn your sweetie about your 'cold spells.' You're not unlike a turtle; you're just fine as long as you feel safe and comfortable, basking in the sun, arms and legs stretched out. But the moment anything happens, you snatch yourself inwards, withdraw under your shell, and there's no getting you out until you feel comfortable once again, at some undetermined point in the future. In real life, this translates to moodiness, cold shoulders and sealed lips, and it's no mystery why someone else would quickly get tired of such behavior.It's not so bad out here, Cancer. Your ideal partner will provide a warm and safe place for you to express your fears, but you'll never know that if you don't come out and try. It will take a big leap of faith, but it's one that will pay off in spades for you.
Mercury in Leo
Isn't it great, always being right? You're so confident of your ideas, so inspiring in your speech, so convincing to others, that there's really no reason for anyone else to hold the microphone, is there? You may as well keep it, because as soon as you're finished expressing yourself, you're going to direct the group in what to do next. That's why your past lovers have nicknamed you 'Sarge.' Which, frankly, works for you. That way, fewer people challenge you, because you don't like being challenged. Just who do they think they are, anyway? Well, maybe they're someone important to you who just happens to think a little differently. They're not trying to shoot you down, despite what you think. They're just questioning one of your unquestioned concepts, and it would be to your benefit if you would listen. If you didn't cling so stubbornly to your own ideas, you could expand your mind with some new ones.
Venus in Virgo
It was the little things that drove your previous lovers batty. The way you continually picked lint off their sweater, or disinfected their refrigerator every Saturday, or obsessively arranged their newspapers and magazines. You like things just so, and are ever so quick to pick out any imperfection that your lover may present -- actually, your soon-to-be-former lover, if you're not careful. People can take only so much nitpicking, you know, before they begin to wonder if something is seriously wrong with you. Usually, they don't stick around to find out that you're perfectly benign. Just a perfectionist.Stop wringing your hands about everything. Take your analytical energy and focus it somewhere, anywhere, besides your romantic partner. Doing this will create room for a more relaxed you to appear -- the you who loves nature, who stops to smell the flowers, who enjoys a good home-cooked meal (all organic, of course). You're sensuous when you're totally relaxed, and this will delight your lover. Feel free to demonstrate your passion, and let them know that this is an expression of your true feelings. You'll go deeper than you thought possible.
Mars in Leo
You have so many wonderful qualities to offer: pride, leadership, strength, ardor. Why, then, do you get offended so very easily when someone says something against you? Your quick overreaction to challenges and criticisms suggests that maybe you're not quite as confident as you pretend to be. More than one previous partner has said that you're defensive, and that you can't take a joke or even recognize one. Which, of course, makes it all the more tempting to play jokes on you! Why not, when the results are so satisfying?Lighten up, and you'll have just as much fun as the next guy. Don't let them get under your skin; it's really not worth it. Criticisms are often honest statements of your lover's point of view, rather than the purposely hurtful barbs that you perceive them to be. As far as jokes go, you can deflect them with humor of your own -- but not at anyone else's expense, of course; you know how much that hurts! Next time, choose a lover who's not such a jokester, but one who will appreciate your many fine characteristics without feeling compelled to make fun of them. They will be amply rewarded with the fine love that you shower down on them.
Jupiter in Libra
You need your relationships, all right. You depend on them. Consequently, you're rarely without a partner, and therein may be a problem: You're more desperate to be in a relationship than you are careful about who you're in it with. You're an optimist with a strong tendency to see whatever you want in a person, and your first impression is often not an accurate reflection of their true self. It's only weeks, months or years later, when they do something mean or nasty, that your eyes are opened wide to the truth. How could you have done this again?Your ability to look on the bright side of things is more a blessing than a curse. You're ultra fair. You always want to do the right thing, which can outweigh the tendency to do the sensible thing. There's something of a judge within you: You gather evidence, you weigh, you balance, and in the end you make a decision based on facts you've considered. This process could work in your relationships, too, if you weren't so antsy to get things underway. When you're starting up with someone new, take your time before making a decision about them. Not everyone is as nice as they seem, and being more cautious initially could save you a lot of heartache later.
Saturn in Taurus
You are so sure that there won't be enough (love, money, fill in the blank with anything you value) that you cling tenaciously to what little you do have and refuse to let it go. Funny thing is, both love and money like to flow, so when you've got a death grip on them, instead of flowering for you, they wither, and eventually the very thing you valued so much has evaporated from your life. And you ask yourself wonderingly, 'How on earth did that happen?'Your relationships? Well, since you're so anxious about losing the love you have, however imperfect, you tend to stay in relationships long after they're over, simply out of habit, fear of moving on and a misplaced sense of loyalty. Besides that, if you got out of your current relationship, you'd need to get off your butt and find another one, and you don't particularly care for new things. You prefer the tried and true, the known and familiar, the comfort of established routine. New relationships mean compromise, adaptation, establishing new patterns, and you're not so good at that. So you carry on carrying on, ad nauseum. The solution? Loosen your death grip, and resources of all types will move through your life again, with little effort on your part.
Uranus in Libra
You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents. You may decline to participate in long-term relationships altogether, or you may completely rewrite the rules of marriage, factoring in the need for freedom within a relationship. Open marriages, having multiple partners at a time or having different partners for different personal needs are all ways of revolutionizing the world of partnership and romance. Your own relationship history will reflect the changes in the world around you. You and those born around the same time as you will leave a mark on the world that will last for many decades.
Neptune in Scorpio
You and your generation idealized sex more than you idealized relationships. The 'Sexual Revolution' was kicked off during the years of your birth and childhood, and because of this, you and your peers have carried this energy forward through the decades. You understand that deep healing can occur through intimate sexual relationships, and this is what you strive for in your heart of hearts. Sexual addictions also run rampant in your generation; these addictions represent the fundamental search for sexual healing. Now, with decades of living behind you, hopefully you are closer than ever to reaching that breakthrough. You deserve it!
Pluto in Virgo
You and your generation were born just before, spent your formative years in or came around just after the revolutionary 1960s, and in many ways, you carry forward this revolutionary energy into the future. You expect a lot from life and from your romantic partners; perfection would suit you just fine! Unfortunately, Real Life rarely delivers perfection, so you may spend your life in fruitless pursuit of it. Yet while you may never find the perfection you seek, you'll make the world a much better place in the meantime. Your relationships should fulfill a practical need as well as romantic ones; your best partnerships will have goals above and beyond your romantic liaison.
Sun square Jupiter
It's lucky for you that you can laugh at yourself. That's a handy quality to have when you find yourself in those inevitable relational difficulties, which often take you completely by surprise. After all, you're generous to a fault, stately, wise and larger than life. It's hard to believe such a wonderful person could ever have problems with partners! You can't see that you appear just a bit egotistic, or that there seems to be an ulterior motive as you charm your way into getting what you want. At other times, you work at cross purposes with yourself. Fate throws obstacles in your way, and you make choices that create chaos and friction. Your exuberance overcomes good sense and commandeers everyone's attention. You get annoyed too easily, impatient with anyone who doesn't see it your way. You can be self-centered, overconfident and so driven to meet the goals you've set that you lose sight of the big picture. And you know what? That big picture is important, because it helps you keep your perspective clear and your priorities straight. Experiences teach you to enjoy others as much as you enjoy yourself.
Mercury square Saturn
Let's face it, you like to do things the hard way. You're a paragon of focus and concentration, and frankly, the furrow in your brow isn't all that attractive. Your love life's been going downhill for some time, and there's a reason: You keep choosing lovers who can meet you eye-to-eye intellectually, but who are a bit chilly. You interpret their standoffish behavior as a judgment on you, but this says more about you than it does about them. You're far too vulnerable to criticism and negative thinking, taking things personally that aren't meant that way.It doesn't have to be like this. You actually enjoy being challenged, and your ideal lover will provide you with plenty of stimulation on every level. Much will be demanded of you, and you'll have to work hard to deliver. This will polish you, like a rock eroded by a powerful river. No one ever said growth was fun! And grow you will, though you'll remain ever insecure about where your relationship is going. Try to relax a bit, and just enjoy the ride. You're well-placed for the future if you can engage in meaningful communication.
Mars square Jupiter
There's something unhealthy about your relationships, and you're just beginning to figure things out. What are the unsavory acts or emotions your past lovers have triggered in you? Your worst side has been emphasized in the presence of your lovers; you became more aggressive, temperamental, egotistical and impatient, while their tendencies toward laziness and excess seemed to swell when you were around. You may still be paying off the accumulated debt you accrued with past partners (perhaps credit card debt, gained from your tendency to spend too much on fripperies), and you may still have difficulty keeping to a budget. Even worse, your sharply dissonant views on matters like beliefs, ethics, politics and education meant that you had difficulty finding common ground with past partners.Nonetheless, opportunities abound for a fine connection. You have a certain drive and passion, and are openhearted and loving. Potential lovers surround you. If you can find a way to compromise, a way to look past the differences you have and create new habits that serve you both rather than creating problems, then you can have a very solid and sweet relationship indeed.
Saturn opposite Neptune
Misunderstandings cropped up frequently between you and past lovers, didn't they? It seemed as if you always ended up bewildered, apologizing for something when you didn't even know what you did wrong. Meanwhile, your lover pouted and sulked, wrapped in suspicion. Much of the problem was in the fact that you didn't communicate very well. You were distanced from your emotions, burying yourself in work and your goals instead. And your lover imagined the worst of you, making up scenarios and then treating you as if you had erred somehow, or as if you'd made promises that you wouldn't keep.You are simply going to have to learn how to see eye-to-eye with someone else, and you won't do it by ignoring your problems. Gather your courage and start talking. Reveal your feelings. It's uncomfortable for you, but you must begin, since your partners tend to invent information to fill the gaps you leave. Though you don't know it, your ideal partner's feelings and desires are much the same as yours and a comfortable familiarity will fill your lives once you break through your block. Go for it -- warmth is a lot more fun than ice.
No Quincunxes
You've never been much for compromise, have you? In past relationships, when issues came up between you and your lover, you used whatever tools you had -- sweetly cajoling, arguing, turning a cold shoulder -- to get your own way. But why was having your own way so important? After all, other people have feelings, needs and agendas, too, just like yours. Who decides which person's need is the most important one in any given moment? That's a perennial question for all relationships, and except in the one between an infant and its caretaker, the answer isn't as simple as 'I decide, and my needs always come first.' Relationships, after all, should be about give and take. Sometimes you get your way; sometimes your lover does. Insisting on always getting your way not only makes you look uncomfortably similar to that aforementioned infant, it could actually lead to loneliness. After all, if it's a choice between getting your way or bailing out of the relationship, well, you'll end up either with a partner who's a pushover or sleeping alone. If you want a well-functioning, long-term relationship, you'll have to learn to choose your battles. The art of compromise is the perfect place to start your lessons, because if you give your lover a little, they'll probably want to give back a lot. You'll feel a lot better once you learn to step back and let someone else take reins from time to time.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
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