The Romance and Passion Meters read your birth chart and reveal the levels of romance and passion you have been gifted with in this lifetime. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing or an uphill battle when it comes to matters of the heart.
Before you jump in, know that there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think it would be better to have a lot of sweet stuff with the Romance meter, but what you really want is balance.
Just imagine: with all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty boring (yawn). And too much passion can also ruin a relationship. Without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you just might tire your lover out, fast! A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then.
One more word of caution before you get started: Remember, no relationship or person is perfect. Even with what seems like the ideal balance of romance and passion, a romantic relationship could turn out to be a total flop. It really all boils down to our free will.
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
At best, you radiate leadership, passion and energy. At worst, you're self-absorbed, crass and abrupt. In reality, you're probably somewhere in between; the question is, toward which end of the continuum do you fall? No one can fault you for lack of courage. You fearlessly rush in where others tremble to go -- perhaps out of curiosity, but more likely out of a need to be first. Great at beginning things, you may not be so good at finishing them; and you probably have several (if not many!) unfinished projects tucked away in your closet or garage. With all that energy, exercise is really important for you; it keeps your body working efficiently as well as giving you an outlet for your impatience and possibly your anger. You do have a rather short temper, getting hot under the collar for little reason and occasionally bursting into tantrums. The good news is, like a thunderstorm, when your tantrums are over, they're over. Always in a hurry, you tend to speed along, inviting accidents, especially to the head. So wear a helmet to protect that vulnerable area of your body when you're riding a bike or a motorcycle! You're creative and inspiring, with a youthful verve that will keep you young beyond your years. You are refreshingly honest, and say just what you think. Not everyone finds this a pleasant trait, but you must be true to yourself.
Issues of power and control are central to your personal concerns. Once you make up your mind on something, it is very difficult to change it, as you are very resistant to change. You are persistent and dogmatic, which is sometimes beneficial -- you don't give up easily -- and sometimes less so -- you can get obsessive. Research and investigation are natural-born skills for you; with your tenacity and nose for identifying what's important and what isn't, you'll get to the truth faster than anyone else. You have a powerful need to know exactly what to expect, which, of course, is virtually impossible, but that doesn't stop you from trying. You worry a lot about the future and can become quite the pessimist, always expecting the worst. You tend to overanalyze every person, relationship and situation in your life, exploring every motivation and permutation of what did or could happen. This makes it very difficult to be in the present, if you're brooding about the past or fixated on the future. Breathe in deeply. Be here now.
Your mind is like a speeding bullet, hurtling along with deadly aim. Able to absorb information at a single leap, reading at the speed of light, jumping to some amazing conclusions on very little information -- this is how your brain operates. You have a very active mind, and perhaps there are times when you wish it were far less active! It may keep you awake at night, going around in circles, reviewing the same scenarios or faulty logic over and over again. There is a playful aspect to your mind and the way you communicate; you may be a poet, or enjoy the turn of a phrase. You'd be good at word games, especially ones that don't last too long, because you've got a rather short span of attention and can easily lose focus. You prefer direct communication, saying what you think and meaning what you say. You may be rather abrupt in the way you talk, or have a fast pace of speech, hurrying your words and clipping your consonants. You have a quick mind, able to calculate figures in your head, speedily connecting ideas. When you're on the phone, you may hang up suddenly, leaving the other person feeling cut off. Make sure to say goodbye before signing off.
You're quite the dreamer. You spend many of your waking hours lost in fantasy. This does not prevent you from doing your job well or from focusing on the matter at hand, but understand that your brain is wired to connect to the invisible creative and spiritual realms. You're hopelessly idealistic and functionally impractical, for although many of your ideas look good on paper they are improbable in reality. You're mesmerized by images and appreciate photography and cinema, industries where you could potentially find employment. You're intuitive and possibly psychic, perceptive of the unspoken currents in a situation. You have a natural sympathy for others, and can be quite moved through books, stories, and movies. You perceive the sublime nature of communication so you are naturally attuned to literature, art, and music. You're a good writer, given more to creative writing than technical manuals. Your mind is active but not well-directed; you are easily distracted and use the things you enjoy, such as music, to provide escape from the mundane world. Which is fine, in moderation. You're very good at free association and think in a web-like manner, weaving ideas together to create beautiful patterns.
Yours may not be the sharpest mind among your friends or colleagues, but the high quality of your mental output proves that your thorough study, serious consideration of the matter at hand, and ability to get the details right can beat the fastest thinker, hands down. You feel an inner need to be learned, educated, and informed. You respond best to structured, traditional learning methods, taking things one step at a time and mastering that step before moving on to the next one. A course of study that results in a diploma or certificate is more useful to you than self-study. You want to understand how things work, so you're a natural mechanic, engineer, mathematician, chemist, or architect. You can work with your hands, too, producing useful, solution-oriented improvements where you live and work. Your attention to detail, discernment, and dedication to good work make you a valued member of any team. Once you've set yourself up on a project, you determinedly keep at it until you are finished. You deliver on time and under budget, and no one ever has to worry about the excellence of your work.
You have an amazing capacity to zero right in on the crucial facts of any situation, not distracted by superfluous details, and the further capacity to articulate what you see in a way that makes it clear to others. Your penetrating insight and straightforward talk can frighten and alienate some people, who might agree with you simply to avoid your negative attention or ire. They fold under the force of your beliefs. Plus, they've seen what happens when anyone challenges you: a torrent of angry words if the circumstances permit, or simply a withering gaze. You must be extremely cautious not to become overzealous about matters that are important to you. Although it may not be easy to achieve, a balanced attitude is healthiest, and permits you to be open to new information and therefore avoid inflexibility and stubbornness. Also watch for obsessive or circular thinking. Yes, you can sit and brood for hours, but you've got the mental discipline to move beyond it. In partnership you must be very careful about communication. You may have motives that are hidden even to yourself, and you have the tendency to blame your partner for communication difficulties, when in fact the problems stem from you. Be honest and fair.
No one can say that you don't know a lot. You do. But maybe not quite as much as you think you do! Oh, yes, it's true, details are a bore. You can hardly be bothered with them. But as they say, the devil's in the details, and this is exactly where you can get derailed if you're not careful. Let's say you're in front of a group, spouting on about your latest discovery or opinion. Someone in the crowd may have a better grip on the evidence than you do, and won't hesitate to skewer you on the sharp thrust of their facts. That can be embarrassing, no? So kiss the overconfidence goodbye and learn to base your assertions on solid evidence. You can turn your problem into gold if you're smart enough to do it! You must also be careful about exaggeration. You tend to tell 'fish stories' (where the fish gets bigger with every telling!) in order to puff yourself up and impress people. It's very possible that you have a knack for learning different languages. There's no more wonderful way to connect with another person than in their native tongue. For best results, be humble, be teachable, and have fun!
You're extremely sociable and have a wide vArity of friends, and this is something that you should strive to maintain as you get older even if you settle down. Since you have a wide assortment of interests and things you enjoy doing, you may have 'friends in spots' whom you only see when you do certain activities. That's fine, of course. The important thing is to keep the connections alive and flourishing. You have a love of learning and are curious to find out about many different subjects; in fact, no one can keep you from learning about something that interests you! In romance, you are quite playful and flirtatious and you'd rather play the field than settle down right away. Dating several people at the same time is not unusual for you; nor is having friends cross over to lovers and vice versa. You must be extremely careful with your declarations of love, because although you may feel extremely 'in love' in the moment, you may not feel that way at all when you wake up tomorrow. You don't want to leave a trail of broken hearts in your wake! Before hitching up with anyone, make sure you stay in love for an extended period of time first.
You've got it all when it comes to charm, charisma and getting your way. When you walk by, heads turn. You may not even be aware how much sex appeal you exude, although you can hardly miss the effect you have on others. Your natural warmth and affectionate nature make you a most attractive date or partner, and in truth you prefer to be in a warm, loving relationship than to be alone, so you are rarely without a lover for very long. Your approach is straightforward and your manner uninhibited. As a child, you may have had to compete for love in your family, and thereby developed the charm and diplomacy that you have today in order to seek attention and love. In additional to your extreme desirability as a partner, you have a strong creative urge. Not satisfied with simply looking at or listening to beautiful things, you far prefer to actively play or do or create them, even going so far as developing your skills to the point of entering competitions in your craft. Unless other factors in your chart indicate stubbornness, you have a good sense of when it's better to concede than to fight, yet you do not permit yourself to be run over.
Why is it so difficult for you to have fun, to enjoy yourself, to open up to the love and joy that life has to offer? Even at parties, you make yourself useful instead of sitting back and taking it easy, or you fret about work situations and other problems that keep your mind tense with worry, rather than focusing on the fun at hand. Romance is a particularly heavy area for you. Whether it's from childhood conditioning or inner messages that you've repeated to yourself over time, you have a hard time believing that anyone will love you. The saddest part about this limiting belief is that it prevents you from recognizing love even when it's right in front of you. This is a very painful situation, and at times you may withdraw from the field of love altogether, nursing depression, staying isolated and avoiding social contact. Another possibility is to find yourself involved with a very strict person who attempts to control the relationship through restricting money or making demands on your time. When in a relationship, you're very committed, but you often worry that your partner may withdraw their love. You'll have to work hard to overcome this aspect's difficulties.
You have a playful, fun way about you that is uniquely attractive to others. You make friends easily because you are tolerant, interested in people of all ages and from all walks of life. Your range of acquaintances is broad and fascinating. Your friends are as important as -- and maybe more important than -- romance, and you have the distinct tendency to remain friendly with lovers even after you've both moved on to someone new. Your tastes are just as unusual when it comes to love as anything else for you; there's a fascination for what is new and different, for things you've never tried before. To be frank, you get bored rather quickly and do not like to be around slow or dimwitted types. You can detach quite easily from people and may have 'friends in spots,' or circles of friends who gather around a specific interest or hobby. Your creative streak is powerful and original and it's very healthy for you to give it full expression. Whatever your medium, you're very innovative and create new ways of expression that are often interesting and exotic, like nothing anyone has ever seen before. You're often far ahead of your time!
Are you consistently deceived by your partners? Surprised when they reveal flaws and imperfections that you'd never before noticed? Have you or any of your partners been involved in secret love affairs, Been taken advantage of, or lost money in a romance? These types of situations happen when you can't -- or won't -- look honestly at yourself, your partners and your relationships. As long as you're seeing only what you want to see and avoiding reality, you're bound to suffer disappointments and extreme disillusionment in romance. Although on the one hand you have a very romantic and idealistic nature, on the other hand you consistently try to evade commitment and true intimacy. You have an unspoken fear that someone better might come along. This uncertainty plus your yielding nature make it very easy for unscrupulous sorts to take advantage of you. Your inner voice will guide you correctly once you learn to move out of your dream world into your heart. You have true compassion and can easily be a channel for the most sublime love of all, that cosmic creative force that flows around you and through you as a healing touch for yourself and others.
Like a young colt, you're rather high-strung and have a lot of nervous energy. You may have real trouble sitting still for long periods of time, which could lead to problems in school because you seem restless and bored (and maybe you are!). A vArity of regular exercise is very important for you, as an outlet for all your physical energy. It also keeps your balance and coordination in top form. Sports that require some degree of dexterity are good. Mentally, you may have trouble maintaining focus on anything for very long. You may speak at a fast pace, or you could dominate the conversation, grabbing the microphone without letting someone else have a chance to talk. You're great at going out to get information, but not so good at processing it or making up your mind. You are quite flexible in many ways, and can easily adapt your plans to other people's agendas. You are sociable and enjoy developing friendships and going to places where you can meet a vArity of new people. Since you are very friendly, you can usually make connections without too much trouble at all. You're playful and naturally good at sports, so you're a popular choice to have around.
Yours is not an easy row to hoe. You set out time and time again to accomplish a task, to become more independent, to attain your goals, but circumstances and authority figures seem to conspire to keep you exactly where you are. The frustration and anger that result from this situation are enormous. Since childhood you may have felt stifled and inadequate. Your father may have acted like a drill sergeant, and if so, these days you find yourself behaving just like him sometimes -- and while this isn't necessarily what you want, it may be all you know. You're certainly all too familiar with the feeling of restriction, which has left you feeling very inhibited. You become your own worst enemy. You're so sure you won't succeed that you may not even try anymore. You may experience sexual repression or anger issues. It's going to take a change of consciousness to see your way through this difficulty, but if you can learn to cancel out the negative messages in your head, you can take advantage of the excellent potential of this planetary combination. You're a dedicated and tireless worker when you apply your energy purposefully and pointedly. If you pace yourself correctly, you can develop amazing strength and endurance. Practical action can be your forte. Strength of will and good timing are your gifts.
You're not exactly conventional, but you don't have too much difficulty playing by the rules. When you stretch boundaries and bring reform, you do so from the inside rather than from the outside, which increases your chances of success and seals your reputation as a trailblazer and innovator. You introduce improvements in such a way as to make them seem like the obvious solutions to interminable problems. In your private life, you need a great deal of freedom and the ability to move about at will. Your partners will need to match your independence, or at least not feel threatened by it. You believe that everyone should have the opportunity to be free and independent, and you're quite willing to act, and even fight, to ensure this freedom. You're at your best when you're working on the behalf of another. You are bold and can work tirelessly toward lofty goals. You feel alive and awake when engaged in these types of heroic activities, like a supercharged battery that keeps going and going. You're practically an alternative energy source!
Navigating through life is turning out to be more difficult than it first appeared. You've got a map but it's a very tricky one, because the lines keep changing and when you look up, all you can see is fog. How are you supposed to find any sense of direction in this mess? Yet this is precisely your life challenge: to find a focus and keep moving toward it. In this situation, it seems like any focus would do. But wait. You can't just concentrate on the first ideal that comes into your life; you have to research and investigate it and be sure this is really where you want to put your limited energy. Failure to take this important step can result in backing a meaningless ideal or a less-than-savory person. So the challenge is to find something worthy of your devotion and sacrifice. Blind faith, while a tempting trap, is something you should avoid. Without something to aim toward, you can be reduced to a quivering mass of self-doubt, unable to marshal your resources and falling victim to boredom. Aimlessness does not become you, so gather yourself together, find a worthy cause and invest your energy in improving conditions for those less fortunate than you.
You have big ideas about how the world ought to operate, but they are stifled by a restrictive and confined belief system. Your mind hungers for knowledge and you are willing to work hard to thoroughly learn the subjects you're interested in, and you want to put them to practical use. You'll feel best about yourself if you have an educational degree, which serves not only as a recognition of your academic achievement but also for the status and respect it brings. Your biggest challenge is to avoid being restricted by tradition. After you master the classics, you must step out of the box created by the 'it's always been done this way' mindset, difficult as that may be. In business, you tend to be optimistic, perhaps investing in ventures that don't live up to your high hopes. In response, you swing too far the other way and become too conservative. The key to mastering this placement is finding the balance between expansion and restriction, between growth and reduction, between excessive optimism and depressing pessimism. Walk the thin line of balance and you'll succeed.
Your need for personal freedom is so very strong that you may drive others away, becoming quite prickly and dismissive if you sense anyone intruding on your personal space. That isn't to say you're antisocial, because you aren't; but when you're around other people, you want them to be people of your choice, not chance. You may be quite rebellious and extreme in your beliefs or your thinking, and quite stubborn. You may pride yourself on being a nonconformist or a radical. Whether you are extreme right or extreme left almost doesn't matter, since at some point those extremes come together. There may be points in your life when you take actions that completely surprise everyone else in your life, like moving to a nudist commune in Tibet. Those close to you could perceive your actions as unilateral and selfish, and feel that you are unconcerned with the effects your decisions have on everyone else. Is it possible that they have a point? You might manifest your need for personal freedom through erratic behavior, being chronically late, for example, or otherwise undependable. A certain level of maturity will be achieved when you realize this only alienates others as it gives you the kind of personal freedom from relationship that you'd rather not have.
You don't ask for much; just a little respect for your maturity and a little acknowledgment of your knowledge. That's all. So you can't help but wonder where these simple things are in your life. Well, they're likely to come, all in good time. But not until you've paid your dues, completed your education and worked your way up the ladder. This is a process, and you can't skip steps. In the meantime, keep your goals clear and your outlook positive, rather than swinging back and forth between oppressive pessimism and wild optimism. You've got a natural business sense and administrative ability; you only need time to develop these gifts into skills. Don't underrate yourself; you're better than you know. And the best news is, you'll keep improving with age.
You take a serious approach to communicating and delivering information. You speak slowly and clearly, making sure that others understand your point. You may be shy about speaking in public, although with practice those butterflies in your stomach should decrease, because you are perfectly articulate, despite your fears to the contrary. You value education. Digging deep is more your style than surface learning; you want to know your subject in extreme detail. Subjects such as mathematics, science, or classical languages may appeal to you. You learn best in some type of organized, systematic structure, one that is goal-oriented and that gives you a diploma or certificate when you've successfully accomplished it. You have a lot of mental discipline and prefer work that is cerebral and detail-oriented. Your reasoning is methodical, thorough, and generally bulletproof. You would make a fine teacher, if a strict one.
You know early on in life what you want and you are willing to work hard and overcome many obstacles on your way to achieving it. You don't like to be told what to do, and you prefer to become your own authority, self-directed in every way. The concern for security and safety is the underlying motivation for many of your most important decisions; you do not want to depend on others to take care of you. This helps you take the long view when you're planning your life and mapping out your goals. You have both discipline and endurance, which will carry you far in this life. Although you have a natural distrust for people in authority and probably don't seek positions of leadership, you may be thrust into such roles as you mature, due to your self-discipline, dedication and serious nature. You will handle these types of responsibilities very well. You are committed to transforming and improving existing structures; by simply applying your effort and focus, the changes seem to occur quite naturally. Devoting yourself to a cause can do much to further it. You're in for the long haul.
Themes that will resound throughout your life are reality versus illusion, transcending boundaries and the dissolution of established structures. Not only did these themes pervade the news and culture when you were born, but they will also be apparent in your personal life as well. With this aspect in your chart, it is difficult to get a perspective on reality. Either your dreams pervade your waking life, or you feel worn down and hopeless that your hopes and ideals will ever be realized. There may be father issues in your family; perhaps your father was not able to fulfill his parental responsibilities due to absence or illness. At any rate, you long for an effective father figure as well as for some sort of sustainable and sensible rules and boundaries. You may be the melancholy sort, or even suffer from chronic or periodic depression. There may be some sort of sacrifice or renunciation on your part in order to achieve something that is important to you. Partnerships can be problematic with this aspect, because it's possible that any of the aforementioned qualities can be projected onto your partner. In this situation it is very difficult to get to the bottom of things with yourself and your partner, although that it what is required if you are to sort things out between you.
This is a generational influence that affects everyone born within a seven-year period near the time of your birth. All by itself, this is probably not the most important feature of your chart, but it describes some general conditions that were activated during that period, and to a certain extent, you and those of your generation carry that energy forward with you as you mature and develop. The Uranus-in-Libra generation is revolutionizing relationships as we know them. A proliferation of open marriages occurred at this time, as well as people living together without marriage. You and your peers require a great deal of freedom in your partnerships, and you don't particularly care for traditional relationships. As long as you both get the freedom you need, you're OK. However, you can detach quite easily if other factors in your chart support it.
Neptune is the second of the generational planets, spending fourteen years in each sign. Everyone born within that period will have Neptune in the same sign. By itself, this placement is not the most important factor in your chart; however, it symbolizes what was going on in the world at the time you were born, and this has left an imprint on you. You and members of your generation are each imbued with this particular energy, and in some ways it characterizes everyone born during this time. Each individual will express it in their own way, some more strongly than others. As a group, those born with Neptune in Sagittarius are very idealistic about religion, philosophy, education, and travel. Deception or false illusions regarding these areas is also in the mix; the ultimate purpose for you and your generation is to refine and purify spiritual practices and faith.
This aspect was in effect for decades in the 1900s, so the vast majority of people born during this period of time have this aspect in their charts. By itself, it probably doesn't mean much on an individual level, but it could be related to hidden ideals. You are participating in the spiritual rebirth that occurred during the 1900s. Your life will have significantly more meaning for you if you develop a powerful spiritual life. You have all the tools you need to do this; you must simply activate them and practice. This energy is far larger than one individual person and relates more to broad financial and political cycles than it does to the common people.
Pluto is the final generational planet. It spends so long in a sign that it affects everyone born within a sixteen-year period near the time of your birth. All by itself, it is not the most important feature of your chart, since such a huge number of people share this placement. However, it does describe some general conditions that were activated at that period, and to a certain extent, you and those of your generation carry that energy forward with you as you mature and develop. Pluto is all about power, and the Pluto sign of anyone in power shows how they will wield this important responsibility. The Pluto-in-Virgo generation was born between 1957 and 1972, a period of great change and upheaval, so they have revolution in their blood. This is the group that will firmly take the reins of improving the environment and that has the guts to make the sacrifices necessary to rescue the planet. They are very serious and hardworking and are sure to make a big difference for the world once they ascend to power.
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