Wondering how the two of you match up as friends? Now you can find out, at a glance! Our two-way bar graph reveals the connection between you and your BFF -- how you affect them, and how they affect you -- giving you a quick view of the strength of your connection in six important categories.
And what are those categories? Just the ones that can make or break a friendship -- like how your core personalities mesh, how the two of you communicate and the levels of similarities you have for each other. In short, have you got what it takes to become BFF’s? The Astrologer knows! Just remember, even if you both rate high in all six categories, the friendship still might not work out...and even if you rate low, your bond can still grow solid.
What's best is when a graph shows that two people are about equal in their connection to each other. That way, no one feels left out! The bar graphs can only give you a quick peek at the chemistry of your friendship -- the rest is up to you.
Your Soul Connection with your friend is based on how your Sun connects with their personality, including their values, their outlook and what matters to them, and how their Sun connects with you. Just as the Sun is the center of the orbit of all the planets in our solar system, it's also the center of you -- your inner fire, the vital energy that will run through you your whole life. It represents your basic, core personality, separate from all the other influences that... Read more
In this bar graph, your Communicative Bond is based on how your Mercury connects with your best friend’s world view, their attitude toward friendship and how they express themselves, and on how their Mercury connects with you. Often called the planet of communication, Mercury rules your thought processes, your sense of logic, your intellectual ideas and the way you get those ideas across to the world. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top one while your BFF’s is the bottom one are very different in length, then one of you will feel mentally turned on and tuned in, but the other just won't feel the connection. If the lines are similar in length... Read more
In this bar graph, your social link with your best friend is based on how Venus, your harmony planet, connects with them at a heart level, and on how their Venus connects with you. Venus -- the sweet and affectionate planet of love, harmony and socializing -- is all about pleasure, bringing people together and uniting them in harmony, so this planet rules not just love and dating but also friendships, partnerships and any social gathering. If the lines of the graph – yours are... Read more
The excitement you have with your BFF is based on how your Mars connects with their sense of who they are, what they go after and how they express themselves, and on how their Mars connects with you in the same way. Mars rules action, your propensity for irritation, your urge to compete and succeed -- all of these fall within this powerful planet's realm. Mars affects your attitude toward friendship, and it also determines how you could argue with your bestie. If the lines of the graph – yours are on the top and theirs on the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to feel very driven by the relationship, but the other just won't feel... Read more
In this bar graph, your Beliefs and Shared Values are based on how your Jupiter connects with your best friend’s sense of what life is all about, and how their Jupiter connects with you in the same way. Jupiter is referred to as the planet of luck because it brings opportunities and advantages into your life that can seem like a stroke of luck, but are really life lessons meant to test and teach you about your own value system. This planet is also about learning... Read more
Your Long-Term Potential to become friends for life is based on how your Saturn connects with their needs, their nature and their sense of duty in life, and on how their Saturn connects with you in the same way. Saturn's influence in your chart is like that of your conscience. This planet keeps you in check, reminding you of your responsibilities -- including your commitment to your friends and family. If the lines of the graph – yours are the top one’s and theirs the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to bond fast, while the other just won't share that sense of camaraderie -- not right away, and maybe not ever.... Read more
The Harmony and Challenge Meters read the compatibility chart between you and your best friend, and reveals the levels of harmony and challenges in your friendship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between the two!
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of harmony and very little challenges, but what you really want is a mix between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And too many challenges can also ruin a friendship; without a little breathing room between fights and disagreements you'd tire each other out, fast!
Something in the middle is just the ticket. Sometimes a good argument every now and then to clear the air, and a sense of trust and understanding means you will always have each other’s back. One more word of caution before you get started... Read more
9-10: BFF's forever
7-8: You tend to finish each other's sentences
4-6: There's an easy flow between you
0-3: Sometimes it's better to agree to disagree
9-10: Frenemies?
7-8: You've been through thick and thin together
4-6: Small disagreements here and there
0-3: Hardly ever had a disagreement!
You two can develop a wonderfully strong and dynamic friendship! This aspect will lend an energy of optimism and support to your interactions and will create a feeling of positivity and confidence, as if you two can tackle any issue and overcome any obstacle. This is because you'll share very similar values on a basic level. You'll like sharing your ideas, especially the knowledge that each of you has that can increase your pal's perceptions of the world. Taking classes, reading books and articles, attending lectures and pursuing other activities that stimulate your mutual desire to learn -- all of these are excellent for your friendship. You'll admire one another and respect each other's choices in life, and you'll both work to return the support you feel coming your way in spades. What a nice connection to have.
From the get-go, you two will share an easy understanding and a communicative rapport. Your friend has an instinctive understanding for just how to get through to you and how to respect your individuality. In fact, you might derive a sense of power and vitality from this friendship. You'll feel respected by your buddy as a unique person with original, valid ideas and perspectives. You might become more of an individual than ever before, as this could be the first time you've experienced such respect, support and acceptance. You two will be very talkative together and will enjoy discussing your past experiences, your present activities and your goals for the future. You could even enjoy getting into the occasional, fun debate, since neither of you is threatened by the other's opinions! You also have great potential to be highly creative together.
You'll have some conflict from time to time. At first it might be mild and occasional, but as time goes on, you'll go head to head more and more often. You two have some basic and important differences when it comes to how you think life should be lived. You're a bit more traditional than your pal, and they can seem unstable and unpredictable. You'll fight over issues of responsibility, morals and other subjects. If you're lucky, you'll be able to laugh at yourselves and each other, but these arguments could turn into painful disagreements that affect your friendship. Each of you will be subtly trying to dominate the other, and that will lead to some major clashes. This is a very unstable and difficult aspect to deal with, and it will take plenty of patience on both your parts to get past it.
You two will have a strong mental connection. You'll have great conversations, but they could get heated -- your pal will constantly try to best you, interrupting you in order to show off their cleverness and sharp wits. If you can handle that kind of energy, this influence should be a lot of fun! And your friendly debates could be really exciting. If you grew up in a household that encouraged lively communication, you'll feel right at home in this friendship; but if you're used to more respectful or sedate conversations, you could be taken by surprise -- especially if your friend relies on aggressive arguments to make their point. That kind of approach could make the best of us shrink back! It'll definitely take two strong backbones to make this aspect work. If you don't find it fun to debate every issue, you might not like the way your conversations go.
From the get-go, you two will share an easy understanding and a communicative rapport. It will be easier than usual for you to express yourselves. This is because you'll have an instinctive understanding for just how to get through to each other and how to respect one another. Your friend may derive a sense of power and vitality from this friendship, as if their individuality is better defined than ever before. They'll really appreciate your respect for them as a unique person with original, valid ideas and perspectives. They'll be very talkative with you and will enjoy discussing their past experiences and relationships, their present activities and their goals for the future, as well as hearing all about yours. You could both even enjoy getting into the occasional, fun debate, since neither of you is threatened by the other's opinions. You also have great potential to be highly creative together; whether this takes the form of some really fun, unique activities or actually launching a creative or entrepreneurial project together is up to you!
There will be an air of intensity when you're together as this person pushes you to confront the deepest, most complex and potentially frightening issues in your life. Their methods of ferreting out your deepest buried emotions will probably be pretty uncomfortable for you. You could have arguments over your differing viewpoints, or you'll fight if you don't feel like obsessing about these things all the time. But still, you'll feel compelled to do it, as if your time together would be wasted on mere small talk or superficial communication. This aspect could have a positive effect in the end, if it encourages transformation to a higher mental plane or a higher level of self-awareness. This person might try hard to have control over your mind and thoughts, which would really push this influence to its limits. You should try to give each other and yourselves a break from time to time, because this kind of influence will wear you both out if you're not careful.
You'll feel a lot of kinship toward each other, right from the start. There will be a naturally high level of interest between you, a current of energy and awareness that will foster a fun, exciting involvement for both of you. This aspect lends your friendship long-term potential and will help to warm up your connection. Your feelings for your friend will be strong from the beginning, heightened by what will feel like a magnetic pull between you. You'll feel drawn to them, like there is a deep connection. These feelings will be heightened by a general sense of goodwill. You'll get along well, you'll consider one another to be good friends and you'll admire each other's wonderful qualities. You'll be devoted to one another and the friendship, a feeling that will strengthen your bond.
You'll have a natural ability to connect with each other and to access each other's best selves. This friendship will be based on mutual support, but also on your complementary qualities -- and maybe even an element of physical attraction. Your friend will bring the energy and enthusiasm to this friendship, while you'll add a softer viewpoint to the mix. But that quality you'll provide won't be dull. You'll share a warm and emotional bond. You'll support each other as friends should and you'll work together like a real team, with your different styles complementing each other. The easy connection that will run between you should pave the way toward understanding each other and yourselves better and better over time. This may turn out to be one of those lifelong friendships.
This aspect will make things somewhat difficult when it comes to relating naturally as friends. Somehow your friend will look down on your relationships, your looks or your values. They can actually make you feel quite insecure in these areas, and as a result you'll be prone to feeling very self-conscious around them; in fact, you'll both be pretty uncomfortable. This person will attempt to control you in a way that will make it hard to get along; they'll try to restrain your natural way of being loving and affectionate. In order to have a fun and loving relationship, you'll both have to learn to love and respect each other despite your differences.
While this friendship is going to feel really good to both of you and will bring out your most creative sides, it may actually not be all that healthy unless you take precautions to keep it that way. When you meet, it will feel like you're truly on the same wavelength, and in many ways you actually are; but your tendency together is to overindulge yourselves in the most pleasurable ways. Boundaries and limits are not in your mutual language, and you can see how that could end up in excesses that could really set you both back. Unless you consciously direct your combined energies into creative projects, which you can be quite successful at, you'd do best to keep a third, more grounded friend around to ensure you don't get into too much trouble.
This aspect will create a lot of energy between you. When you're together, you'll find that you're both enlivened in terms alertness and activity that you might not experience except when you're with each other. This aspect will increase the energy of whatever other dominant influences will be between you. So if you have a harmonious bond and you relate to each other as treasured friends, this aspect will increase that feeling between you. But if you have a trying relationship -- if you tend to argue a lot or irritate each other -- this aspect will also increase that tendency, and could give much more active expression to all the ways in which you'll get under each other's skin. It will be up to you to make sure the energy in this friendship goes toward a worthy use rather than one that would be better avoided.
Your friend's individuality will inspire you to be the most confident, positive-thinking and assertive person you can be. You'll simply feel amped up and excited when you're together, and physical activities are likely to be an important part of your connection. Getting out of the house will be an exciting prospect for both of you, whether it's for a jog, a day on the town, or an out-of-town adventure. Teamwork will be one of your fortes as a pair; in fact, you'd make excellent partners in business as well as friends. You'll find that you have similar ideas and ambitions, as well as compatible methods of going after your goals. Mutual support and encouragement will become an important part of the foundation of your connection. You'll push and inspire each other to be the best individuals you can possibly be.
This aspect will be a really difficult one for both of you to handle, as it will bring up so much anger, resistance and even aggression between you. Even if you're ordinarily quite placid, expect to be provoked more than you might think possible through this friendship! Unless other aspects between you can help create a feeling of understanding and commonality, you'll have a hard time getting along together for long. The ways that you'll express your anger at your buddy could be extreme; somehow, they'll bring up the deepest, strongest feelings of rage and resentment that you have hidden in the depths of your soul. You'll have to work hard to learn the lesson that this influence offers -- how to calm yourself in the face of rage; how to be a good friend and treat people well, even when you're feeling as if you can't stand them. Expect battles and power struggles. In the end, you may decide this friendship's not worth it.
Your communication will be strong and you'll inspire each other and challenge each other to think in brand-new ways, stretching your minds past what you previously thought possible. Your biggest dreams will appeal to your friend's natural curiosity, and they'll instantly start to devise ways to make your dreams a reality. Your expansiveness and natural yearning to learn will serve as an example for them of how to loosen up their own thinking. In conversation, you'll roam together from one subject to another, and you'll find fun ways to root out any narrow thinking and open your buddy's mind to new theories. In return, they'll help you ground your philosophies in fact and logic, shaping your values into something realistic and workable. Absorbing completely new ways of thinking will make for quite a stimulating friendship.
Though you'll share a mutual feeling of warmth, support and togetherness, there is a basic disagreement between your beliefs and your friend's values that will be problematic from time to time. It's likely that you'll both try to ignore these differences in the name of preserving the friendship; after all, there is a genuine fondness between you that you'll both want to maintain. You'll both want harmony, and you'll work together to attain it. But that may mean having to ignore differences that are there, just beneath the surface of your connection. At times, you'll find it hard to support each other's dreams because your beliefs and values are clashing. The best route here will be to find ways to appreciate and understand each other without trying to change each other at these deep levels.
You'll come in contact for a bigger purpose, a spiritual ideal. If you tend to be a cynical, pessimistic type (though you might call yourself realistic!), this friendship will help you open up your soul a little bit and soften that hardened shell you've developed. After all, your cynicism is just a defense mechanism you've developed as a response to various experiences that life has served up for you; it's not necessarily an accurate representation of the way the world really works. This friendship will help to open you back up to the intangible side of life and human possibility. Your pal will help you to start to believe in magic again, and you, in return, will help them to stay grounded in reality. You might simply enrich each other's lives with your complementary perspectives, but you could also get into something more specific and directed in terms of spirituality.
You two will work well as a team, and you'll help each other accomplish whatever you set your minds to, as individuals or as friends. You'll have very similar ideas of how to be a disciplined and responsible human being, and you'll cooperate with each other very well -- which would make you wonderful business partners as well as good friends! The level of open communication between you will help you to stay informed and mutually supportive. So, you'll work hard together, keeping your eyes on the prize, and best of all, you'll get to enjoy the fruits of all that honest labor together. This aspect shouldn't make you overly goal-oriented; it should just add the right amount of energy to allow you to work well and hard, and make real progress in your lives. This is a very durable influence that will make your bond similarly strong.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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