Wondering how the two of you match up as friends? Now you can find out, at a glance! Our two-way bar graph reveals the connection between you and your BFF -- how you affect them, and how they affect you -- giving you a quick view of the strength of your connection in six important categories.
And what are those categories? Just the ones that can make or break a friendship -- like how your core personalities mesh, how the two of you communicate and the levels of similarities you have for each other. In short, have you got what it takes to become BFF’s? The Astrologer knows! Just remember, even if you both rate high in all six categories, the friendship still might not work out...and even if you rate low, your bond can still grow solid.
What's best is when a graph shows that two people are about equal in their connection to each other. That way, no one feels left out! The bar graphs can only give you a quick peek at the chemistry of your friendship -- the rest is up to you.
Your Soul Connection with your friend is based on how your Sun connects with their personality, including their values, their outlook and what matters to them, and how their Sun connects with you. Just as the Sun is the center of the orbit of all the planets in our solar system, it's also the center of you -- your inner fire, the vital energy that will run through you your whole life. It represents your basic, core personality, separate from all the other influences that... Read more
In this bar graph, your Communicative Bond is based on how your Mercury connects with your best friend’s world view, their attitude toward friendship and how they express themselves, and on how their Mercury connects with you. Often called the planet of communication, Mercury rules your thought processes, your sense of logic, your intellectual ideas and the way you get those ideas across to the world. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top one while your BFF’s is the bottom one are very different in length, then one of you will feel mentally turned on and tuned in, but the other just won't feel the connection. If the lines are similar in length... Read more
In this bar graph, your social link with your best friend is based on how Venus, your harmony planet, connects with them at a heart level, and on how their Venus connects with you. Venus -- the sweet and affectionate planet of love, harmony and socializing -- is all about pleasure, bringing people together and uniting them in harmony, so this planet rules not just love and dating but also friendships, partnerships and any social gathering. If the lines of the graph – yours are... Read more
The excitement you have with your BFF is based on how your Mars connects with their sense of who they are, what they go after and how they express themselves, and on how their Mars connects with you in the same way. Mars rules action, your propensity for irritation, your urge to compete and succeed -- all of these fall within this powerful planet's realm. Mars affects your attitude toward friendship, and it also determines how you could argue with your bestie. If the lines of the graph – yours are on the top and theirs on the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to feel very driven by the relationship, but the other just won't feel... Read more
In this bar graph, your Beliefs and Shared Values are based on how your Jupiter connects with your best friend’s sense of what life is all about, and how their Jupiter connects with you in the same way. Jupiter is referred to as the planet of luck because it brings opportunities and advantages into your life that can seem like a stroke of luck, but are really life lessons meant to test and teach you about your own value system. This planet is also about learning... Read more
Your Long-Term Potential to become friends for life is based on how your Saturn connects with their needs, their nature and their sense of duty in life, and on how their Saturn connects with you in the same way. Saturn's influence in your chart is like that of your conscience. This planet keeps you in check, reminding you of your responsibilities -- including your commitment to your friends and family. If the lines of the graph – yours are the top one’s and theirs the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to bond fast, while the other just won't share that sense of camaraderie -- not right away, and maybe not ever.... Read more
The Harmony and Challenge Meters read the compatibility chart between you and your best friend, and reveals the levels of harmony and challenges in your friendship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between the two!
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of harmony and very little challenges, but what you really want is a mix between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And too many challenges can also ruin a friendship; without a little breathing room between fights and disagreements you'd tire each other out, fast!
Something in the middle is just the ticket. Sometimes a good argument every now and then to clear the air, and a sense of trust and understanding means you will always have each other’s back. One more word of caution before you get started... Read more
9-10: BFF's forever
7-8: You tend to finish each other's sentences
4-6: There's an easy flow between you
0-3: Sometimes it's better to agree to disagree
7-8: You've been through thick and thin together
4-6: Small disagreements here and there
0-3: Hardly ever had a disagreement!
Together, you two will find growth and success. You'll both go through some changes as individuals that will be supported through your connection with each other. For example, one of you might choose to go back to school to advance your education, or you might change jobs in order to move onto a career path that's more closely aligned with the type of person you want to become. Your friendship will support these kinds of major life changes, as you'll each offer one another the unconditional support and encouragement that will make both of you feel optimistic, even lucky, as if you can't go wrong. You'll discuss the changes you're undergoing with each other and will listen with an open heart and an avid ear.
From the get-go, you two will share an easy understanding and a communicative rapport. Your friend has an instinctive understanding for just how to get through to you and how to respect your individuality. In fact, you might derive a sense of power and vitality from this friendship. You'll feel respected by your buddy as a unique person with original, valid ideas and perspectives. You might become more of an individual than ever before, as this could be the first time you've experienced such respect, support and acceptance. You two will be very talkative together and will enjoy discussing your past experiences, your present activities and your goals for the future. You could even enjoy getting into the occasional, fun debate, since neither of you is threatened by the other's opinions! You also have great potential to be highly creative together.
A lively sense of energy, excitement and uniqueness will make your friendship a lot of fun! You'll sense a kindred soul in your pal -- someone as unique as you are. And you'll recognize that here's a person who will be able to give expression to your wildest, weirdest ideas. You'll be very creative together. What form that takes will remain to be seen, but in some way, this person will inspire you to new levels in your thinking and give form to your ideas. There will be a lot of lively and intelligent conversation between you, because you'll both be open to anything the other serves up -- no matter how out-there it might seem. Nothing will be too strange for you two; your friend will actually encourage you to think way outside the box. You're on a path toward personal enlightenment, so you'll be able to support that quest in one another.
It will be difficult to fully be yourself in this friendship because there will be a deep-rooted conflict between you two. Even when you first meet, you'll feel the effects of old, unconscious wounds rearing their heads in the present. You may feel as if you've come to this friendship for a reason. You both have some painful deep-past issues that will come to the fore through your relationship. Transformation is needed, but there are problems. Resentments will build up as criticisms lead to tiffs, tiffs erupt into arguments and then intensify into full-on, angry disagreements. You're two different people; that's unavoidable. But this particular friendship won't serve either of you as individuals for long unless you make the necessary changes. You may find that over time, you'll begin to grate on one another's nerves. Your friend, especially, will make demands on you that can't and shouldn't be met. This will be a very difficult aspect to work with and will require much patience and compromise on both your parts if you're to maintain the friendship.
What a creative, positive friendship you two will share! Each of you will bring certain gifts to the table, and your gifts will complement one another well: For example, your pal has panache and you have the vitality to give it form. They're intuitive, while your sense of logic will underscore their instincts. If you meet face to face, you'll enjoy an active social life together. This aspect will help you smooth over any rough patches that may occur in your friendship, because you'll know when to make a compromise in order to keep things harmonious. You won't argue with each other much, and if you have other more aggressive aspects between you, this one will help to tone down that energy. You'll strive to be considerate of each other and you'll both work hard to keep the friendship intact.
Getting to know each other will be easy. Your conversations will flow from the first connection. Your friend will encourage you to be adventurous in your thinking and your self-expression. If you end up working together or launching a creative project, this aspect will help tremendously in the spontaneous production of great ideas! It will also help you to quickly and easily resolve any disagreements that you two may have. Your creativity will be stimulated when you're in contact and you'll come up with all kinds of great ideas together. If you are normally a quiet or laid-back type, expect to be drawn out through your interaction with this person. You'll share plenty of interests in common, and even the things you disagree on will be interesting to both of you -- if only to have a friendly debate about them. Have fun!
Inspiration and growth will be a big focus between you. Your friend knows how to dream big; they look at the future as an interesting puzzle, one they want to solve soon and with a lot of creativity. And they'll have this effect on you, helping you to see things with their sense of humor and hope. This is because you two really are similar when it comes down to your ideas and the ways your minds work. You've had a lot of life experience, and your buddy will be able to take all that you've learned through your experiences and put it toward some practical use. Don't be surprised if you end up starting a business together or writing a book -- something creative that will involve your intellect and your friend's creativity, your problem-solving skills and their street smarts. Whatever it is, it'll definitely be a success, because how could it not? As long as you two stay focused on your optimistic sense of possibility and opportunity, you'll be able to accomplish just about anything you both put your minds to.
Your friendship will start out as a fascination between the two of you. Your friend has a compelling hold on your imagination, and you'll feel amazed by how deeply and how fast you get involved with them. This friendship will be a transformative experience, but be forewarned -- this will get intense. If you're not into developing a true friendship with this person, you should let them know in no uncertain terms. Mixed signals could be interpreted in any way that they want, even if you've told them straight out that you don't want a new best friend. So just know this dynamic beforehand; that way, you can circumvent any jealousy or possessiveness issues that would otherwise become a problem. But if you're into developing a strong friendship, let them know. Honesty will get you far in this connection, and building a strong, supportive friendship is a very real possibility.
You'll have sympathy and understanding for each other, and this naturally caring inclination could easily grow into a strong friendship. You'll enjoy being in contact with each other, whether it's via email, text messages, the phone or in person. You'll stimulate each other's imaginations, and you'll both enjoy the sense of kinship that grows between you. Your ideals about what a friendship should be will find expression in this connection. You'll support each other and inspire one another to be selfless and compassionate. This aspect will help you to stay in tune with each other and to really learn what it means to be buddies. This will be a devoted friendship. Music, art, films, poetry and literature will be a great way to build and explore your connection.
Your feelings may go overlooked in this relationship, unless there are other strong aspects between you to support clear and positive communication. Your emotional reactions will go right over your friend's head; they'll think they get you, but you'll feel misunderstood or even ignored. Your buddy will have an especially hard time understanding you when it comes to your values -- how you spend your money, how you deal with friends and family, how you express your personal style at home and more. If your friendship means something to you, rather than allowing the relationship to devolve and seeing each other as inconsiderate and uncommunicative, you'll have to put effort into understanding each other better.
This friendship will bring exciting new influences to your lives. Your interactions will be spontaneous and will lead you places you won't expect to go. You'll be very social together and when you get together to hang out, you'll both like blending your groups of friends. But while this aspect will keep things interesting, it's likely that interesting could fast become uncomfortable. You just won't be able to count on each other. Over time, your buddy will become more and more unreliable -- showing up late, canceling plans at the last minute, not being there for you when you need them and so on. None of this will foster any feelings of being close buddies. Although exciting, this friendship may end up being too unstable for you to maintain.
This aspect will create a lot of energy between you. When you're together, you'll find that you're both enlivened in terms alertness and activity that you might not experience except when you're with each other. This aspect will increase the energy of whatever other dominant influences will be between you. So if you have a harmonious bond and you relate to each other as treasured friends, this aspect will increase that feeling between you. But if you have a trying relationship -- if you tend to argue a lot or irritate each other -- this aspect will also increase that tendency, and could give much more active expression to all the ways in which you'll get under each other's skin. It will be up to you to make sure the energy in this friendship goes toward a worthy use rather than one that would be better avoided.
There will be a lot of good energy between you, and you'll enjoy your friendship. Whether it's playing sports together, going hiking, or building or renovating something as a team, any projects you undertake together will be a success! You'll work together well and you'll know that you can rely on each other as teammates -- and that will free you up to take on almost any challenge that could arise. You'll have a positive, optimistic effect on each other. You'll help each other meet life head-on, with both eyes open. It could be that you'll get more accomplished through the course of this friendship than you would have on your own, because of the supportive effect you'll have on each other. Encouraging each other to take on any activity that involves education will be great for both of you.
There will always be an undercurrent of competition and combativeness between you, but it could be more than just a feeling. Something about your friend's personality will rub you the wrong way, and elicit passionate reactions from you that may surprise even you. And you'll rub them the wrong way, too; your drives and ambitions will seem off-target to them, and you can bet you'll have more than a few disagreements about your goals and how you move toward them. Needless to say, these frustrations could easily mount and spell the end of the friendship, but it doesn't have to be that way. This connection could, in fact, teach both of you to be far more patient, compromising and compassionate than you've been in the past. If this friend means something to you, you can probably work things out, but it will take effort as will as humility and self-control.
You'll have to force yourselves to be completely honest and clear with each other; otherwise, your friendship will become entirely too muddied. That means no telling lies or fibs to each other, even 'harmless' little white lies. Passive-aggressiveness could become a problem between you, especially on your friend's side; they might purposely mislead you when they're not aware of their feelings, or even leave out information just to watch you struggle without it. Falseness in the opposite direction could occur as well: You might fake concern for their problems, but you'll have an ulterior motive. For best results, you must be careful from the start never to mislead each other or cover anything up. If you don't understand where your pal's coming from, just say so and go on from there.
You'll both find it easy to get along with each other. The strong, warm and open communication between you will help to ensure that you'll always be able to resolve issues and understand each other. You'll have a lot to teach your friend about values and aesthetics, and they will happily look up to you in those realms. A feeling of companionship will grow between you, which will significantly underscore your fond feelings for each other and will help in establishing a long-term friendship. Socially, you'll encourage your buddy to get out there more and make the most of their networking contacts. You might help them open their eyes to opportunities that come their way through friends and acquaintances. Most of all, there will be a feeling of support and admiration between you.
Together, you two will make things happen! Expect an energy surge when you're together. You'll have an expansive effect on your friend's ambitions and drive; whatever they want, you'll help them go for it, either by teaching or showing them how or by encouraging them to pursue it on their own. Teamwork will be a positive focus of your friendship; you'll work well together. You'll be active, too, meeting up for exercise or to attend social events and network with all your friends and acquaintances. If you ever go into business together or simply tackle a project, you'll make a great working team, one with complementary strengths. Just be sure to stay active together; otherwise, the considerable energy you'll generate together could be too much to handle.
Your ideals and beliefs will be aligned. Together, you'll search for meaning in your lives, and you'll understand and support this search in each other. You'll feel as if you've come together for a purpose -- to figure out something big about your lives and your futures -- and you could be right! You'll both want to expand your minds and your horizons, and that's something you'll be able to do as friends. You'll inspire each other, and help each other to find yourselves. Your individual purposes in life could become more clear through the course of this relationship than they've ever been to you before, and you'll support each other in finding your way along your paths. Learning and education will be highlighted for you, and the optimism you'll bring to each other's lives will inspire self-confidence in both of you.
Your core values and beliefs aren't very compatible with your friend's personality, and you may both experience some resulting tension as you get to know each other better. The ways in which you ordinarily learn and expand your horizons will run counter to the ways in which your friend naturally behaves and expresses themselves, and you'll both feel limited as a result of this disconnect. You just have different ideas, both of which deserve respect. At a deeper level, your beliefs may somehow seem threatening to your buddy, but you are likely to simply brush any concerns aside, opting instead for blind optimism -- which isn't always as helpful as it may seem. Open, honest communication will be necessary here.
You shouldn't have a problem establishing the kind of security you'll both need in a friendship, because you are probably very close in age and have similar values. You'll both want things to be the same way -- and you'll have the same idea about how to make it happen. The structures of your lives will blend together really well, because you'll have such similar ideas -- what social or public roles you'll want to take on, and so on. Of course, this aspect does have some pitfalls related to the maturity level of the two of you as individuals and of your friendship itself. A mature relationship between two emotionally developed adults will only be helped by this influence, as it will further stabilize you. You already know what you want out of life, and this relationship will help you move toward it.
You'll have a sobering influence on your friend's thought processes. In conversation, you'll encourage them not just to skim the surface of a subject or an idea, but to grasp its details and complexity. If they tend to zip from one idea to the next like a butterfly, never stopping for long at any one, you'll help them learn to focus and explore in a more purposeful way. You'll also offer them sound advice for dealing with issues in their life. You'll help them to take life more seriously and to recognize which subjects and situations merit a more probing investigation. You can show them how to take their high-flying or abstract ideas and ground them in a workable, well-functioning framework, to make them more lasting as well as more accessible to the world around them.
Ordinarily, the differences in your personalities might be too much for you to handle. You're a more traditional person than your friend, and their sense of spontaneity and rebellion won't always jive with your hardworking, methodical approach to life. But in this particular friendship, these qualities will actually work well together. It will be a case of bringing your own gifts to the table, in order to benefit you both. You'll be able to strike a creative balance between you that will help in any project you might work on together. Your combined caution and willingness to take risks will usually yield great results. Tackling problems will be your forte, one that you should use to the best advantage for both of you.
You naturally take a practical view of life; you trust in the things that you can see, touch, feel and otherwise count on in a tangible way. You believe in hard work and responsibility, and anything more abstract than that seems out-and-out silly to you. But there's a whole other side of things -- the intangible, the instinctive, even the psychic -- and your pal will have a good grasp on these concepts. They'll lead with their gut, acting on instinct. This can actually be threatening to you if you need to stand on solid ground to feel comfortable. These differences between you could lead to episodes of intense controlling behavior in which you'll try to control your pal's sense of reality in order to validate your own. But you'll find that your attempts to control your pal won't work. Instead of setting up this pattern, why not do the hard work of learning to accept your differences? That's the only way that you'll be able to get along.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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