Wondering how the two of you match up as friends? Now you can find out, at a glance! Our two-way bar graph reveals the connection between you and your BFF -- how you affect them, and how they affect you -- giving you a quick view of the strength of your connection in six important categories.
And what are those categories? Just the ones that can make or break a friendship -- like how your core personalities mesh, how the two of you communicate and the levels of similarities you have for each other. In short, have you got what it takes to become BFF’s? The Astrologer knows! Just remember, even if you both rate high in all six categories, the friendship still might not work out...and even if you rate low, your bond can still grow solid.
What's best is when a graph shows that two people are about equal in their connection to each other. That way, no one feels left out! The bar graphs can only give you a quick peek at the chemistry of your friendship -- the rest is up to you.
Your Soul Connection with your friend is based on how your Sun connects with their personality, including their values, their outlook and what matters to them, and how their Sun connects with you. Just as the Sun is the center of the orbit of all the planets in our solar system, it's also the center of you -- your inner fire, the vital energy that will run through you your whole life. It represents your basic, core personality, separate from all the other influences that... Read more
In this bar graph, your Communicative Bond is based on how your Mercury connects with your best friend’s world view, their attitude toward friendship and how they express themselves, and on how their Mercury connects with you. Often called the planet of communication, Mercury rules your thought processes, your sense of logic, your intellectual ideas and the way you get those ideas across to the world. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top one while your BFF’s is the bottom one are very different in length, then one of you will feel mentally turned on and tuned in, but the other just won't feel the connection. If the lines are similar in length... Read more
In this bar graph, your social link with your best friend is based on how Venus, your harmony planet, connects with them at a heart level, and on how their Venus connects with you. Venus -- the sweet and affectionate planet of love, harmony and socializing -- is all about pleasure, bringing people together and uniting them in harmony, so this planet rules not just love and dating but also friendships, partnerships and any social gathering. If the lines of the graph – yours are... Read more
The excitement you have with your BFF is based on how your Mars connects with their sense of who they are, what they go after and how they express themselves, and on how their Mars connects with you in the same way. Mars rules action, your propensity for irritation, your urge to compete and succeed -- all of these fall within this powerful planet's realm. Mars affects your attitude toward friendship, and it also determines how you could argue with your bestie. If the lines of the graph – yours are on the top and theirs on the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to feel very driven by the relationship, but the other just won't feel... Read more
In this bar graph, your Beliefs and Shared Values are based on how your Jupiter connects with your best friend’s sense of what life is all about, and how their Jupiter connects with you in the same way. Jupiter is referred to as the planet of luck because it brings opportunities and advantages into your life that can seem like a stroke of luck, but are really life lessons meant to test and teach you about your own value system. This planet is also about learning... Read more
Your Long-Term Potential to become friends for life is based on how your Saturn connects with their needs, their nature and their sense of duty in life, and on how their Saturn connects with you in the same way. Saturn's influence in your chart is like that of your conscience. This planet keeps you in check, reminding you of your responsibilities -- including your commitment to your friends and family. If the lines of the graph – yours are the top one’s and theirs the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to bond fast, while the other just won't share that sense of camaraderie -- not right away, and maybe not ever.... Read more
The Harmony and Challenge Meters read the compatibility chart between you and your best friend, and reveals the levels of harmony and challenges in your friendship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between the two!
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of harmony and very little challenges, but what you really want is a mix between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And too many challenges can also ruin a friendship; without a little breathing room between fights and disagreements you'd tire each other out, fast!
Something in the middle is just the ticket. Sometimes a good argument every now and then to clear the air, and a sense of trust and understanding means you will always have each other’s back. One more word of caution before you get started... Read more
9-10: BFF's forever
7-8: You tend to finish each other's sentences
4-6: There's an easy flow between you
0-3: Sometimes it's better to agree to disagree
7-8: You've been through thick and thin together
4-6: Small disagreements here and there
0-3: Hardly ever had a disagreement!
You two will be mentally in tune. You'll wonder to yourself -- maybe even aloud -- how this person can know so much about you. They'll be highly observant of you from the start, able to tune right in to your subtle cues and to draw an accurate picture of your individual nature from comparatively little information. This is a wonderful gift for you to enjoy, but it shouldn't be taken for granted. You may come to expect your friend to understand you so well that you won't think it's important to verbalize your thoughts, needs and feelings anymore. In general, though, there's not much of a downside to this kind of communicative bond. You'll feel heard and understood, which will translate naturally into support and acceptance. And if you make a bit of extra effort to put things into words when misunderstandings do crop up, you'll be able to sail through the rough spots and get back on even ground again.
There will be plenty of liveliness between you two, but it's probably best if you hang out in small doses. You'll start out sensing the high level of rivalry between you very clearly, and the more you get to know each other, the more annoyed you'll feel with each other. There's a lot of competitive energy here that needs an outlet, but it's possible that you'll always just rub each other the wrong way. Arguments could be frequent occurrences, and you may feel that this person doesn't see or support you. Annoyance will be almost unavoidable for your buddy, who will be the more aggressive and impatient of the two of you. If you can both focus your energy toward doing active things together and make it a point to give and take equally, you'll be able to work through any problems that arise.
This friendship may have a heavy energy, a certain level of control -- possibly even guilt -- that will simultaneously bind you together and drag you down. Your friend will feel very vulnerable and will take on a dominant role in response. Instead of using trust and support as the glue that binds your friendship, they'll fall back on fear, guilt and obligation. You'll represent all the qualities that make them most insecure -- personal strength, individuality, ambition, independence; yet you'll buy into their power games, as if they really do have authority over you. This friendship stands a strong chance of becoming all about responsibility and duty, unless you can gently but firmly resist your pal's attempts to control you through fear or intimidation. For their part, they'll have to face down any insecurities that come up and deal with the resulting feelings of vulnerability.
Wow -- you two are really mentally in tune! You might find from the very start that you share a subtle, elevated kind of communicative bond. Your friend will wonder how you can know so much about them when they haven't even put most of it into words yet. You'll be highly observant of this person from the start, able to tune right in to their subtle cues and draw an accurate picture of their individual nature from comparatively little information. The trouble here lies in the possibility that they'll take that rapport and understanding for granted. Your pal may come to expect you to understand them so well that they won't think it's important to verbalize their thoughts, needs and feelings anymore. In general, though, there's not much of a downside to this bond. Your buddy will feel heard and understood, which will translate naturally to support and acceptance.
There will be a feeling of uniqueness and originality to your friendship. This will be a really creative and social relationship for you. You'll have a lot of fun together, whether you end up meeting in person or just continue this friendship online. You'll feel like you've never known anyone like this before, but it will be more accurate to say no one has ever made you feel so original. If you meet face to face, you'll end up going out a lot together, and you'll get into a lot of mischief, fun and crazy adventures that way. Strange and amazing things will happen when you're together, things you won't expect -- things that will make great stories for many years to come. Just your presence in each other's lives will spark things up for both of you, so have a great time!
It might take a long time for you two to get to know each other. This will have to do with innate qualities that each of you share, which don't align with each other. You'll find that you don't match up well. Your values will not be the same and you could even annoy each other with the things that each of you finds important. This kind of difficult interaction will lead to disagreements that will be hard to resolve, because you just won't know where the other is coming from. In some sense, you don't speak the same language. You both might end up feeling unappreciated, unsupported and generally neglected. In order to avoid this, you'll both have to translate your language for each other, so to speak. If you can cue each other in on, your pal will have a better chance of picking up on the signals.
Your feelings may go overlooked in this relationship, unless there are other strong aspects between you to support clear and positive communication. Your emotional reactions will go right over your friend's head; they'll think they get you, but you'll feel misunderstood or even ignored. Your buddy will have an especially hard time understanding you when it comes to your values -- how you spend your money, how you deal with friends and family, how you express your personal style at home and more. If your friendship means something to you, rather than allowing the relationship to devolve and seeing each other as inconsiderate and uncommunicative, you'll have to put effort into understanding each other better.
Your friend's individuality will inspire you to be the most confident, positive-thinking and assertive person you can be. You'll simply feel amped up and excited when you're together, and physical activities are likely to be an important part of your connection. Getting out of the house will be an exciting prospect for both of you, whether it's for a jog, a day on the town, or an out-of-town adventure. Teamwork will be one of your fortes as a pair; in fact, you'd make excellent partners in business as well as friends. You'll find that you have similar ideas and ambitions, as well as compatible methods of going after your goals. Mutual support and encouragement will become an important part of the foundation of your connection. You'll push and inspire each other to be the best individuals you can possibly be.
Your companionship will create a supportive energy that will give you both room to be the people that you are. You'll be similar on an idealistic level, and you'll find that your ideas about life -- what you want to do, what you believe in -- are comfortingly similar. The sense of purpose you'll feel when you're together will be inspiring; you'll want to get big things done, launch creative projects, move forward in your lives as individuals. You'll both want to expand your minds and your horizons, and that's something you'll be able to do as friends. Learning and education will be a focus for you, and the optimism you'll bring to each other's lives will inspire self-confidence in both of you. You'll be supportive of each other, and you'll really help each other grow as individuals. Just be careful not to take each other or this positive effect for granted.
You'll have a strong friendship that's based in honesty. You'll identify closely with each other intellectually and your ideals about the future will blend together very well. It's not that you'll have the same exact ideas about where you want to go; in fact, your paths should be different enough to create space and movement for both of you. You'll encourage each other to follow your dreams, but you won't interfere because you'll be too busy following your own. You'll have a lot of original insight into each other's lives; you'll be able to offer each other sound advice when it's needed and then step back to let the magic happen. You'll always know that you can trust and count on each other, because of this aspect's emphasis on honesty. Expect the unexpected with this influence working between you. You'll both grow tremendously through your friendship with each other.
This could become a growth-oriented friendship, but if you aren't careful in how you treat each other and what you demand of each other, it could be the hard-won kind of growth -- the kind that consumes a lot of energy and reveals more through your mistakes than your successes. Somehow, you'll naturally draw out the side of your friend that is passionate and assertive. The communication between you will be lively at the very least. Your highly energetic interactions will be fast-paced and fun, and you'll both have a great time ribbing and challenging each other. Just try to be sensitive when you're pushing too hard, or giving advice that simply doesn't apply to the person your friend is or the ambitions they hold.
You'll want to cooperate with each other, but instead, somehow, you'll get into power struggles. The intensity of this aspect can be mitigated by other, softer ones that will promote harmony between you, but in general, this one will be hard to deal with. Your friend will try, consciously or subconsciously, to force you to change, because your methods of processing the world and your place in it won't match up with theirs. You're much more intellectual about things than they are, whereas they act more from the gut. You'll both take your own side in a serious and dogmatic way, clinging to your own beliefs so fervently that you could forget there's any other way of experiencing the world. In some big ways, you'll disagree. Challenges like this can be really hard to deal with and could make you feel divided. On the other hand, this friendship could push you to define yourself in ways that you've never thought of before.
Though individually you might focus on your dreams and ideals for the future, together, you'll have a restrictive, inhibitive effect on each other's ability to attain those ideals. Whenever you have a bright, creative, high-flying idea about a goal that you want to meet, your pal will tend to bring it down with an overly sober explanation of everything that might go wrong. And whenever they're trying to be serious about working hard toward one of their goals, you'll be off somewhere, refusing to focus or get serious with them. Neither of you deserves to have your sense of responsibility challenged or your joie de vivre stripped away. So your task in this friendship will be to learn how to move forward and achieve your goals, even in the face of a challenge from this friend. It might not be a fun process, but it could be a very important step in developing your own strength and determination.
You'll help your friend ground their values and creativity in reality and help them make long-range plans that are viable and well-founded. They, in return, will make you feel warm and happy. Together, you'll make a great working team. This particular aspect will go a long way toward creating a sense of stability, togetherness and lasting affection between you. It will also help strengthen your communication and your problem-solving abilities. You'll be able to work through any issues that come up. Furthermore, your connection will strengthen and stabilize both your values. And finally, you can have a stabilizing effect on your friend's creative process, encouraging them in this area and offering practical suggestions and advice.
You'll have a sobering influence on your friend's thought processes. In conversation, you'll encourage them not just to skim the surface of a subject or an idea, but to grasp its details and complexity. If they tend to zip from one idea to the next like a butterfly, never stopping for long at any one, you'll help them learn to focus and explore in a more purposeful way. You'll also offer them sound advice for dealing with issues in their life. You'll help them to take life more seriously and to recognize which subjects and situations merit a more probing investigation. You can show them how to take their high-flying or abstract ideas and ground them in a workable, well-functioning framework, to make them more lasting as well as more accessible to the world around them.
You two will work well as a team, and you'll help each other accomplish whatever you set your minds to, as individuals or as friends. You'll have very similar ideas of how to be a disciplined and responsible human being, and you'll cooperate with each other very well -- which would make you wonderful business partners as well as good friends! The level of open communication between you will help you to stay informed and mutually supportive. So, you'll work hard together, keeping your eyes on the prize, and best of all, you'll get to enjoy the fruits of all that honest labor together. This aspect shouldn't make you overly goal-oriented; it should just add the right amount of energy to allow you to work well and hard, and make real progress in your lives. This is a very durable influence that will make your bond similarly strong.
The temperamental differences between you might seem destined to put you on opposite sides of the fence: Where you hold to tradition, your pal will be radical, even rebellious; where you're hardworking and methodical, they're creative and spontaneous. The blending of your strengths and seemingly opposing qualities will be a challenge for this friendship. It might be that all your struggles over this subject will lead to a forced compromise -- but it also could just be an ever-widening rift between you. It's up to you which of those possibilities comes true.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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