Romantic Compatibility Guide

Venus trine Neptune

An overwhelming love

The emotional attraction between you two is so powerful! You both feel incredibly affectionate toward each other, even after all this time, as if you just can't get enough of being close -- of hugging, holding hands and stroking each other's hair back as you gaze into each other's eyes. But your physical closeness is just the outer expression of a very inner affinity. Needless to say, this aspect supports true love growing constantly stronger between you, especially if other aspects have helped bring you close. You two are swept along by the power of your love, and you find it easy to follow love's lead. Every idea you've ever had about true love has probably become real in this relationship; this could really be a dream come true, especially for your partner, who tends to get carried away by romance and affection. They go out of their way to make you feel great, even subverting their own needs and desires in order to meet and satisfy yours. You're very grateful for this luxurious, tender treatment, and you in turn go out of your way to return the favor. This romantic connection will only continue to get better with time.

Venus sextile Sun

Love and support

This relationship makes you both feel just wonderful, due to a very real and deep sense of love and understanding that has existed between you almost from the start. As soon as you started exchanging emails or phone calls, your lover, especially, recognizes that in you, they've found a real friend. You instinctively respond to them in a positive way, supporting and protecting them and quickly offering them the precious gift of devotion. They feel as if they're completely accepted and well-loved by you. This is because there is an open flow of communication that runs between you -- and it isn't necessarily always verbal. You simply get along well, and both enjoy your companionable silences as much as the stimulating conversations you share. You also encourage this person to be more social; as a couple, you surround yourselves with friends and loved ones, which increases the loving feelings that already exist between you. Essentially, you could be your lover's biggest fan -- you support their goals and causes in life, and cheer them on as they meet with success in their life. You also are able to support them through the rougher patches that inevitably crop up in life. At base, you're good friends, which is a wonderful foundation both for longer-term relationships and for shorter, sweeter affairs.

Sun sextile Mars

A dynamic duo

This isn't any ordinary, sweet, retiring connection! The relationship between you two is characterized by making plans and carrying them out as a team. There is lots of natural energy between you; in fact, together, you create an energy that doesn't exist for either of you alone. Your focus is on putting that energy to use. Instead of just a sweet, romantic couple, you are a powerhouse duo with big ideas for improving the world and your station in it! When you're together, you're truly able to shine as individuals. Your confidence and enthusiasm increases exponentially when you're in each other's company, because you give one another such a high level of support and encouragement. You might want to try to start some sort of business or other enterprise together, as well as being a romantic couple, because you're so creative and impassioned as a team. Alternatively, the enterprise between you could turn out to be, simply, a new life -- buying a house and renovating it together, perhaps, or starting a family. After all, the sexual charge between you is strong and hot! And being creative together can have more than one meaning. However you do it, this is a dynamic influence that enables both of you to accomplish most anything you put your minds to, as long as you work on it together, with clear communication and optimism.

Mercury sextile Mars

An enthusiastic exchange

The conversation began at your first introduction, and it hasn't stopped since! You talk about everything under the sun -- your lives, your pasts, your likes and dislikes... You leave no stone unturned when it comes to sitting down for a chat. Talking and trading ideas is such a big focus between you that there isn't a huge amount of quiet time in your relationship -- there's just be so much to talk about! You stimulate each other creatively to a high degree; you inspire new and unique ways of thinking, and you come up with ideas together that you'd never have thought of on your own, even if you're usually rather quiet or reserved. Your partner has a unique ability to draw you out to explore all the good feelings that you create together. Even your arguments aren't usually a big deal; you don't fight so much as debate and inspect issues together from all sides, and you come together to the best conclusion. This aspect promotes a foundation of interest and friendship between you that will continue to serve your relationship until the end. And, as you've likely noticed by now, your sexual connection is quite stimulated by this aspect, as well. After all, the largest sex organ is the brain!

Saturn trine Uranus

A creative approach

Two such opposite people shouldn't get along as well as you two do! But you do get along. In fact, each of you derives a lot of benefits from the other's way of doing things. If there's any tension generated by your differences, it's most likely a creative tension that actually furthers your purposes. Your partner brings their spontaneous, high-flying creativity to the table and you bring your sensible, levelheaded approach to any problem, and then you two blend your strengths into one. Your partner is actually a really good influence on you in this regard; you tend to get a little too worked up at times about security and making plans, but they're able to jostle you out of this rigidity with their spontaneity and enthusiasm for life. They show you that it's okay to take risks from time to time. In return, you ground their sometimes off-the-wall ideas. You help them to see what's a good, calculated risk and what's just way too risky.

Jupiter sextile Uranus

A lively exchange

With this aspect between you, you have a strong friendship that's based in intellectual freedom -- and that's a wonderful complement for a romantic relationship. You identify closely with your partner on an 'idea level.' You talk about everything under the sun, and they often spark you off -- they come up with something exciting and new and you both run with it. Whether you just have fun with this influence or actually use it in your work or your creative projects is up to you! Either way, it's a lot of fun, and creates a feeling of friendship and exciting openness between you. You two discuss your futures, create them, and then discuss new futures. And yet your paths are different enough to create both space and movement for both of you. You encourage each other to follow your dreams, you support each other with optimism and great ideas, but you don't get in each other's way because you're too busy following your own bliss! You probably get up to some pretty strange and interesting projects together. You can sometimes go too far under the influence of someone as radical as this, so make sure you always remember to stay within the bounds of reality. But since freedom and self-expression are the focus of this influence, you shouldn't try to rein yourself in too much; have fun with this aspect -- and your lover!

Mars conjunct Pluto

A powerful force

How this aspect affects your relationship is entirely up to the two of you, and depends on various factors -- how you each normally deal with strong emotions, since this aspect intensifies them; how you each handle power, because this aspect brings control issues to the surface; how well you're able to work together, because with this aspect you could accomplish a great deal; and so on. Basically, this influence is one very potent force! And how you use the power is up to you. For a lot of couples, this turns out to be a difficult aspect to deal with. It's likely led to battles of will, with your partner taking the authoritarian and power side, allowing themselves to be completely overtaken by all the unconscious and overwhelming feelings they experience within the relationship, and you relying on the strength of your own will to withstand the emotional storm visited upon you by your lover. This kind of pairing of irrationality and stubbornness is obviously not the best use of the power generated by this aspect, nor is it the most fun. Your sexual connection is charged up by this influence -- okay, getting more fun by the minute. But why not take it even a step further? You could work as a team, and divert all that intense energy into a project that you two work on together. After all, with this influence on your side, together you could move mountains! If you can focus on a big project or goal together, you'll achieve more than you could dream of on your own.

Sun conjunct Pluto

A chance to change

No matter how strong you each are as individuals, this relationship has proven very compelling, and it holds a powerful sway over both of you! The bond between the two of you runs deep and strong, and can be quite smooth at times; but at other times, you may feel as if you're struggling with feelings that are much bigger than you can handle. Even though you each have tried to maintain your independence, you might find that feelings such as jealousy, possessiveness and control crop up repeatedly. Emotional manipulation might play a role here, regardless of the positive intentions that you both bring to the relationship, and resentments only stack up. The problem lies in the fact that there is a deep and powerful conflict between your need to exist as an individual within the relationship and your lover's need to bond as a unit. Any emotional insecurity that they have is highlighted in this relationship, which helps them undergo an intense transformation and emerge stronger and more stable. But the road to that transformation is a difficult one. Separations are hard for them; they'll be jealous of other people you know, or imagine that you think the relationship is over just because you had a disagreement. The challenge you face as a couple is learning to stand on your own two feet while offering one another genuine, stable support.

Mercury conjunct Pluto

Illuminated depths

Your partner has a strong effect on you, mentally. When you're together, your thoughts, ideas and conversations take on a deep sort of intensity -- you might talk about life's larger complexities, such as sex and death, or the intensity could come out in the way they treat you. They might try to dominate the conversation, or even your way of thinking -- especially when things veer toward small talk. There are too many big, life-and-death issues to discuss to waste time chitchatting! But you're interested in these intense conversations as well. When your partner has an idea that's abstract or otherwise complicated, you're able to give it rational expression. Sound complicated? It is! Your effect on each other can be profound; you likely understand your partner better than they've ever been understood by a lover, and they move you on a deeper level than you've ever been moved. You both give access to the other's deepest, most complex thoughts. If you decide to work together on a business or creative project, this is a really advantageous connection, because it allows you to access the depths of your partner's ideas and bring them out to light. But even in your day-to-day interactions, you can feel the effects of this pull between you. You can broaden each other's horizons by introducing subjects the other might never have considered before. If your relationship has any issues to solve, this aspect could help with that, as it encourages you to talk things out in a serious and thorough way.

Saturn conjunct Sun

It's a commitment thing

Yours has a good chance to be a serious relationship from the very start. Somehow, when you met, you knew instinctively that this could easily be a long-term connection, and you might have set right out in making that commitment and settling down together -- which means, of course, that you may have bypassed the fun stages completely! Even if you're just dating, you have a sobering effect on your partner. If they're in a less stable position in life than you are -- younger, for example, or still in school or with a less than satisfactory income -- you aren't able to help but to offer them plenty of comments and suggestions about how to get on the right track. The problem is, this can come across as criticism, especially since you're already naturally the more authoritative partner. Each of us needs to find our own path in life, and if we're trying to do so while under the scrutiny of someone whose opinion really matters to us, it can make the process that much more difficult. Duty and responsibility weighs heavily in this relationship, which is sometimes difficult to bear. On the other hand, it might come as a great relief to your partner to bond with someone whom they know instinctively that they can trust. They can choose to be open to the advice you give them, and to offer their own valuable perspective in exchange. It all depends on how you to look at it.

Venus square Venus

A different language

You might take a long time to get to know each other, because in some way, you are not each other's usual types. This doesn't have as much to do with some physical type than with innate qualities that each of you share, which may be in direct conflict with each other. You find that you don't match up well. Your values are not in tandem, and you could even annoy each other with the things that each of you finds important. You might disagree on money, for example; one of you might love to go out on dates and don't mind spending the money for a nice meal, while the other is more frugal and is very uncomfortable with that kind of extravagance. This kind of difficult interaction leads to arguments that are hard to resolve, because you just don't know where the other is coming from. In some sense, you don't speak the same language of love. You have completely different ways of expressing love and affection, and the ways in which you do so could easily just fly over the other's head, not registering on their radar of love. You both might end up feeling unappreciated, unloved and generally neglected. In order to avoid this, you both have to talk openly about your own experiences with love -- translate your language for each other, so to speak. If you can cue each other in on how you're showing affection, your partner has a better chance of picking up on the signals.

Mars opposite Jupiter

High-flying expectations

The energy between you has to find a good outlet, because there is a lot of it! Though there's potential for this influence not to be entirely positive, you can count on it to be exciting -- and it could end up being good for both of you. Either way, you have a big effect on each other. Your partner might act as cheerleader to your life in a sort of exuberant way that could go overboard at times. They push you to say what you really mean, to focus your energies and efforts and get more done than you would have on your own, but at the same time, they might go too far -- they have big ideas and dreams that might be beyond the scope of what you can actually accomplish together. But on the more positive side, they challenge you on your beliefs, which helps you to better define them. If you work together as a team, you may find that the slightly challenging energy between you sparks creative action, even if you tend to go off on unrealistic tangents together. If you try, you'll be able to learn how to curb the recklessness you two seem to feel, and to focus your otherwise scattershot energies. Doing things jointly can help a lot in giving your energy a focus and an outlet. Being active together -- playing sports, going hiking, building something, even just taking a walk -- is good for you as individuals and as a team.

Mars square Sun

A turbulent connection

Any relationship between you might not last long. Instead, it might erupt in a blaze of passion -- and then die out along with the fires of your emotions. The problem between you is one of mismatched temperaments. You start out disagreeing on many subjects, and the better you get to know each other, the higher your irritation, especially, climbs. And instead of being calm and honest about the situation -- looking clearly at your lover and at yourself and admitting that this may not be the best relationship for you -- you just jump into the fray, and your partner follows suit. Arguments are frequent, and often are based on the fact that your lover doesn't feel seen or supported by you. Annoyance is almost unavoidable for you; you start to see this person as thoughtless or inconsiderate, and you store up resentment as a result. Okay, this is all sounding rather dire -- so remember that it doesn't have to be this way. If you can both access your most patient, forgiving selves when you're together, you'll be able to find a compromise for any problems that arise. But most people aren't that saintly! We're all driven to some extent by our egos, and our own needs are most important to us. Thus, it's difficult to set our egos aside when confronted with an aggressive energy such as the one that is created by this relationship. Much compromise is needed to make this last.

Jupiter opposite Sun

Opposite Directions

This relationship is intense, at least sometimes! Your bond might have been very strong from the start, which could give you a sense of fatedness -- as if you're somehow supposed to be in this relationship, as if it's larger than either of you as individuals could possibly be. That feeling arises not from any actual karmic destiny, however, but from some basic differences between you that create separation on a variety of levels. You are focused on your personal growth during the course of this relationship, and may pursue that growth to the detriment of your bond as a couple. Your partner may end up feeling ignored or overlooked as a result, as if their individuality isn't as important as your quest for soul-growth. The truth might be that in that moment, each partner's individual growth is more important than your bond as a couple. Though this doesn't have to be a negative thing, it is likely that your lover, especially, feels threatened by its influence; and you each respond in one of a few ways. You might try to assert your own vision of where the relationship should go, which results in ego clashes. Or you might identify this urge to grow in yourself and your partner, and end up having overly high expectations of one another. The best response, of course, is to try your hardest to support one another mutually in your personal growth arcs, and honor your relationship as well as your individuality.

Jupiter opposite Saturn

A struggle for dominance

You two take opposing sides on achieving any goal or moving forward into the future, and this creates tension, to say the least. You're the dreamer -- the carefree partner whose less-than-serious attitude makes your lover cringe. But their overly serious, even pessimistic outlook sometimes has a dampening effect on your creative spirits, like water dousing a candle. Part of the problem is that you represent to each other the things that each of you lacks: They lack your optimistic outlook and your ability to seize opportunities, and you lack their focus and dedication to hard work. If you could figure out how to blend your individual strengths, then you'd really get somewhere as a team -- but that means respecting each other's methods, which is nothing if not difficult. You're a lot more likely to get into power struggles where you're each fighting for dominance, trying to prove that your own way of doing things is the right one. But why not try to learn from each other? Instead of looking at your partner as being limited and overly focused on responsibility, you could look on those qualities as strengths -- focus and dedication are essential to meeting any goal, after all. And what looks to your lover like carelessness on your part is actually an unquenchable spirit, an optimistic streak a mile wide. Change the way you look at each other, and you two stand a greater chance of blending your strengths more fully.

Sun square Saturn

A heavy tension

This is a challenging relationship at best. Both of you have had plenty of moments where you've looked at each other -- or at yourselves in the mirror -- and wondered exactly why you got into this in the first place. Problems arise from the very serious differences that exist between you as individuals. There is a certain element of criticism and control between you, and you may always feel as if your individuality, who you are as a strong, vital human being, is being challenged by your lover -- or even diminished. This probably started in small ways -- perhaps early on, you had conversations in which your opposing viewpoints came up again and again, and you were probably even able to laugh over your differences. But as your relationship has turned into something more long-term, your sense of humor may have faded a bit under feelings of burden and limitation that have only grown with time. If you're not careful, you may not even be able to see one another as individuals; instead, all you'll see when you look at each other is a list of grievances, of expectations that were disappointed, of needs that were never met. You must both take care not to let this heavy, troubled energy overpower the other, lighter, more positive aspects of your relationship. Work hard to accept each other -- and don't allow excessive criticism obscure your sense of who you are.

Jupiter square Pluto

Weighing whether it's worth it

You want to cooperate with each other, but instead, somehow, you get into power struggles again and again. The intensity of this aspect can be mitigated by other, softer ones that promote harmony between you, but in general, this one is hard to deal with. Your partner tries, consciously or subconsciously, to force you to change, because your methods of processing the world and your place in it don't match up with theirs. You're much more intellectual about things than they are, and you probably push them to take a stand on their principles, or worse, to define their feelings in terms of logic. Logic, of course, doesn't apply to the emotional realm, as they're two completely different processes. And what happens when an emotional person is pushed relentlessly? That's right -- those emotions tend to explode! You both take your own side in a serious and dogmatic way, clinging to your own beliefs so fervently that you could forget there's any other way of experiencing the world. In some big ways, you just disagree -- on spirituality, sexuality, you name it. Instead of trying to listen to each other and respect your differences, you're tempted to put each other on the spot and try to force each other to defend your position. Challenges like this can be really hard to deal with, and could make you feel divided as a couple from time to time. On the other hand, this relationship has also pushed you to define yourself in ways that you've never thought of before.

Mercury square Saturn

Prejudiced ideas

Though you might have gotten along well at first, after a while you probably found it increasingly difficult to communicate with each other. Criticisms from your partner continue to stack up and create resentments, and could be depleting your self-esteem. As you've gotten to know each other better, you may have started to think that your partner is more prejudiced or conservative than you originally realized, and you want to challenge those limited ways of thinking. They're equally hard on your ideas, and as time's gone on, they've establish a pattern of challenging your intellect more and more. They could think within themselves that you're smart and knowledgeable, but they project the feeling that they don't think you're very smart at all, or capable of making good decisions in life. What a limiting influence this could end up being! But it doesn't have to be limiting. In fact, you could use it as a chance to become more thorough in your thinking, more dedicated to your own path in life and your own ideas. The kind of challenges your lover presents to you require you to state your case and defend it. While this is likely tiresome and even annoying, it could prove an important part of your personal mental development. If, through this experience, you end up being a more effective communicator, then you'll have gotten something useful out of the tension that exists between you.

Saturn square Jupiter

An inhibitive influence

Though individually you might focus on your dreams and ideals for the future, when you're together, you, especially, have a restrictive, inhibitive effect on your lover's ability to attain their ideals. Whenever they have a bright, creative, high-flying idea about a goal that they want to meet, you tend to bring it down with an overly sober interpretation of everything that might go wrong. Whenever you're trying to be serious about working hard toward one of your goals, your partner is off somewhere, refusing to focus or get serious with you. You probably take on the role of the overly serious nay-sayer more often, while your partner adopts the role of the careless, unfocused, freewheeling one. After a while, you both might realize that you haven't achieved anything of significance since you got together, and the whole time you've been burdened by a feeling of limitation and responsibility, or of fighting off the chaos that lurks only a step away! Neither of you deserves to have your sense of responsibility challenged or your joie de vivre stripped away. So your task in this relationship is to learn how to move forward and achieve your goals, even in the face of opposition. It might not be a fun process, but it could be a very important step in developing your own strength and determination.

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