Wondering how the two of you match up? Now you can find out, at a glance!
This two-way bar graph reveals the chemistry between you and your partner - how you affect them, and how they affect you. It will give you a quick overview of the strength of your connection in six very important categories that can make or break your relationship such as...
Ready to know if your relationship has what it takes for you to feel happy and fulfilled?
The Romantic Compatibility Guide will give you the answers!
But remember... even if you both rate high in all six categories, the relationship still might not work out. And even if you rate low, your bond can still grow to create a solid and satisfying relationship.
The most promising indicator is when a graph shows that two people are about equal in their attraction and connection to each other. That way, no one feels left out!
The bar graph only gives you a quick peek at the chemistry of your relationship - the rest is up to you. Look to your compatibility report for a more in-depth reading of the strengths and challenges of your relationship.
Your Soul Connection with another person is based on how your Sun connects with their personality, including their values, their outlook and what matters to them, and how their Sun connects with you. Just as the sun is the center of the orbit of all the planets in our solar system, it's also the center of you -- your inner fire, the vital energy that will run through you your whole life. It represents your basic, core personality, separate from all the other influences that... Read more
In this bar graph, your Communicative Bond is based on how your Mercury connects with your crush's world view, their attitude toward relationships and how they express themselves, and on how their Mercury connects with you. Often called the planet of communication, Mercury rules your thought processes, your sense of logic, your intellectual ideas and the way you get those ideas across to the world. If the lines of the graph -- your top line and your sweetie's... Read more
In this bar graph, your Love Link with that special someone is based on how Venus, your love planet, connects with them at a heart level, and on how their Venus connects with you. Venus -- the sweet, affectionate and romantic planet of love -- is all about pleasure, bringing people together and uniting them in harmony, so this planet rules not just love and dating but also friendships, partnerships and any social gathering. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top line... Read more
Your Passionate Attraction with your honey is based on how your Mars connects with their sense of who they are, what they go after and how they express themselves, and on how their Mars connects with you in the same way. Mars rules passion, so your sex drive, your propensity for irritation, your urge to compete and succeed -- all of these fall within this powerful planet's realm. Mars affects your attitude toward dating, and it also determines how you argue with... Read more
Your Long-Term Potential with that special someone is based on how your Saturn connects with their needs, their romantic nature and their sense of duty in life, and on how their Saturn connects with you in the same way. Saturn's influence in your chart is like that of your conscience. This planet keeps you in check, reminding you of your responsibilities -- including your commitment to your sweetie. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top line and theirs the bpttom one -- are very different in length, then one of you is going to get deeply involved fast, while the other just won't share that sense of commitment -- not right... Read more
The Harmony and Excitement Meters: love can be complex, but The Astrologer can break it down! The Harmony and Excitement Meters reads the compatibility chart between you and your sweetie, and reveals the levels of harmony and excitement in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between the two!
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you'd tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket. A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good... Read more
9-10: So easy its dull
7-8: sweet as candy
4-6: a real affinity
0-3: A nice rapport!
9-10: War Zone
7-8: Over the edge
This aspect helps you smooth over any rough patches that may occur in your relationship, because you instinctively know when to make a compromise in order to keep things harmonious. It's not that your lover is a pushover when it comes to you; they certainly stand up for their position when it's truly important. But harmony is a focus between you, an ideal that you work hard to attain together. You don't want to argue with each other much, and if you have other more aggressive aspects between you, this one greatly tones down that troublesome energy. You strive to be gentle with each other, and to show each other how much you care. And you do so in a variety of ways -- with a special glance or touch, or a letter or email that speaks of your love. You are both very creative in the expression of your feelings, and you work hard to keep the love alive. You're the couple that all your friends envy, and you have plenty of friends. You love cultivating an active social life, as it only feeds the exciting, romantic energy that runs like a current between you. Traveling together or working on a creative project goes well, because you always take special care to deal with one another kindly and gently. Just make sure that you don't become so comfortable together that you become complacent! Even the best of relationships needs nurturing.
Your bond is a passionate, positive and enthusiastic one for both of you! When you're together, you feel confident and excited, and you sense that your individual energies are heightened and focused by the relationship between you. You have had a strong physical bond from the start -- you're highly attracted, even hungry for each other -- but this high energy may not stay within the bonds of a traditional romantic connection. Big ideas abound between you, and together you have a highly increased level of problem-solving ability. Because your combined energies are so creative and directed, you actually make great partners in business as well as in love. You find that you're even better suited as business partners than as lovers, because you motivate and inspire one another to such new heights. Alternatively, you find projects to work on as a team within the romantic relationship -- like raising kids or pets, refinishing furniture for your house or planning out and planting a garden together. However the relationship turns out, you can both expect to be wowed by the projects you and your lover tackle together. Anything physical and active is the name of the game! Playing sports together or traveling -- especially active vacations, like hiking through the mountains or camping out -- are also great ways to focus the abundance of energy that exists between you. Just don't sell yourselves short -- your connection is meant for creative action. In a relationship together, you should find a project and begin it.
The emotional attraction between you two is so powerful! You both feel incredibly affectionate toward each other, even after all this time, as if you just can't get enough of being close -- of hugging, holding hands and stroking each other's hair back as you gaze into each other's eyes. But your physical closeness is just the outer expression of a very inner affinity. Needless to say, this aspect supports true love growing constantly stronger between you, especially if other aspects have helped bring you close. You two are swept along by the power of your love, and you find it easy to follow love's lead. Every idea you've ever had about true love has probably become real in this relationship; this could really be a dream come true, especially for your partner, who tends to get carried away by romance and affection. They go out of their way to make you feel great, even subverting their own needs and desires in order to meet and satisfy yours. You're very grateful for this luxurious, tender treatment, and you in turn go out of your way to return the favor. This romantic connection will only continue to get better with time.
You both have an instinctive idea of what's good for each of you and the relationship, from the very start! Even if there are other, more troublesome aspects between you, this one helps warm things up and stabilizes your bond. This relationship is characterized by growth and success. You both go through some changes as individuals that can only be brought about through your connection with each other. These changes could be internal -- perhaps your partner, for example, has been struggling with some aspect of their personality or their past for some time -- or they could exist outside the normal scope of your romantic connection. For example, during the course of the relationship, you might choose to go back to school to advance your education, or your partner might change jobs in order to move onto a career path that is more closely aligned with the type of person they really are. These kinds of major life changes are supported by this relationship, as you're each able to offer one another a type of unconditional support and encouragement that makes both of you feel optimistic, even lucky, as if you can't go wrong. You discuss all the changes you're undergoing with each other, and listen with an open heart and an avid ear. This aspect lends a foundation of friendship to your romantic relationship that could help you make it last long-term.
Inspiration and growth are a big focus between the two of you. Your lover knows how to dream big; they look at the future as an interesting puzzle, one they want to solve soon and with a lot of creativity. They have this effect on you, too, helping you to see things with their same sense of humor and hope. You two really are similar, when it comes down to your ideas and the ways your minds work. You've had a lot of life experience, and your lover is able to take all that you've learned through your experiences and put it toward some practical use. In fact, having successfully kept this relationship going this long, don't be surprised if you become more than lovers -- if you haven't already. You could end up starting a business together or writing a book -- something creative that involves your intellect and your partner's creativity, your problem-solving skills and their street smarts. Whatever it is, it'll definitely be a success, because how could it not? As long as you two stay focused on your optimistic sense of possibility and opportunity, you should be able to accomplish just about anything you put your minds to.
Your partner dominates your dreams, your sexual energy, your waking life and your imagination. They have a strangely magnetic hold over you, and as long as you're both open and honest about your own position in the relationship -- what role you each play in the other's life, for example -- this influence should make for a positive, even transformative experience for both of you. Be aware, though, that this relationship has probably taken on an all-or-nothing quality. If you're not both on board regarding your level of commitment to each other, things can get pretty complicated. Any lack of devotion on your part, especially, can lead to your partner getting possessive, jealous and generally hard to deal with. So if you have any moments of weakness with regards to this relationship, you should be upfront about that fact and let you partner know exactly how you're feeling and what's going on. And, on the flip side, you may also need to remind your partner, from time to time, that it takes two for any relationship to keep going. Realize that for you both to continue to exist within this relationship, you each have to make some adjustments within yourselves. As long as you treat each other with the honesty and respect that you both deserve, you can continue to develop this overpowering love that is a great source of sustenance for you both.
In this relationship, you two can focus on being yourselves, fully and completely. What a refreshing change from so many of the other, more repressive relationships in your life! This partnership really encourages you to be who you are -- to be your own person and realize yourself as a dynamic, independent human being. This relationship is highly creative for you and a lot of fun; there is a sense of discovery and excitement that drives you to reach further into your own consciousness than ever before. You can talk about all your cutting edge ideas and your lover gives form to your ways of thinking. Individuality is highlighted here, in the best way. You're certainly able to form a close and intimate bond, if you want to; but neither of you would ever do it at the expense of the other. You both have plenty in common, but you also recognize and -- most importantly -- appreciate the differences between you. Your life is creatively enhanced in some way by this relationship, whether on a personal or a professional level. It may be through networking -- you two are probably be quite social together, going out to see and be seen -- or it could simply be through bringing your ideas to your partner and allowing them to help you brainstorm, to make them even better and more unique. Either way, expect to be enlightened.
Your partner encourages you to be the person you want to be -- to pursue your goals, achieve your ambitions and become the success that you have the potential for within you! This encouraging energy is an active part of your day-to-day interactions, but it also comes through as a sort of effortless good-luck vibe. The support and enthusiasm your partner offers you actually creates a very positive energy that pushes you to dream big and act fearlessly. And sexually, you two are very much in tune! Your passions are aroused whenever you're around this person; they excite you, and your physical intimacy also furthers the good feelings and sense of fortune that characterizes your relationship. You encourage bravery in your lover and they inspire you to take good risks, so even if either of you is ordinarily more held back, this interaction pushes you out into the world, to act with fearlessness and courage. Basically, there is a lot of energy between you, and you love being active together. Playing sports together, going hiking, building or renovating houses or furniture -- whatever projects you undertake as a team are a success because you know that you can rely on each other as teammates. Your partner has a positive, optimistic effect on you, and you can help each other meet life head-on, with both eyes open.
There is a lot of energy between you, and you love being active together. Whether this takes the form of playing sports together, going hiking, building or renovating something or any other enterprise is up to you -- but you stay active, and whatever projects you undertake are a success! If one of you is normally a more reticent type, this relationship helps to draw you out of your shell and bring out the courageous, even competitive side of your nature. You work together as a team, and you know that you can rely on each other as teammates -- and that frees you up to take on almost any challenge that could arise! You have a positive, optimistic effect on each other. You help each other meet life head-on, with both eyes open. It could be that you get more accomplished through the course of this relationship than you would have on your own, because of the teamwork effect of your bond. Sexually, you have a very arousing effect on each other. Your intimate connection is passionate indeed, and you learn a lot through being physical together. In fact, learning is a focus due to this aspect. Encouraging each other to take on any activity that involves education is great for both of you. Taking a class together or teaching one is a wonderful use of this energy, which could become excessive if you don't find a proper outlet for it.
The two of you together are like a pendulum -- always swinging back and forth from one extreme to the other, never finding that happy medium. In the beginning, it was a true case of opposites attract: You instinctively recognized that here was a person who's your exact opposite when it comes to love and romance. You find that you express love and affection in completely opposite ways, and your ideas of a romantic date couldn't be further apart! For a while, this could be stimulating -- it's exciting to be with someone so different from yourself, after all -- but the differences could start to wear on both of you. The fact that you express your love in such different ways could mean that you just don't recognize the signs even when you are being loved, and you end up feeling as if your needs aren't being met. You might also project your needs onto each other in such a big way that you forget to pay attention to each other's needs, because you're so engrossed in the importance of your own. You might even start focusing on trying to change each other, trying to remold each other into the type of lover that you wish you could be with. A big, big love is possible between you, but you have to cut through your projections and learn to give love to your partner, rather than demanding it for yourself.
You are both looking for the ultimate romance -- and you've thought from the beginning that you've found it in your partner. But what looks like the perfect love, the most generous and romantic bond, could actually be excessive and beyond the truth. Don't misunderstand: you're very attracted to them, and you both thrive on the love you experience together. But those swelling, overwhelming feelings could actually obscure the differences between you -- the parts of you that make you who you are, which, when opposed, are the issues that you have as a couple, ones that need to be brought out into the open and resolved. In particular, you don't always see eye to eye on some of the more fundamental subjects -- your values and beliefs regarding money, for example, or spirituality, or your personal philosophies of life. If you're constantly looking at your partner through rose-colored glasses, you might just wake up one day and realize -- Wait a minute, we have nothing in common! Why not avoid that unpleasant wake-up call? This aspect encourages you to sugarcoat the problem areas of your relationship and to just have an eye for the good stuff, which can be a very comfortable situation. But you can and should force yourself to be honest, with yourself and your partner, about the areas where you don't get along that well. That's the only way that you can grow as a couple or as individuals while in this relationship.
The two of you fell hard and fast! You were both infatuated with the other from the start, and those feelings have done nothing but grow. You always just seem so new to each other -- so different -- and you both bring unique perspectives, ideas and experiences to the relationship. This feeling of newness is one that could just keep going and going and going. Heightening the excitement and tension will be the fact that neither of you ever seems completely committed or fully involved in the relationship. Periods of intense togetherness and awe-inspiring intimacy are followed by periods of detachment, during which you might even feel so separate from each other that you feel like strangers. Despite these fluctuations you want to hang onto this relationship, though, because it just gives you both such a rush! How could these powerful feelings not be leading toward something amazing, something enlightening, something that will expand your consciousness in a way you never dreamed of? Well, it won't necessarily do that; it could be that your relationship will simply always be unstable. But the likelihood is high that you can each introduce the other to many new ideas about yourselves and the world around you. You're very social together, and your lover will introduce you to people you might otherwise never have met. You can be sure that these feelings of excitement will continue to carry you through the downtimes.
This aspect is a difficult one to handle, as it tends to bring up a lot of anger, resistance, rebellion and aggression between you. Even if you're usually very even-tempered, you will be provoked constantly by your partner. You just aren't able to stay calm around them, and at times you get the feeling that they're actually provoking you on purpose -- which could be correct. The ways that you express your anger at them tends to be overly extreme, because they really push your buttons and bring up deep feelings of anger and resentment. There is a feeling that your partner is trying to challenge you -- and even when that's not happening, you respond as if it is, and that just start the train rolling again. Basically, with this aspect influencing your relationship, power struggles are almost impossible to avoid. So how do you deal with it? The best way to do so would be to stop struggling -- to realize that you have no power over each other, not really, and nor should you. Of course, that would try the patience of a saint! There are lessons to be learned here -- about not allowing your buttons to be pushed; about finding out where all that deep-rooted anger is really coming from -- but they're difficult lessons, and the positive effects are hard-won.
You have very different ways of thinking, which could lead to some basic misunderstandings of who you both truly are. Although you each enter the relationship with the best of intentions and expectations, you find that your ideas about life in general -- what's interesting, what's important -- are pretty different. This could lead to misinterpreting one another's basic natures, as it's easier to project your own ideas onto the other person than it is to step outside your own point of view to try to see things from their unique perspective. You don't necessarily argue over your opposing viewpoints; it's more likely that you just overlook the other's true feelings or opinions, because your own are so different that you simply don't have a frame of reference to appreciate the other's point of view. You two also find that you communicate very differently; you may be much more talkative while your lover is more introverted, for example. These differences could become a major problem between you, but it doesn't have to be that way. If you both make a conscious effort to be positive, accepting and encouraging of one another's individuality, rather than rejecting the differences between you, you'll both feel much more willing and able to express yourselves in the way that is most natural to you. Acceptance is key here, in order to make this relationship work.
You've got some strongly defined ideals when it comes to how this relationship should work, but you've probably come up against some opposition with your partner. All those good, well-founded ideas of yours just don't match up with their spontaneous approach to love. They really shake things up for you, on an intellectual level! This interaction encourages you to be highly progressive in your thinking -- except that when you started to realize that your partner, especially, prizes independence and freedom within a relationship, you found that your divergent ideas actually began leading you away from each other. This felt threatening -- and might still -- if you haven't been able to give your partner plenty of space to be themselves. Translation? Don't be possessive of your lover! This relationship requires lots of room to think, experience and grow on your own as well as within the boundaries of the relationship itself. They push you to newer heights of unusual thinking, and you might not realize when your ideas are just too high-flying and unrealistic. In order to grow, as a couple or as individuals, you have to find some common ground to build on. And that common ground might not be even close to what you expected. So be open to new ideas and trying out new methods of being together; you might surprise yourselves.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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You can choose from several different types to find the report that's right for you and your needs. Your natal report is all about you -- your unique characteristics, strengths, weaknesses, potential and so on. Compatibility reports analyze the connections between two different people, to see how well and in what ways they get along. And a forecast is based on where the planets are today and how they're affecting you, uniquely. Be sure to try a free sample of another report to find out more about you!
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