Wondering how the two of you match up as friends? Now you can find out, at a glance! Our two-way bar graph reveals the connection between you and your BFF -- how you affect them, and how they affect you -- giving you a quick view of the strength of your connection in six important categories.
And what are those categories? Just the ones that can make or break a friendship -- like how your core personalities mesh, how the two of you communicate and the levels of similarities you have for each other. In short, have you got what it takes to become BFF’s? The Astrologer knows! Just remember, even if you both rate high in all six categories, the friendship still might not work out...and even if you rate low, your bond can still grow solid.
What's best is when a graph shows that two people are about equal in their connection to each other. That way, no one feels left out! The bar graphs can only give you a quick peek at the chemistry of your friendship -- the rest is up to you.
Your Soul Connection with your friend is based on how your Sun connects with their personality, including their values, their outlook and what matters to them, and how their Sun connects with you. Just as the Sun is the center of the orbit of all the planets in our solar system, it's also the center of you -- your inner fire, the vital energy that will run through you your whole life. It represents your basic, core personality, separate from all the other influences that... Read more
In this bar graph, your Communicative Bond is based on how your Mercury connects with your best friend’s world view, their attitude toward friendship and how they express themselves, and on how their Mercury connects with you. Often called the planet of communication, Mercury rules your thought processes, your sense of logic, your intellectual ideas and the way you get those ideas across to the world. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top one while your BFF’s is the bottom one are very different in length, then one of you will feel mentally turned on and tuned in, but the other just won't feel the connection. If the lines are similar in length... Read more
In this bar graph, your social link with your best friend is based on how Venus, your harmony planet, connects with them at a heart level, and on how their Venus connects with you. Venus -- the sweet and affectionate planet of love, harmony and socializing -- is all about pleasure, bringing people together and uniting them in harmony, so this planet rules not just love and dating but also friendships, partnerships and any social gathering. If the lines of the graph – yours are... Read more
The excitement you have with your BFF is based on how your Mars connects with their sense of who they are, what they go after and how they express themselves, and on how their Mars connects with you in the same way. Mars rules action, your propensity for irritation, your urge to compete and succeed -- all of these fall within this powerful planet's realm. Mars affects your attitude toward friendship, and it also determines how you could argue with your bestie. If the lines of the graph – yours are on the top and theirs on the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to feel very driven by the relationship, but the other just won't feel... Read more
In this bar graph, your Beliefs and Shared Values are based on how your Jupiter connects with your best friend’s sense of what life is all about, and how their Jupiter connects with you in the same way. Jupiter is referred to as the planet of luck because it brings opportunities and advantages into your life that can seem like a stroke of luck, but are really life lessons meant to test and teach you about your own value system. This planet is also about learning... Read more
Your Long-Term Potential to become friends for life is based on how your Saturn connects with their needs, their nature and their sense of duty in life, and on how their Saturn connects with you in the same way. Saturn's influence in your chart is like that of your conscience. This planet keeps you in check, reminding you of your responsibilities -- including your commitment to your friends and family. If the lines of the graph – yours are the top one’s and theirs the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to bond fast, while the other just won't share that sense of camaraderie -- not right away, and maybe not ever.... Read more
The Harmony and Challenge Meters read the compatibility chart between you and your best friend, and reveals the levels of harmony and challenges in your friendship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between the two!
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of harmony and very little challenges, but what you really want is a mix between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And too many challenges can also ruin a friendship; without a little breathing room between fights and disagreements you'd tire each other out, fast!
Something in the middle is just the ticket. Sometimes a good argument every now and then to clear the air, and a sense of trust and understanding means you will always have each other’s back. One more word of caution before you get started... Read more
9-10: BFF's forever
7-8: You tend to finish each other's sentences
4-6: There's an easy flow between you
0-3: Sometimes it's better to agree to disagree
7-8: You've been through thick and thin together
4-6: Small disagreements here and there
0-3: Hardly ever had a disagreement!
The two of you won't be satisfied with just sitting around. Your friendship will be characterized by dynamic action, carried out either as a team or as friendly rivals who motivate each other to do their best. You'll be a powerhouse duo with big ideas for improving the world and your stations in it. When you work together, you'll truly be able to shine as individuals. Your confidence and enthusiasm will increase exponentially when you're with your buddy, because they'll give you such a high level of support and encouragement. You might decide to begin some sort of business or other enterprise together, because you're so creative and impassioned as a team. This will be a dynamic influence that will help both of you accomplish most anything you put your minds to, as long as you work on it together, with optimism and a clear plan for action.
The connection between you will be compelling. There will be an attracting energy between you from the start, but you should both expect to experience some highs and lows through the course of this friendship. Your connection will be strong, but maybe too strong in some cases. Possessiveness could be an issue between you -- which could actually work, if you feel mutually possessive of each other, both holding strongly to the friendship you share. There's a high likelihood that your friend won't see you clearly, as the individual that you truly are. Instead, they'll view you through a lens of what they want to see, and they'll tend to project their own needs and ideas onto you, obscuring your true personality. This may not particularly bother you, because even when you view things from a different perspective, you'll share warm feelings and affection for each other.
You have very different ways of thinking, which could lead to some basic misunderstandings between you. Although you'll each come to the friendship with the best of intentions, you'll find that your ideas about life in general are pretty different. This could lead to misinterpreting one another's basic natures, as it's easier to project your own ideas onto the other person than it is to step outside your own point of view and try to see things from their unique perspective. You won't necessarily argue over your opposing viewpoints; it's more likely that you'll just overlook your pal's true feelings or opinions, and they'll do the same to you. Your communication styles are very different, too, and these differences could become a major problem between you -- but it doesn't have to be that way. If you both make a conscious effort to be positive, accepting and encouraging of one another's individuality, you'll both be able to express yourselves in a natural way. Acceptance will be key here in order to maintain this friendship.
Each of you has your own ideals in life -- what's important to you, what you expect from a friend and so forth. In this friendship, those ideals may not coincide perfectly, which can leave you both feeling slightly frustrated. The better you get to know one another, the more the issues may increase, but instead of talking things out and striving to understand the differences that exist between you, you'll more likely take the high road and try to be tolerant of each other, because there's a real bond between you that you'll both want to preserve. The benefits of your friendship outweigh the difficulties, and neither of you will want to make a very big deal out of your differences. But facing the issues you share and communicating about them openly and honestly will help overcome any problems that you two may encounter, and will pave the way for a long and fruitful friendship.
Lively communications will be the highlight of your friendship with this person. You'll have a mental connection and enjoy all types of discussion, comment, and debate. Things could get quite heated -- in a friendly way, of course -- especially if either of you has strong opinions about any specific subject. You will also enjoy physical activity together, especially if you can converse as well as move together. Bike rides, hikes, or any activity that permits you to engage mentally as well as physically will help you build your companionship and connection. You'll enjoy games of all types together, as there is a very playful aspect to your friendship that you'll both find enjoyable.
Mentally, you'll work in tandem, each bringing your own unique cognitive gifts to the table. Your methods of thought, intuition and understanding will be complementary. Your friend is more intuitive while you're more logical. You'll each know instinctively how to combine your strengths for greatest effect. For this reason, you'd do well in business together or launching a creative project. If you meet face to face, you'll work, play, study and socialize together. You'll have such a great, creative, innovative meeting of the minds that you might not want to waste any opportunity before you. Will you dream up an enterprise and set out to make it become a reality? Or will you go so far as to take your combined philosophical ideals and put them into practice? Basically, whatever you can dream up together, you can make a reality. It's all up to you.
Lots of times, you just won't understand where your friend is coming from. You'll often take different positions on any given situation, your friend on the emotional side and you on the logical one -- and we all know how hard it can be to reconcile feelings with logic. That will be the task you'll face together, and it won't be an easy one. This won't be a terribly destructive influence in itself; it simply means you'll both have to try harder than you're used to in order to see your pal for the person they really are. You'll both be projecting all these feelings and ideas onto the other about who they are and what they value, and you won't necessarily be correct. There's nothing inherently wrong with either logic or emotion, however, so if you can find a way for them to work together, you and your pal will both be much stronger than you would be on your own. In fact, that's a good metaphor for the two of you: If you can figure out how to work together, you'll make a lasting friendship.
It will be a challenge for you to communicate well. You'll find that you tend to view almost everything from completely opposite angles. At first, this will make things interesting; you'll want to debate everything under the sun. But take care as time goes on. You may verge away from the realm of friendly debate and more into actual intellectual challenges, in which you'll try to defeat each other using such unpleasant tactics as criticism and putting each other down. At that point, you'll stop listening to each other in favor of representing yourself, and that won't get you far. You'd both do well to remember that opinions are just opinions, and everyone's entitled to their own. And what to do when you're both right, in your own way? That will often be the case, especially when you're arguing matters of perception rather than fact. Just remember that stubbornness won't serve you well; listening and agreeing to disagree, when appropriate, will.
How firm are your values, your morals, or your political, spiritual or philosophical beliefs? All those questions and more will be put to the test in this friendship. You might end up feeling like your pal challenges you at a deep level. You just won't take the same position as your friend on a lot of the bigger issues, and instead of appreciating your differences as complementary, you may view them as a threat to your own point of view. This, in turn, will lead you to try to prove your point in an overblown or just unnecessary way. You could learn from this person, if you try to show them that you respect your differences; but this will be easier said than done. This friendship holds the possibility of expanding your mental horizons through exposure to all the new ideas and unique philosophies that your buddy will bring to the table, but don't expect it to be easy for either of you to accept your differences.
Your friendship will be strong and your affection for one another true. Your natural, spontaneous feeling for your friend will appeal to them almost instantly; you'll both realize that you have similar values at an important level. You have a taste for the finer things in life, and you'll want to enjoy them with your good pal. You'll most likely have an active social life together, in part because you'll both so enjoy going out to see and be seen! There will also simply be a feeling of goodwill and closeness between you from the start. You'll be on the same page in terms of your individual needs for friendship, fun, emotional support and so on. This aspect lends plenty of potential for a lifelong friendship, as you'll feel devoted to one another and ready and willing to support each other through both good times and bad.
No matter what you do together, you'll have a great time. If you meet face to face, you'll tend toward being active together rather than being sedentary; you'd rather take a hike together than sit around and watch TV. This aspect will encourage feelings of kinship, of being on the same side. If one of you is feeling down or pessimistic, you'll only have to be around your pal for a few minutes before you'll start to perk up again. Your friend will reveal the positive, optimistic side of life to you, and you'll blend your individual talents to become a formidable team. Whenever a challenge comes up, you'll provide the energy and enthusiasm for meeting it head-on, your friend will come up with the strategy -- and you're off! This aspect will create good times and good feelings.
You'll find your friend frustrating to be around for any length of time unless there are plenty of other harmonizing aspects between you to tone down the challenging energy of this one. There will always be at least an undercurrent of competition, defensiveness and combativeness between you. Something about your friend's personality will rub you the wrong way, and elicit passionate reactions from you that may surprise even you. You'll rub them the wrong way, too; your drives and ambitions will seem off-target to them, and you can bet you'll have more than a few disagreements. Still, you'll feel drawn to each other, and the relationship could run high and low like a roller coaster. The frustration of these ups and downs could mount over time and spell the end of the friendship, but it doesn't have to be that way. This connection could, in fact, be a positive learning experience for both of you, teaching you to be far more patient, compromising and compassionate than you've been in the past.
Without plenty of harmonizing aspects to promote good feelings between you, this aspect could be real trouble in your friendship because of the hostile energy it will create. When you're around each other, you'll feel excited and touchy, ready to react to anything your friend does or says, and even to imagined slights. Your basic approach to life, to how you get things done on a day by day basis, will be at odds. You'll both take things so personally; in a sense, you'll have the effect of poison ivy on each other -- a spreading irritation that only seems to get worse with time. When arguments arise, you'll both get hostile and defensive fast, even if that's not your normal nature. You'll feel the tension in your bodies when you're together, and it will be hard to relax. Exercising extreme patience will be the only way to get through this difficult influence, but this aspect will make patience almost unattainable.
You'll both find it easy to get along with each other. The strong, warm and open communication between you will help to ensure that you'll always be able to resolve issues and understand each other. You'll have a lot to teach your friend about values and aesthetics, and they will happily look up to you in those realms. A feeling of companionship will grow between you, which will significantly underscore your fond feelings for each other and will help in establishing a long-term friendship. Socially, you'll encourage your buddy to get out there more and make the most of their networking contacts. You might help them open their eyes to opportunities that come their way through friends and acquaintances. Most of all, there will be a feeling of support and admiration between you.
Together, you two will make things happen! Expect an energy surge when you're together. You'll have an expansive effect on your friend's ambitions and drive; whatever they want, you'll help them go for it, either by teaching or showing them how or by encouraging them to pursue it on their own. Teamwork will be a positive focus of your friendship; you'll work well together. You'll be active, too, meeting up for exercise or to attend social events and network with all your friends and acquaintances. If you ever go into business together or simply tackle a project, you'll make a great working team, one with complementary strengths. Just be sure to stay active together; otherwise, the considerable energy you'll generate together could be too much to handle.
Your communication will be strong and you'll inspire each other and challenge each other to think in brand-new ways, stretching your minds past what you previously thought possible. Your biggest dreams will appeal to your friend's natural curiosity, and they'll instantly start to devise ways to make your dreams a reality. Your expansiveness and natural yearning to learn will serve as an example for them of how to loosen up their own thinking. In conversation, you'll roam together from one subject to another, and you'll find fun ways to root out any narrow thinking and open your buddy's mind to new theories. In return, they'll help you ground your philosophies in fact and logic, shaping your values into something realistic and workable. Absorbing completely new ways of thinking will make for quite a stimulating friendship.
You'll have a strong friendship that's based in intellectual freedom. You relate to this person on an 'idea level.' You'll talk about everything under the sun; lots of times, they'll come up with something exciting and new and you'll both run with it. Whether you just have fun with this influence or actually use it in your work or your creative projects is up to you. Either way, it'll be a lot of fun and will create a feeling of friendship and exciting openness between you. You'll discuss your futures, and your paths should be different enough to create both space and movement for both of you. You'll encourage each other to follow your dreams, you'll support each other with optimism and great ideas, but you won't get in each other's way because you'll be too busy following your own bliss! Don't try to rein yourself in too much; have fun with this influence as well as this person, and see where the friendship leads you.
You'll help your friend ground their values and creativity in reality and help them make long-range plans that are viable and well-founded. They, in return, will make you feel warm and happy. Together, you'll make a great working team. This particular aspect will go a long way toward creating a sense of stability, togetherness and lasting affection between you. It will also help strengthen your communication and your problem-solving abilities. You'll be able to work through any issues that come up. Furthermore, your connection will strengthen and stabilize both your values. And finally, you can have a stabilizing effect on your friend's creative process, encouraging them in this area and offering practical suggestions and advice.
You have some different yet complementary strengths; will you blend them together or use them as reason to push each other away? You often set an example of maturity and a willingness to work together, but it will be all too easy for you to slip into a controlling role and treat your friend as if they're immature, unpredictable or unruly. Of course, they have goals, drives and ambitions that are out of your control, and you'll simply have to accept that. If you can't, your relationship dynamic will devolve a series of power struggles to determine who's the top dog. That's unfortunate since friendships are supposed to be between equals. That's where the maturity and self-control come in: You'll need to focus on controlling your own behavior and attitude, rather than trying to control your partner. If you can do that, then you'll be able to release the more positive potential of this relationship, which is combining your practical, grounded nature with your partner's sense of ambition and working together as a solid, capable, driven team.
You'll have a sobering influence on your friend's thought processes. In conversation, you'll encourage them not just to skim the surface of a subject or an idea, but to grasp its details and complexity. If they tend to zip from one idea to the next like a butterfly, never stopping for long at any one, you'll help them learn to focus and explore in a more purposeful way. You'll also offer them sound advice for dealing with issues in their life. You'll help them to take life more seriously and to recognize which subjects and situations merit a more probing investigation. You can show them how to take their high-flying or abstract ideas and ground them in a workable, well-functioning framework, to make them more lasting as well as more accessible to the world around them.
Ordinarily, the differences in your personalities might be too much for you to handle. You're a more traditional person than your friend, and their sense of spontaneity and rebellion won't always jive with your hardworking, methodical approach to life. But in this particular friendship, these qualities will actually work well together. It will be a case of bringing your own gifts to the table, in order to benefit you both. You'll be able to strike a creative balance between you that will help in any project you might work on together. Your combined caution and willingness to take risks will usually yield great results. Tackling problems will be your forte, one that you should use to the best advantage for both of you.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
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Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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