The Romance and Passion Meters read your birth chart and reveal the levels of romance and passion you have been gifted with in this lifetime. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing or an uphill battle when it comes to matters of the heart.
Before you jump in, know that there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think it would be better to have a lot of sweet stuff with the Romance meter, but what you really want is balance.
Just imagine: with all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty boring (yawn). And too much passion can also ruin a relationship. Without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you just might tire your lover out, fast! A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then.
One more word of caution before you get started: Remember, no relationship or person is perfect. Even with what seems like the ideal balance of romance and passion, a romantic relationship could turn out to be a total flop. It really all boils down to our free will.
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
You're a lover, not a fighter. You'd much prefer everyone to just get along, and you're distressed by fights, arguments, and disagreements. You do your part to make the world -- and your immediate environment -- a more harmonious place. Instinctively knowing how to treat other people with respect and courtesy, you make acquaintances easily and, better yet, can bring people together. Friends capitalize on your natural diplomatic skills, making you a go-between for people who are not getting along. Your mediation skills are legendary and others often seek you out when they need a good listener and a fair, balanced view of things. Your ability to see both sides of an issue helps you in negotiations, but also contributes to your extreme indecision. Making up your mind can be a huge challenge. And even after you decide something, you often second-guess yourself or change your mind! You are very sincere in each moment, but your feelings can change in an instant. Since you are so nice and so want to be liked and admired by others, and because you don't like any unpleasantness, you bend over backward to avoid confrontation. You're afraid of offending people. But what exactly are you afraid of? You'll never be able to please everyone, and despite your fears, no one will dislike you for telling your truth. In fact, honesty will dramatically increase the respect you receive from others.
There's a natural sense of authority and severity about you. Even at a young age you were likely thrust into leadership roles, and you took the mantle of responsibility very seriously. You do things the old-fashioned way, with meticulous attention to detail, insistence on competency and the expectation of real results. Your standards are impossibly high. Where does that come from? That demanding, critical, conservative demeanor you display reveals an inner dynamic of your core nature -- that of wanting the approval of some external authority figure. When that support is finally found -- internally, of course -- it is grudging or conditional. In a sense, you're trapped in your imperial mind, requiring outside proof of what you perceive with your senses. You often feel isolated and alone, which creates not only interpersonal problems at work but in romance as well. Rather than pushing people away, make it a point to be interested in them. Lighten up a little bit, and relax. Connection will relieve the loneliness you feel inside.
You are very fair-minded, and always strive to see both sides of any story. With your strong sense of justice and your ability to grasp and explain contradictory positions, you can make an excellent liaison or negotiator. You have an amazing capacity to bring people together. You can find the few small points upon which they agree, and from this, you can build consensus and contracts. Your writing and communication style may be rather flowery, more inclined to descriptions than substance. With an attractive voice and a flair for pretty speech, you are often the toastmaster at parties and may frequently be invited to speak to groups of people. When it comes to declaring yourself on a specific side of any issue or problem, however, there could be trouble. You understand each faction's position and grasp the nuances of the debate. You can't, however, seem to stay on one side of the fence! Instead, you become a fence-sitter, or worse yet, a chronic mind-changer -- despite a well-developed sense of right and wrong. At least you can say that in the moment, you were sincere! You truly can't help but to change your mind frequently. It's just the way you're wired.
You're one-of-a-kind. An original. Way ahead of the curve. Someone who thinks not only outside the box, but outside the entire planet. In fact, your brain may spin so much, and so rapidly, that you have a very difficult time slowing it down long enough to produce a coherent thought (coherent to the rest of us mortals, anyway). Yours is an upbeat, excitable mind, given to flashes of insight and moments of extreme inspiration, envisioning things that are far beyond the current realm as we know it. You're a very fast thinker, understanding implications and possibilities long before anyone else manages to. You're frightfully free of the past, focusing solely on making the world a better place in the future. You go forward, not backward, and the idea that everyone should be free and independent is almost a political platform for you. By nature quite democratic, you always seek group consensus although in truth you prefer to work alone because no one else can keep up with you. At night you may have difficulty going to sleep, or may keep unusual hours, requiring less sleep than many others. It's a challenge to own a mind as active as yours, but the rewards are great.
You may be a captive of the confines of your own overly scientific or mechanical mind. There's nothing wrong with wanting proof before you'll believe something, but there are times when your own skeptical nature prevents you from seeing the facts that are right before your eyes. You may be too invested in rigid rules and not open enough to new concepts and ideas. In fact, you take every challenge as a slap in the face of your intellectualism, instead of engaging in an open exchange of ideas. Mentally speaking, the wheels of your brain may not be the fastest on the racetrack, and sometimes people with a faster wit leave you sputtering and annoyed. Later on you think of all the choice comebacks you could have said, but by then it's too late. You tend to look on the dark side of life and you're often in a pessimistic or depressed frame of mind. You have a disciplined mind, however, one that lends itself to serious study and advanced learning. You'll learn much more if you can be more mentally adaptable.
You don't fall into love, you crash into it. When you relate with someone, you do so with gusto and passion, and to the depths of your heart and soul. There is no lukewarm or halfway for you in this department. You give your all, and frankly, there are some people who just can't take it. That's their problem, not yours, and don't let anyone make you think otherwise. You should not have to hold yourself back. Focus on finding someone who delights in your energy rather than being ashamed or frightened of it, and you can find much happiness and satisfaction in your partnerships. Your connections to other people run so deep that you feel very vulnerable, and besides that, your feelings get hurt easily. So early on you must have learned that you need to protect yourself. This self-protection mechanism can make you rather shy and reticent about expressing your true feelings and warmth for another, at least until you feel comfortable. If your early experiences with love and romance were hurtful, you may have receded into celibacy or hermit-hood; just don't let that last forever. Lick your wounds, then come out and try it again. That's where the love is.
Ah, you beautiful, sweet, deluded person. Reality is just too distasteful for your sensitive, refined soul. Fantasy is so much better than reality, isn't it? That dream world in which you live has been conjured up from your fondest wishes, your most hopeful ideals. It's a place of beauty where everything is perfect, just the way you want it to be. And you certainly don't want ugly, imperfect reality intruding! So, you simply refuse to look at the reality, preferring instead to imagine yourself existing in a more perfect world. This does not make you a very good judge of character, since you see only what you want to see in others, through the veil of your ideals. In fact you can be entranced by a beautiful (to you) person, imagining a relationship that does not truly exist in real time. You're as easily seduced by glamour and images as you are by the thought or reality of a new lover. Yours is the fairy-tale romance, turning away from the real world. This idealistic energy can easily be diverted to, or coexist with, a talent or ear for music, refined taste in the arts and a devotion to the spiritual or religious life in which you seek the most sublime love of all.
You've got a delightful combination of warmth, appeal and magnetism, so you naturally attract the attention of others, whether in social or other types of situations. You've got a knack for making friends and helping newcomers feel welcome and comfortable. You're aware of others and how your actions affect them; you intuitively grasp social conventions. You're a popular choice on guest lists since you lubricate social interaction so very well, and it's rare that you would give up the opportunity to go to a party, because you enjoy the socializing so much. Romantic relationships come easily for you, and you don't take long to get involved with a person once you decide you like them. You're willing to take risks in this regard, with new types of people and experiences. You appreciate beauty and art and even have a creative streak yourself, which you enjoy indulging from time to time. Graceful sports also appeal to you, such as swimming or gymnastics, both as a spectator and a participant. You have a good balance of assertion and receptivity, of action and relaxation. You know when to stick up for yourself, and when to give in.
You feel attractive and therefore you are attractive, and you enjoy it all the way. You know just how to dress to project a certain image, how to pay careful attention to your appearance in order to be noticed. You often go for the retro look and have a great knack for recycling old clothes into jaw-dropping modern wear. That creative streak probably manifests in other ways, too, and in fact you are able to give voice to some powerful expressions that are buried within you, no matter what your medium. You don't mess around when it comes to love. When you see someone who is deeply attractive to you, you can become quite taken with them. In fact, you'll have to be careful not to become obsessed, and can expect some experiences with unrequited love. But when you hook up with someone who returns your affection, your passion runs deep, which will in turn feed their flame of passion as well. The sex you enjoy is more powerful when it is a reflection of true love and devotion; it is these situations in which you'll find the most personal satisfaction and the deepest connection.
Love and relationships cause a lot of trouble and grief for you. You long for a close, intimate relationship but there are many obstacles in fulfilling this goal. You may have some deep-rooted negative beliefs about love; you might see yourself as inhibited or inexperienced in love, feel unattractive or unlovable, or shield yourself from others in order to protect yourself from the possibility of intimacy. If you don't suffer from these problems, you may attract partners who do. It's very tempting to lay the blame at their feet but in fact these problems arise from within you and are simply being projected onto your partner. There are times when you feel alone, isolated and perhaps depressed. It's possible you can still feel lonely, even when you're in a relationship, if it's with a person who is remote, unloving or unavailable, or whose work calls them away frequently. You may demand constant proof of their affection, fearing that they plan to leave you; it's hard for you to see that your very fear drives away the intimacy you desire. Yours is not an easy road when it comes to love. Be gentle with yourself, and know that you are indeed lovable and perfect in your own way.
You are a behind-the-scenes worker, preferring to operate backstage instead of in the bright spotlight. Out of public view, you work hard to organize and improve circumstances, wherever you may be. You have a good head for numbers and mechanics, and understand the details of how things work. These skills can easily be put to good use in your profession. You always want practical results from your efforts, and in addition you have a strong drive to serve others, so you may well find yourself in one of the service industries as your career. You are too modest to toot your own horn very often, and may not receive the recognition you deserve for your good ideas and hard work. You can grasp the small details and organizational overview in the same glance. You have a natural ability for facts and figures as well as physical endurance and agility. A wiry build is common with this placement, as is lots of nervous energy. You're probably good at making things with your hands. You prefer to have a neat workspace and you find that clutter disturbs you. You are incredibly hard-working and productive. Don't be shy and turn away from praise when you receive it; instead, drink it in and allow it to boost your self-confidence.
You have an incredible amount of personal strength, endurance, stamina and will. You can overcome the most bitter circumstances and events. Not that this is easy -- far from it -- but it's almost as if you've been preparing since childhood to face difficulty. Your home life may have been dominated by a strong-willed parent, with the underlying threat of violence or overt power plays. The result is an unconscious drive on your part to obtain power and control over your own life. You might be excessively domineering in your efforts to secure this power, or you may go about it more secretly, even covertly. Minor episodes trigger huge survival issues for you; this is your childhood conditioned response. You may also have periods of rage, whether free-floating or directed at something specific. You may be alarmed at your own fury and rage, sure that you are the only one who feels so intensely (you're not!). The strength of your emotions can be shocking at times, but remember that extreme depths equal exalting heights, and you are capable of both in equal degree. You are fearless when it comes to tackling societal taboos; thus, one of your jobs is to bring hidden things to the surface. You respond well to drumming and tribal dancing. Primitive beats and music touch you at the deepest levels, providing an exquisite release of energy.
You know how to get down to business and work long and hard. You can be organized and efficient to the extreme, and if there's one thing you hate, it's wasted work. You've found the key to your success: purposeful action. You plan carefully, organize every step and make sure that when you move, it's in a focused direction with an achievable goal. Your sense of timing is excellent; you often find yourself, almost without effort, in the right place at the right time to take advantage of your know-how and experience. Physical coordination and a natural athletic ability will, with a disciplined exercise and flexibility program, keep you healthy, active and strong for many years. Truth be told, you prefer to work by yourself, at your own speed and in your own way. However, authority figures and superiors are quick to notice your work ethic and skills, and want you to step up to the plate and lead others with less skill or experience. You may come to enjoy being a mentor, as you like to set an example for others to follow. Focus, hard work and concentration come easily to you, and you use them to their best advantage.
Remember Martin Luther King Jr.'s impassioned 'I have a dream' speech? Well, you have a dream, too. And what's more, you have the ability to act on your dream, to enable it to come true. In fact, you are at your best when you are actively engaged in fulfilling your most sublime ideals, when you are working toward compassionate action, when you are performing acts of service and charity. Fortunately you excel at recognizing these types of opportunities and don't hesitate to sign up. Your beliefs are strong and you feel compelled to defend them, even to fight for them. You may do so in artistic ways, such as through painting, photography or filmmaking. Directing your energy and passion toward specific ideals or belief systems helps keep you on track, because in general you are easily distracted. If you lose your focus, you are much more liable to get pulled into other people's problems and can even get roped into working for their benefit instead of your own, through a misguided sense of compassion. Don't let others take advantage of you. Instead, focus on making your own dreams come true.
Your mind wanders far. You're deeply curious, not at all satisfied with casual answers or surface responses. You delve into what is going on beneath the surface and you want to know all the dirty details. You've got the mental power to plumb the depths and uncover crucial hidden information. You'd make a great reporter, investigator, or detective; any field that requires you to hone your mental prowess with regular research is appealing to you. With your natural understanding of what motivates people, you'd also be good in therapeutic fields such as psychology and counseling. In your off hours, you may enjoy dabbling in the great mysteries, whether they be archeological, spiritual, or metaphysical. The unseen has the greatest attraction for you. Another of your skills is being able to ascertain the big picture from the small details; you make the connections that elude others, and your world view is not only large but deep as well, including both sides of the divide. This is equally true in both your professional and your day-to-day lives. Your scope is broad and your focus deep.
Like a pendulum, you swing back and forth between the extremes of optimism and despair, faith and hopelessness, confidence and self-doubt. You stick with one side until the pressure builds and then you flip-flop back to the other side, until the pressure there becomes unbearable, and so on, ad nauseum. Until you find a way to walk the middle ground, to find a central path by blending the two extremes, the swings are likely to continue. It will be very worthwhile to find that middle ground for other reasons, too, for it is in that sector that your belief systems can stabilize and your crises of faith subside. In the middle zone, you learn about history and, in a larger sense, apply method and discipline to your freewheeling mind, so your self-education becomes more broad yet more focused as time goes by. You have the ability to entertain both sides of a question, which makes you a natural in the legal profession, and as a teacher you could have many devoted students who admire you for your integrity and moral backbone. You may prefer the company of persons far younger -- or far older -- to people your own age. Make it a point to have friends of all ages.
You are a force to behold when it comes to work. Your endurance is legendary, and the amount of work you can produce is truly staggering. You strive for practical results and do not like wasted effort. Your pace is steady and methodical; some might even call it plodding. But your output cannot be disputed. A large part of your motivation for such an output of effort is security. You have a chronic, underlying fear that you will run out of money or resources -- that somehow, you will not have enough when you're old. Consequently, you may pinch pennies or have a poverty mentality when there's no reason for it, living far below your means but having plenty of savings. Part of your karmic lesson is to learn how to handle money and resources in a balanced way, neither wasting nor hoarding them. You can be frightfully stubborn and bullheaded, obstinately clinging to your position or opinion despite plenty of evidence to contradict it. On the other hand, you have an unlimited devotion and loyalty and always operate with integrity, so on many levels you are an excellent businessperson. Don't be so rigid that you can't change.
You know early on in life what you want and you are willing to work hard and overcome many obstacles on your way to achieving it. You don't like to be told what to do, and you prefer to become your own authority, self-directed in every way. The concern for security and safety is the underlying motivation for many of your most important decisions; you do not want to depend on others to take care of you. This helps you take the long view when you're planning your life and mapping out your goals. You have both discipline and endurance, which will carry you far in this life. Although you have a natural distrust for people in authority and probably don't seek positions of leadership, you may be thrust into such roles as you mature, due to your self-discipline, dedication and serious nature. You will handle these types of responsibilities very well. You are committed to transforming and improving existing structures; by simply applying your effort and focus, the changes seem to occur quite naturally. Devoting yourself to a cause can do much to further it. You're in for the long haul.
Themes that will resound throughout your life are reality versus illusion, transcending boundaries and the dissolution of established structures. Not only did these themes pervade the news and culture when you were born, but they will also be apparent in your personal life as well. With this aspect in your chart, it is difficult to get a perspective on reality. Either your dreams pervade your waking life, or you feel worn down and hopeless that your hopes and ideals will ever be realized. There may be father issues in your family; perhaps your father was not able to fulfill his parental responsibilities due to absence or illness. At any rate, you long for an effective father figure as well as for some sort of sustainable and sensible rules and boundaries. You may be the melancholy sort, or even suffer from chronic or periodic depression. There may be some sort of sacrifice or renunciation on your part in order to achieve something that is important to you. Partnerships can be problematic with this aspect, because it's possible that any of the aforementioned qualities can be projected onto your partner. In this situation it is very difficult to get to the bottom of things with yourself and your partner, although that it what is required if you are to sort things out between you.
This is a generational influence that affects everyone born within a seven-year period near the time of your birth. All by itself, this is probably not the most important feature of your chart, but it describes some general conditions that were activated during that period, and to a certain extent, you and those of your generation carry that energy forward with you as you mature and develop. The Uranus-in-Libra generation is revolutionizing relationships as we know them. A proliferation of open marriages occurred at this time, as well as people living together without marriage. You and your peers require a great deal of freedom in your partnerships, and you don't particularly care for traditional relationships. As long as you both get the freedom you need, you're OK. However, you can detach quite easily if other factors in your chart support it.
Neptune is the second of the generational planets, spending fourteen years in each sign. Everyone born within that period will have Neptune in the same sign. By itself, this placement is not the most important factor in your chart; however, it symbolizes what was going on in the world at the time you were born, and this has left an imprint on you. You and members of your generation are each imbued with this particular energy, and in some ways it characterizes everyone born during this time. Each individual will express it in their own way, some more strongly than others. With Neptune in Scorpio, there was a dramatic increase in spiritual practices that emphasized detachment and transcendence. Your generation wants to understand the mystery of life and the depth of the unseen. These years also saw a dramatic increase in escapism through sex and drugs. You and your peers have a subtle but strong and mystical connection to the nonphysical realms of existence.
This aspect was in effect for decades in the 1900s, so the vast majority of people born during this period of time have this aspect in their charts. By itself, it probably doesn't mean much on an individual level, but it could be related to hidden ideals. You are participating in the spiritual rebirth that occurred during the 1900s. Your life will have significantly more meaning for you if you develop a powerful spiritual life. You have all the tools you need to do this; you must simply activate them and practice. This energy is far larger than one individual person and relates more to broad financial and political cycles than it does to the common people.
Pluto is the final generational planet. It spends so long in a sign that it affects everyone born within a sixteen-year period near the time of your birth. All by itself, it is not the most important feature of your chart, since such a huge number of people share this placement. However, it does describe some general conditions that were activated at that period, and to a certain extent, you and those of your generation carry that energy forward with you as you mature and develop. Pluto is all about power, and the Pluto sign of anyone in power shows how they will wield this important responsibility. The Pluto-in-Virgo generation was born between 1957 and 1972, a period of great change and upheaval, so they have revolution in their blood. This is the group that will firmly take the reins of improving the environment and that has the guts to make the sacrifices necessary to rescue the planet. They are very serious and hardworking and are sure to make a big difference for the world once they ascend to power.
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