Wondering how the two of you match up as friends? Now you can find out, at a glance! Our two-way bar graph reveals the connection between you and your BFF -- how you affect them, and how they affect you -- giving you a quick view of the strength of your connection in six important categories.
And what are those categories? Just the ones that can make or break a friendship -- like how your core personalities mesh, how the two of you communicate and the levels of similarities you have for each other. In short, have you got what it takes to become BFF’s? The Astrologer knows! Just remember, even if you both rate high in all six categories, the friendship still might not work out...and even if you rate low, your bond can still grow solid.
What's best is when a graph shows that two people are about equal in their connection to each other. That way, no one feels left out! The bar graphs can only give you a quick peek at the chemistry of your friendship -- the rest is up to you.
Your Soul Connection with your friend is based on how your Sun connects with their personality, including their values, their outlook and what matters to them, and how their Sun connects with you. Just as the Sun is the center of the orbit of all the planets in our solar system, it's also the center of you -- your inner fire, the vital energy that will run through you your whole life. It represents your basic, core personality, separate from all the other influences that... Read more
In this bar graph, your Communicative Bond is based on how your Mercury connects with your best friend’s world view, their attitude toward friendship and how they express themselves, and on how their Mercury connects with you. Often called the planet of communication, Mercury rules your thought processes, your sense of logic, your intellectual ideas and the way you get those ideas across to the world. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top one while your BFF’s is the bottom one are very different in length, then one of you will feel mentally turned on and tuned in, but the other just won't feel the connection. If the lines are similar in length... Read more
In this bar graph, your social link with your best friend is based on how Venus, your harmony planet, connects with them at a heart level, and on how their Venus connects with you. Venus -- the sweet and affectionate planet of love, harmony and socializing -- is all about pleasure, bringing people together and uniting them in harmony, so this planet rules not just love and dating but also friendships, partnerships and any social gathering. If the lines of the graph – yours are... Read more
The excitement you have with your BFF is based on how your Mars connects with their sense of who they are, what they go after and how they express themselves, and on how their Mars connects with you in the same way. Mars rules action, your propensity for irritation, your urge to compete and succeed -- all of these fall within this powerful planet's realm. Mars affects your attitude toward friendship, and it also determines how you could argue with your bestie. If the lines of the graph – yours are on the top and theirs on the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to feel very driven by the relationship, but the other just won't feel... Read more
In this bar graph, your Beliefs and Shared Values are based on how your Jupiter connects with your best friend’s sense of what life is all about, and how their Jupiter connects with you in the same way. Jupiter is referred to as the planet of luck because it brings opportunities and advantages into your life that can seem like a stroke of luck, but are really life lessons meant to test and teach you about your own value system. This planet is also about learning... Read more
Your Long-Term Potential to become friends for life is based on how your Saturn connects with their needs, their nature and their sense of duty in life, and on how their Saturn connects with you in the same way. Saturn's influence in your chart is like that of your conscience. This planet keeps you in check, reminding you of your responsibilities -- including your commitment to your friends and family. If the lines of the graph – yours are the top one’s and theirs the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to bond fast, while the other just won't share that sense of camaraderie -- not right away, and maybe not ever.... Read more
The Harmony and Challenge Meters read the compatibility chart between you and your best friend, and reveals the levels of harmony and challenges in your friendship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between the two!
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of harmony and very little challenges, but what you really want is a mix between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And too many challenges can also ruin a friendship; without a little breathing room between fights and disagreements you'd tire each other out, fast!
Something in the middle is just the ticket. Sometimes a good argument every now and then to clear the air, and a sense of trust and understanding means you will always have each other’s back. One more word of caution before you get started... Read more
9-10: BFF's forever
7-8: You tend to finish each other's sentences
4-6: There's an easy flow between you
0-3: Sometimes it's better to agree to disagree
9-10: Frenemies?
7-8: You've been through thick and thin together
4-6: Small disagreements here and there
0-3: Hardly ever had a disagreement!
This will be a really positive and enthusiastic connection for both of you! When you're together, you'll feel animated, confident and excited, and you'll sense that your individuality is heightened and focused by the friendship you share. Physical energy will abound between you; you'll want to participate in lots of different vigorous activities together, whether as partners or as opponents. You bring out a competitive drive in each other, one that can spur you both on to greater accomplishments than you'd achieve alone. Anything active will be the name of the game, such as playing sports together, hiking or traveling -- especially active vacations, like a trip to the mountains or camping out. Being workout buddies could also be a great way to focus the abundance of energy that exists between you. Find a project together and just do it.
You have great potential for a deep, long-term friendship because you're in balance with one another. You're not too similar, but you will understand each other well. That means that when one of you needs support, the other will be right there, ready and willing to give it. When one of you needs to take some alone time, the other will understand and respect that as well. This friendship will give you plenty of room to follow your muse, whether that happens on a personal, emotional level or a more public or professional one. You'll instinctively know how to allow each other room to pursue your ambitions. The only potential problem here is a minor one: You might be so relaxed and comfortable with each other that the friendship grows a little bit dull or stagnant as a result. But as long as you're careful to check in with each other about what's going on in your lives, your connection should stay warm and vital.
You'll naturally share a lot of respect for each other, and that will allow you to keep growing as individuals even as you get closer as friends. This connection will be, in part, about supporting your personal growth and helping your friend learn to lighten up a little bit. They can be a little too work- or career-oriented, but they'll learn from you how to let those things slide every now and again in order to make time for the more fun side of life. It's all about balance, isn't it? Your aims and goals in life will be a focus of this relationship, and you'll be able to help each other in meeting your individual goals. You might decide to go into business or some other enterprise together; if so, this should work out well, because you trust each other and you have complementary strengths that will come together to make an amazing team.
You two will just feel connected, even when you first meet. There will be a sense that you're bonded at a spiritual level. You'll find that you have a lot in common at a basic level -- your fundamental spiritual ideals are aligned. You'll have plenty of wonderful discussions and heart-to-heart talks about your innermost feelings, hopes and dreams, and you'll have just as many moments of wonderful nonverbal communication, too. Your friend will be able to tune right in to you. They'll be highly sensitive to your moods and they'll respect your feelings. They probably see you in an idealized light, but who cares? The devotion between you will be real, as will the sweetness.
Control, projection or possessiveness could make this friendship a difficult one. You stir up feelings in each other and may trigger old psychological patterns. This relationship may be less about mutual support and growth and more about dependency and the acting out of subconscious patterns. This is particularly true if one of you has any type of authority, superiority or seniority over the other. You may both sense a deep, powerful but obscure struggle that pits your individuality against your friend's needs or desires. You may end up feeling unseen, unheard and unsupported on a deep level. These could lead to resentments that will continue to store up over time unless they are addressed. However, if you can work through this aspect of your relationship, the two of you can become lifelong friends with an incredibly intimate bond.
Your focus will be on getting along well and working together as a team. Neither of you will want to argue, so you'll both find more constructive ways to get your own point across and find a solution to any problem that might come up. This won't be the type of friendship that makes you wonder where you stand with the other person. You have affection for each other and enjoy spending time together. The phone and your computers may be your main modes of communication. If you end up working together on a creative project or even an entrepreneurial one, this aspect will really help your communication, because you'll always take care to deal with one another kindly and gently.
Mentally, you'll work in tandem, each bringing your own unique cognitive gifts to the table. Your methods of thought, intuition and understanding will be complementary. Your friend is more intuitive while you're more logical. You'll each know instinctively how to combine your strengths for greatest effect. For this reason, you'd do well in business together or launching a creative project. If you meet face to face, you'll work, play, study and socialize together. You'll have such a great, creative, innovative meeting of the minds that you might not want to waste any opportunity before you. Will you dream up an enterprise and set out to make it become a reality? Or will you go so far as to take your combined philosophical ideals and put them into practice? Basically, whatever you can dream up together, you can make a reality. It's all up to you.
Getting along with each other could be a little tricky. You'll try to express yourself in the ways that you know how, but those ways could conflict with your friend's. You'll take the well-thought-out, logical approach, while they'll shoot from the hip, so to speak, acting and reacting on gut instinct. It'll be calculation versus impulse. Small irritations can turn into bigger misunderstandings and then an impulsive reaction mode will click into place. Emotional situations, especially, will be ground for faulty reasoning. You may both just start reacting instead of trying to assess the situation calmly. Needless to say, this kind of grouchy, touchy energy can make it difficult for each of you to understand where your buddy is coming from. Trust and respect will slowly erode unless you can find a way to tone it down when you're together.
You two are likely to find your communication challenging from the start. You'll irritate each other, and your friend will offend your sensibilities on a regular basis. They're highly attached to their own, individual character and their personal view of the world. They'll attach their ego directly to their opinions, which will mean they're unable to step outside their own point of view to see your side of the story. This kind of challenging interaction can breed mistrust, and trust is essential to a healthy friendship. Of course, if you're both hardy, adventurous sorts, you could look at this as a personal challenge: You could both stand to learn a lot from each other, as you'll be required to let go of your own egos and strive to put yourselves in the other's shoes. But without a concerted effort on your buddy's part to expand their mental horizons, it's much more likely that you'll just end up feeling challenged and misunderstood.
You could have a hard time communicating with each other and you might end up feeling very frustrated on a regular basis. You'll find that you often have two completely different ways of looking at things. You'll disagree on many subjects, but instead of being able to appreciate your differences, you'll both view them as a challenge -- or even a threat. Almost any subject that comes up could serve as a basis for an argument, from the small things -- such as what movies you enjoy -- to the bigger ones, like questions of politics, morality or spirituality. When you don't agree, you won't be able to understand where your pal is coming from. You'll each think that your own point of view is the most obvious and correct one, and you'll wonder how your friend can think the way they do. The tension in this type of situation usually only mounts; in the end, you'll just have to agree to disagree if you want to find any peace together.
Though you might get along really well for a time, you'll realize after a while that there's some sort of disconnect in your communication. At some level, your friend won't be entirely honest with you. This could be a major pattern of willful dishonesty, but it's more likely to be as minor and intangible as them holding a part of themselves back out of insecurity or because of past experiences -- and then you'll follow suit when you pick up on this strange vibe. Confused communications will be the norm between you. The lesson of this aspect is to be yourself and communicate as honestly as you can, even when being honest makes you both uncomfortable.
This aspect has a good chance of leading to a long term friendship, because you two will feel in sync with each other's rhythms. You'll have a great connection and a wonderful bond as friends, as two people who just really, really like each other. The more you learn about each other, the better you'll get along. The empathy you'll feel for each other will be strong and natural and will help smooth out any problems that might arise between you. You'll give each other a lot of support and affection. You'll just want to get along, to treat each other well and make your amigo feel as cared for and supported as they make you feel. Remember to appreciate this bond and don't take it for granted! Even the best of friendships needs tender nurturing.
You two will enjoy a sense of warmth and kinship. You'll look up to your friend as a mentor who can teach you about the kind of person you want to be. Creatively and aesthetically, you two will be in synch. You'll inspire your pal to be more artistic in their own day-to-day life, and socially, you'll encourage them to make the most of their contacts. You'll have a great time going out with them, and they might have a good-luck effect on you -- you'll meet important, influential people when you're together, people who can help you advance your own causes. And when it comes to your causes, be they personal or career-oriented, your friend will be your biggest fan and supporter! All this support and understanding will make both of you feel lucky, as if you can accomplish anything. And the truth is, you'll have an easier time stretching to the limits of your own horizons within this friendship than you might on your own. The one thing to be careful about? Overindulgence! You two can really egg each other on.
As you begin getting to know each other, you'll both feel excited and energized due to the dynamic nature of your communication. Your conversations will exhilarate you. You'll be able to talk about anything and everything; you'll assert your opinions and get to know yourselves better even as you learn more about each other. Your friend will feed off your energy, and you'll learn a lot from the way their mind works. You'll push them to think in livelier, more adventurous ways. They'll encourage you to define your ideas and base them in sound logic. Under your influence, your friend will become more assertive and animated about expressing themselves. This dynamic is likely to be a lot of fun for both of you, even if your debates take a frustrating turn!
In the beginning, when you first meet, you'll probably work well together; you'll bring energy and excitement to the table, and your friend will act as a grounding influence. You'll encourage them to be more spontaneous and carefree, looser in making plans, while they'll have good lessons to teach you about focus, planning and hard work. But problems will come up when you don't want to take on too much responsibility. Your friend will be uncomfortable about your carefree, adventurous spirit. These qualities could make them feel nervous since they're a bit more inhibited than you, and their natural response might be to try to control you. But that won't work; it'll only create rebellion on your part. Instead, get to know each other well, even if it frustrates (or bores) you. You'll probably find that your differences aren't so frightening after all, and in fact, they're complementary in a friendship.
This aspect will lend you an element of competition that will spark all your interactions. Whether you're on the same team or opposing ones; whether you're playing a game, having an argument, talking about a movie you saw -- you'll push each other to say what you really mean, to focus your energies and efforts and get more done than you would have on your own. There will be your friend's opinionated nature to contend with, of course; they'll have their own ideas and they'll stand right by them, often at the expense of listening to you. But over time, as you grow to trust and like each other more, you'll allow that helpful influence to start seeping in. You'll challenge each other on your beliefs, which will help you to better define them. If you work together as a team, you'll find that the slightly challenging energy between you will spark creative action.
This could become a growth-oriented friendship, but if you aren't careful in how you treat each other and what you demand of each other, it could be the hard-won kind of growth -- the kind that consumes a lot of energy and reveals more through your mistakes than your successes. Somehow, you'll naturally draw out the side of your friend that is passionate and assertive. The communication between you will be lively at the very least. Your highly energetic interactions will be fast-paced and fun, and you'll both have a great time ribbing and challenging each other. Just try to be sensitive when you're pushing too hard, or giving advice that simply doesn't apply to the person your friend is or the ambitions they hold.
Your core values and beliefs aren't very compatible with your friend's personality, and you may both experience some resulting tension as you get to know each other better. The ways in which you ordinarily learn and expand your horizons will run counter to the ways in which your friend naturally behaves and expresses themselves, and you'll both feel limited as a result of this disconnect. You just have different ideas, both of which deserve respect. At a deeper level, your beliefs may somehow seem threatening to your buddy, but you are likely to simply brush any concerns aside, opting instead for blind optimism -- which isn't always as helpful as it may seem. Open, honest communication will be necessary here.
You'll have a hard time taking a live-and-let-live attitude about each other, because you'll have such basic and important beliefs that are at odds. Your spiritual views are likely to be completely different, and instead of respecting each other's beliefs, you'll both probably cling even more fiercely to your own as if they're the only acceptable option. So who's right and who's wrong? That's just the problem -- neither one of you! These are your opinions, after all, and nothing to argue about. Education could become a big issue between you, especially if you've reached different levels of it. And if you plan to travel together, get ready for some major disagreements! If you communicate well and treat each other with respect, this aspect shouldn't be too hard to deal with, but if your communication is already afflicted, expect some battles.
You'll help your friend ground their values and creativity in reality and help them make long-range plans that are viable and well-founded. They, in return, will make you feel warm and happy. Together, you'll make a great working team. This particular aspect will go a long way toward creating a sense of stability, togetherness and lasting affection between you. It will also help strengthen your communication and your problem-solving abilities. You'll be able to work through any issues that come up. Furthermore, your connection will strengthen and stabilize both your values. And finally, you can have a stabilizing effect on your friend's creative process, encouraging them in this area and offering practical suggestions and advice.
You'll make a great friends, as your practical side blends nicely with your buddy's expansive nature. When you're feeling pessimistic about the future or overwhelmed by all the steps between you and a particular goal, your friend will lift you up with a dose of their natural optimism. When they're flying high, getting lost in the broad view or otherwise losing sight of reality, you'll be able to pull them back down to earth and ground them in what's tangible. Their vision will be matched by your life experience and practical knowledge of how the world works. What a team! Needless to say, this smooth combination of very different types of wisdom will work well in any project or problem-solving setting. Sometimes you might be overly mired in practicality, but you have a lot to learn from your friend's open-mindedness and their willingness to theorize and try new approaches.
You may not intend to behave in a critical way toward your friend, but over time, that's the habit you'll develop if you aren't careful. When they try to express their ideas, you'll pick at their logic and expose the flaws in their thinking. If they tend to be indecisive, you'll push them to choose a practical course of action based on the alternatives available. But to them, you'll come across as meddling, critical and controlling. Your efforts to help them focus and define their thinking will feel restrictive, as if they aren't allowed to think in the way that comes most naturally to them. Worse, they might start to believe you don't recognize or appreciate their intelligence. Let your friend think and express themselves naturally -- and allow them to make mistakes. If you can do that, then this dynamic will actually have a positive outcome -- that of teaching your buddy to think more carefully and thoroughly, and you to be less critical of others' ideas and self-expression.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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