The Romance and Passion Meters read the placement of planets on the day of your birth and reveal the levels of romance and passion you have been gifted with in this lifetime. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing or an uphill battle when it comes to matters of the heart.
Before you jump in... there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff with the Romance meter, but what you really want is balance.
Just imagine... with ONLY good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And TOO much passion can also ruin a relationship.
Without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you'd tire your lover out fast! A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then.
One more word of caution before you get started…
Remember, no relationship or person is perfect. Even with what seems like the ideal balance of romance and passion, an affair could turn out to be a total flop. It all truly boils down to our free will.
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
You're something of a homebody. Whether that means your physical home or your emotional one is up to you, because for you, home is really where the heart is -- which can make it difficult sometimes to meet new people, if you're always hanging out on your couch or with your same set of tried-and-true close friends! Your best venues for meeting a potential date are dinner parties, which combine the benefits of good food and time to talk; or through friends, so that your potential sweetie comes complete with good recommendations from people you trust. You're definitely on the emotionally sensitive side, so you can get hurt easily in relationships -- even more than you might like to admit. When your feelings are hurt, you often pull into your shell rather than trying to talk things out, at least at first. You need a lover who understands you at a deep level, someone who draws you out of your shell in a tender and gentle way. Needless to say, this kind of precludes short-term, casual affairs! But once you find someone to love, you're an incredibly nurturing lover. You tend to their physical and emotional needs as best you know how, and give them your true devotion.
You're really enthusiastic about everything you do, including dating. This can be a great quality when it comes to your love life, because romantic disappointments don't tend to get you down; after a breakup, you're uniquely able to pick yourself right back up again, dust yourself off and get back into the saddle of love. But on the other hand, you're so enthusiastic, optimistic and excessive in your energies that you can take things too far. You might go out with someone you've never even met before, and end up staying out all night -- and at the end of your epic date, you'll declare yourself head over heels in love, even though in reality, you don't actually know them much better than you did when the night began. Your generosity also might push you to spend way too much just to make your date happy. This irrepressible energy of yours probably gets you into as many scrapes as it helps you out of, and balance is definitely needed. Of course, these qualities make you a really fun date! You want to gobble up life, to experience everything as fully and thoroughly as possible; and if you have a fun, cute companion along for the wild ride, so much the better.
You're probably not a big believer in the expression, 'All's fair in love and war.' While you do have a natural competitive streak, you're not willing to break the rules, in romance or anything else, without good reason. When you're going out with someone new, it's important to you that they be as aboveboard in their intentions as you are. When you see someone attractive, you'll go after them with your own brand of intensity, but you'll also back off if they make it clear that they're not interested. Plenty of times, though, they will be. You possess a natural vitality that's compelling to everyone around you, and your sense of adventure, of zest for life, makes you a great date! You're up for just about anything, at least once. You've got your own ideas about fun things to do with someone new and special, and you're open to theirs as well. And while you love to push the boundaries -- of love, of adventure, of what's possible in a romantic or sexual relationship -- you won't do it to extremes. You're not self-destructive, after all; just naturally energetic and driven. When you make a love connection with someone special, it will be based in part on your innate energy and strength.
You probably don't have a 'type' in love; your lovers and crushes over the years have been all different types, from all walks of life, and you got something different out of each different relationship. You're attracted to uniqueness, and you're definitely not into repeating your experiences. You attract admirers with your originality, your exciting radical streak that's just under the surface, and your general air of acceptance. With you, they know they can get a little weird and wild, and you won't be turned off. They can be themselves, and you'll want to know more. That's a very attractive quality in a lover, one that makes people really want to be around you! You have strong perceptions about life and human nature, and you work well with lovers who appreciate that about you and who can join in the interesting conversation. You also don't like it when things settle into too much of a routine. You're not a daredevil, exactly; you don't crave excitement for its own sake. But you see no reason for a relationship to fall into an easy pattern that's numbing for both people involved. Why not keep things fresh and new? You know how to do just that.
You often find it hard to be objective, because your thoughts and ideas are so closely linked to your emotions. You have a difficult time separating logic from emotion, and that can make things especially hard when objectivity is key, such as in an argument with your sweetie. You might lose all perspective in those moments as you get swamped in a tide of your own feeling -- and this tendency within you could earn you the reputation of being rather moody, sensitive or overly emotional. But it's just that you feel things so deeply -- and this is one of your strengths, as much as it can cloud communication with your honey. For one thing, you're able to tune in psychically to your sweetie, and intuit their needs without their having to put them into words. In fact, you often have a much clearer perspective on the moods and desires of your lover than you have on your own, because you just tap so readily into that emotional vein. This makes you quite a sensitive lover -- and this time, sensitive in the best way! You're able to nurture and soothe your sweetie at a deep level, with true emotional intimacy.
You are a dreamer and a teacher; a learner and an enthusiastic participant in the game of life. Your admirers are drawn to your openness, to the way that you talk big and think even bigger. Of course, this can also be something of a turnoff to some; you may go out on a date with someone new and catch them covertly rolling their eyes at you as you rhapsodize about something new in your life that you're excited about -- some big theory you've recently come up with, or something you're just beginning to learn about. And it's true: You do have a tendency to overstate things, to exaggerate and to speak with a certain level of bravado about your own brilliant ideas. But the world is such an interesting, multifaceted place! There are so many ideas to be explored and discussed, and if you can do so with someone special and attractive, then so much the better. Just make sure that you're not talking purely to impress your date, or yourself. A conversation is so much more satisfying and interesting, after all, if it can go two ways instead of just one. If you're talking just to hear your own voice and to put your great ideas out into the world, why bother?
The way your mind works can sometimes be a bit much for other people to handle, especially for people who don't know you well. You have a way of probing into others' feelings and motivations, deeply and relentlessly, that can make them very uncomfortable. And when you're doing this to someone you don't know well -- such as on the first date with someone new and special -- it can come across as overwhelming, or even inappropriate. Sometimes people want to hold their cards close to their chest; they have their own, valid reasons for keeping some things private, and it's not always the best idea to push and push at them until they open up, especially if you're not willing to reveal your own. Though you want to know what makes other people tick, you're rarely willing to reveal your own motivations; you want to maintain an air of mystery while exposing others' mysteries to the light. In a romantic relationship, your urge to get to the bottom of things can sometimes verge into the territory of outright and often unfounded suspicion. Sometimes, it really is best to take things at face value, such as your lover's word.
For you, love and romance are a big, dramatic show, complete with all the trappings of any great production -- setting (think flowers and soft music...), lights (candles all the way!), costumes (anything silky or soft and definitely in fashion will do)... You love to set the scene for love, and you'll go to great lengths to make sure that you'll make the perfect impression on your sweetie. You're into sweeping your honey off their feet, and you're not above being swept off your own, either. And the thing about you is, all that drama is real: You really feel your passions that deeply, and you truly want love to change your world. You put your whole heart and soul into it when you're in a relationship, and you feel things at a deep and intense level -- and that goes for the bad stuff, as well as the sweet stuff. When you get your feelings hurt by someone you love, the hurt is intense, and it can take a lot of soothing and stroking to make things right again. You should seek out a lover who is as passionate and demonstrative as you are. With a cold, aloof lover, you would slowly starve for attention and affection, and you deserve as good as you give out.
In romance, you lead with your heart. That may seem obvious, but not everyone experiences love the way you do -- with such openness and sensitivity, such joy and compassion, or such vulnerability. While other people try to build up walls around their hearts, you're trying to open yours, to experience things even more fully and sweetly. You may believe in destiny, in true love, in fate bringing you together with your sweetie. For that reason, you also lead with your gut; you believe that you'll know it, the moment that you meet the person you're destined to love for the rest of your life. And that may be true. At any rate, such romanticism heightens the sweetness of your love affairs! Just make sure that you don't naively buy into someone's line that's less than heartfelt. As loving and compassionate as you are, you have to make sure that you surround yourself only with people who deserve such tender goodwill -- in short, people who are as spiritually attuned, as loving and generous as you are. Sometimes you can be a little too tolerant of mistreatment, in the name of being sweet and letting your sweetie off the hook.
You have a hard time making love last, even though you want it to -- you even yearn for it. But every time you get into a relationship that even nears commitment, either you or they misbehave, and suddenly, it doesn't seem worth the trouble anymore. Why is it that you can't seem to make it happen? Something in the way you treat your lovers makes commitment impossible, even though you certainly don't mean it to be that way. You just want to give and receive affection and kindness, but it never seems to stay that simple. Part of the problem is that, without realizing it, you tend to be selfish in your love affairs. You have so many needs and desires waiting to be filled that you get pretty insistent about them, and you might completely ignore your sweetie in your drive to have your own needs met. Another of your misbehaviors that tends to preclude a lasting commitment is possessiveness; you may cling to your lover too tightly, trying to control their every move -- and making them just want to get away. You'll have to bring your actions more closely in line with your desire for love if you want to make it last long-term.
You may have noticed that, through the course of your love life, you have seemed either to be utterly compelling to your admirers, or to simultaneously attract them and turn them off in an odd way. The latter is probably due to the fact that your intensity actually frightens some people, because you can come on very strong when it comes to sex, attraction and love. When you're in love, you throw your whole self into the experience, and you give of yourself completely. For you, love is a total-body experience of passion, surrender and power all at once. You expect the same from your lover, and if they're not willing to give of themselves as completely as you do, well, you have other ways of drawing them out of their shell! You have a strong sense of human nature, the inner workings that make people tick. For this reason, you're particularly adept at reading your sweetie. You can tell what their inner motivations are, and how they're feeling, even if they're trying to keep their true emotions from you. Just make sure that you let them explain themselves to you in their own time, instead of pushing them to open up. Some people respond better to patience than to coercion.
Even if you aren't promiscuous in real life, you often are in your mind: You're constantly looking around at all the hot and intriguing people around you, and wondering whether they're better than the one you're with. And you suspect that they are; you've got a real grass-is-greener perspective when it comes to romance. You tend to get bored easily in relationships, and anytime things start approaching anything close to routine or predictable, you bail. You just feel restless and itchy, and you have a little worry at the back of your mind that grows bigger when things start to feel too stable -- Is this all there is? Am I stuck with this one person, for the rest of my life? You might think that a relationship lasting into the foreseeable future would drive you crazy, and maybe it would; you certainly seem to have developed an allergy to stability in love. But if you want true intimacy in your life, you're going to have to figure out a way to make the long term work for you. You may tend to fall for aloof, unstable types, because at least they keep you guessing; try for someone more stable, but who is unique and independent, and can give you plenty of space.
Anyone who tries to woo you should know that it's going to take some time. You like to make up your mind about someone slowly, rather than just jumping headfirst into things. It's certainly not that you're prudish, just that you're...discriminating. But once you do let your hair down with someone, you'll show them a very skillful and refined lover. That attention to detail of yours? That's right, it comes out in the bedroom, to your lover's great pleasure! You love to serve, and will happily spend a long time caressing their back or their feet, stoking those fires slowly in order to build things up to a truly satisfying blaze. Now, setting is important to you; you can't stand unclean bodies or sheets or other forms of slothfulness. If your sweetie starts tossing their dirty clothes on the floor and crashing out on the couch with a bag of chips and the TV remote, that can kill your sex drive about as fast as water douses flame. You're attracted to gentility, tenderness, sincerity and cleanliness. Your lover must understand that about you and help you set the scene if they want to hang on to you for long -- or even get that far with you in the first place.
You're fast on your feet, impulsive and generally exciting to be around. Your looks and the way that you carry yourself make a real impression on other people, because you've got a certain energy that's magnetic. Physically, you're strong and graceful; these qualities might make you a good dancer or athlete, or good at something else that works up a sweat as you execute all your best moves (hint, hint)! You're definitely an exciting contender in the game of love. Your passions run strong and you're a true original in all your tastes and desires. In love, you keep your honey on their toes with all your new and different ideas for dates, lovemaking and more. You're open to their ideas and urges, too; you've got a definite taste for adventure, and you're not one to back down from a dare. That makes you a fun, spontaneous lover, but also somewhat restless. When things become stale in your love life, you know how to spice it up -- or how to call things off. You're great at handling anything that comes up except boredom; if a relationship is restrictive or passionless for too long, you're not one to stick around, twiddling your thumbs while you wait for things to change.
Whether overtly or subtly, you're pushing toward a long-term, committed relationship -- because you recognize that that's the forum in which you'll do your greatest work. In this case, 'work' means reaching out to other people, nurturing and protecting them. Those are your strengths, and they're perfectly expressed at home, in a family environment. Until you start a family of your own, you'll express this part of yourself through your closest friends or the family you were born to. Once you fall in love with someone and make a commitment, you'll shift this over to your new family, and you'll do just about anything to protect them. You tend to believe deeply in the things you learned from your parents, growing up, and passing on these philosophies to your own children is important to you. For this reason, it's important that you find a lover who shares at least similar life philosophies to yours. How terrible it would be to fall for someone who had vastly different ideas about child rearing or how to create a comfortable home! The relationship probably wouldn't last. One forged with someone who has values similar to yours stands a much greater chance of lasting long-term.
Following the pattern of a traditional relationship -- chatting on the phone or via emails and IMs, going on a few dates, then a few more, getting serious, getting intimate, moving toward a commitment, marriage, buying a house together, yada yada yada -- isn't for you. If you do take those steps that have been taken by countless people before you, you'll do it on your own terms, and in your own time. You're an original, in love as well as in life, and you see no reason to stick to a formula that you didn't make up. You like to find your own path through the maze of a relationship, and the great news is, you're good at it. You've got both practicality and idealism on your side. You don't like to be tied down, by a person, a commitment or an idea; but you're not just willfully restless or rebellious, either. You like to choose your commitments carefully. Once you make one, you're in it for the long haul. You're not likely to commit yourself to a relationship that limits you in any way; you want to be free to pursue your lifelong process of learning. In short, life and love are both growth processes for you, and your best partner will be one who can grow and learn alongside you.
The people closest to you -- your friends and loved ones -- know that you can be a little hard to deal with at times. You're intelligent in the extreme, but you can take it way too far, becoming dogmatic about your beliefs and forgetting that they're just beliefs and not fact. You certainly are ambitious, and self-confident -- and when you're not feeling confident, you fake it. That's a hard shell to crack for anyone who wants to get close to you, like a lover. When your honey disagrees with you, or plays devil's advocate just to present a challenge to your hardcore beliefs, you can get antagonistic fast, especially if other aspects in your birth chart support an argumentative or stubborn nature. It's not all hot air, either; that's actually part of what can make you so hard to deal with! You've got good ideas, and that sharp intelligence. You can see what's wrong with the world around you -- in your relationship, for example -- and you've got original ideas for how to fix things. But instead of trying to communicate and cooperate with your sweetie, and solve your issues together, you take a loner stance. This can make your honey feel left out in the cold.
When you're involved in a long-term, romantic affair, you take your duties seriously. You offer your lover loyalty, respect and a healthy dose of romance, and you demand the same in return. You're very happy in a committed love affair as long as you're getting the admiration and appreciation that you want -- but when your lover isn't forthcoming with plenty of props and affection, you can grow quite grumpy. Don't they know what you're putting into the relationship? Don't they realize the lengths that you go to in order to honor your relationship and put it up on a pedestal? They may know, and they may not -- but it also may be true that you're setting a bit too high of a standard. Not everyone has the energy that you do when it comes to romance. Not everyone needs the same reassurances that you do, either, so it's possible that you're putting everything into a relationship when really, that much effort is unnecessary. Seek a lover who understands you, who can read your signals and respond when you're starting to feel underappreciated. A lover who indulges you in this way will help to maintain the balance of your warm and vital bond.
As odd or counterintuitive as it may sound, your intense sexuality could be the undoing of your relationship. But you have deep, strong desires, and you're not one to repress them. When they take hold of you, you want to act on them -- even if you have to do so in a secretive way. And sometimes, acting on your desires, especially secretively, may not be in the best interest of your blossoming or committed love affair. On the other hand, you're very sexually compelling to your lover. You have an innovative mind about new positions to try and new feelings to explore; you like nothing more than to get down and dirty with another person, and find out what it truly is to be human! But this urge to explore 'the dark side' and plumb the depths of your psyche via sexual encounters that lay your soul bare...well, it can get a little too intense at times, for your sweetheart and even for you. On the other hand, intensity, even the disturbing kind, is what you live for, and your strong will can get you through even the darkest moments. And you'll almost certainly come out on the other side with greater self-knowledge of your own truth.
Freedom or intimacy? A traditional relationship -- the marriage, the house, the kids -- or a unique bond that flies in the face of convention? These are the kinds of questions that plague you whether you're in love or single. You have a hard time choosing one path or the other, because they both hold appeal -- and at the same time, they both scare you. So, you end up stuck somewhere in the middle, either single and wishing you had love in your life or in a relationship but never completely comfortable with your commitment. You might get into struggles with your lover over how close your relationship should be; you also might hold yourself aloof while they try to get close, or even leave the relationship as soon as things start looking like they're moving toward commitment and the long term. But once you're alone again, you might regret your hasty decision to leave...and so the cycle begins again. Or not! Instead of resisting commitment, you can face the fact that you're afraid of it and start doing the difficult work of figuring out why, and how you can balance love, independence and stability in your life all at once, and on a long-term basis.
You have a strongly intuitive side, but you often misread your inner compass, and if you act according to your instincts, you might find yourself moving in the entirely wrong direction. When it comes to your instincts, you tend to miss the trees in favor of the forest. That means your 'inner eye' isn't attuned to the important little details, or the subtle variations of whatever feeling you're getting. In a romance, for example, you could get a strong sense that things are off with your partner -- but you'll ignore the specifics about your feeling and end up drawing the totally wrong conclusion about what's going on with your sweetie and why. You're seeking the truth, though, and that's the very reason why you so often misread your own signals -- because the truth is such a broadly varied and changeable concept. And it's wonderful that you shoot for the stars in your quest for the truth. But you should always incorporate all your senses, not just your sixth one. Rely on the combination of your inner feelings plus the facts as you can see and understand them, and you'll steer yourself along a straighter track.
While you may get involved in a few flings, you're more able than some to transcend your bodily needs for a higher ideal. Sex just for its own sake may not hold a lot of appeal for you unless other aspects indicate it; you'd much rather connect on a physical level with someone with whom you're emotionally bonded with, because that way, the experience is so much more transcendent and important. Sex without love is basically empty, but sex can be an important growth experience when paired up with true intimacy and emotional attachment. You've always understood that, so you tend to look for relationships that really mean something to you rather than pursuing someone who just appeals to you on a physical level. Love, also, is a spiritual experience for you, one that helps you grow hugely as a human being. If you look back over your life, you'll find that your romantic affairs corresponded with periods of intense personal growth and transformation, and it will always be this way for you. So when you're getting involved with someone new, use this truth about yourself as a barometer for whether the relationship is worth pursuing. If there's more there than simple attraction, it probably is.
Love affairs have always been intense for you, because that is one arena that really lets you progress and transform yourself as a person. While other people might do their best internal work on their own, you're all about relationships and the lessons you can glean through being intimately involved with someone. Of course, 'relationship' can also mean the one you share with your therapist; that would be another wonderful way for you to connect more deeply with yourself and grow to understand and nurture yourself. But love affairs for you tend to be intense and symbiotic, and you rarely come out of them unchanged. A harmonious balance between you and your sweetie is one of your highest ideals, and you're willing to go to great lengths to bring that ideal into reality. You'll work hard on a relationship that's important to you, and you can be very introspective in your quest to make the bond the best that it can be. Just remember not to be too hard on yourself -- you're allowed at least a few flaws and idiosyncrasies! -- and not to subvert your own needs and desires in favor of maintaining harmony. With some effort, you should be able to have both.
Love and intimacy are opportunities for tremendous growth for you. The experience of loving someone deeply, of committing to them and to the relationship for the long haul, is an experience that you crave, because it's one that transforms your very soul. You're even more able than most to gain personal lessons and positive change through the venue of a romantic relationship, and that becomes truer the longer you're involved with someone, and the more you develop a true partnership with them. You're a strong, self-aware person, and you're deeply attracted to people with the same qualities. You yearn to know yourself, and you're drawn to people who offer you the promise of further self-knowledge. Lovers who mirror you -- who encourage you to become even more authentically yourself, who love you and tell you exactly what they love about you -- will be the most instrumental in your growth, because they will help to show you who you are as well as to unlock your personal potential. A wonderful side benefit of all this is that you'll always be able to keep the passionate intensity alive in your love affairs, even the one that lasts for the very long haul.
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