The Friction, Differences and Karma Meters: remember how perfect things seemed back in the beginning? Or maybe you can't even recall those glorious early days, when the future looked rosy and the possibilities for your relationship seemed limitless. What was it that broke the two of you up, anyway?
The answer to that question is complex and multilayered, to be sure. But your Friction, Differences and Karma meters give you a quick, at-a-glance view of the strife in your relationship -- all the sources of irritation, stress and hostility that ultimately led to that final goodbye.
7-10: Ouch -- you might still be bitter
4-6: You both knew which buttons to push
0-3: The Problem? A lack of passion.
7-10: You never got each other from day one.
4-6: Your differences were eye-opening... until they got annoying!
0-3: You could still be friends
7-10: It was doomed from the start.
4-6: Unconsciously, you both acted out old issues.
0-3: At least you made new mistakes instead of repeating old ones.
You met your match; a lover who battled you for control and attention. You should have been the bigger person, giving your lover more room.
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You viewed your lover as self-indulgent, and you pushed for change. Instead, you could have searched for a happy medium.
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Nervous intensity was at the center of your relationship, and it was an awfully shaky ground to build upon. Slowing things down was key.
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You landed yourself a big fish that time; truly you were a couple others envied. But jealousy was the wedge that pushed you apart.
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You egged each other on competing to see who was most shocking. You needed to formulate goals and use discipline and restraint to get there.
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You fell into being the bad-guy parent, causing friction. The key was channeling your generous side and giving your lover a break.
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Your lover slipped away, but all didn't have to be lost. You needed to learn to play it a little cooler, and remember confidence is sexy.
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You viewed your lover as more important than you, but you were just as worthy. Focusing on your own goals would have improved things.
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