The Friction, Differences and Karma Meters: every couple faces a certain set of challenges, and the number and type of challenges determine whether your relationship will be merely interesting or out-and-out difficult. At The Astrologer, we've broken down these challenges into three sections: sources of friction, the major differences between you, and the karmic ties from past lives that draw you together today.
On the first two meters, Friction and Differences, a score somewhere in the middle is probably best. Friction can be a good thing -- after all, the same energy that makes you lust after each other also makes you fight. And we all know that a good argument, like good sex, clears the air and lets you know your passion is alive! The same goes for differences between you in the ways that you think and view the world: These contrasts keep the relationship dynamic.
Karma, on the other hand, isn't such a great thing, even if your past-life bonds were positive ones. This lifetime is... Read more
7-10: Open warfare
4-6: The occasional dispute
0-3: Whatever you have to say dear
7-10: Who the $#@% are you, again?
4-6: Some interesting contrasts
0-3: Two Peas in a pod
7-10: New love, same old story
4-6: Total deja-vu
0-3: No past life ties (whew!)
Venus square Venus
Your relationship looks so good on paper! You both have a relaxed, sensual way about you, a zest for life, an appealing joie de vivre. But on the other hand, your values are dissonant, as are your tastes. One of you goes for the quiet and elegant, the other for the raucous and brash, a difference that's particularly acute around the expression of public affection -- which one of you is all over the other in public? It feels like you can't relax together; all the while little bursts of friction keep bubbling up and disturbing the peace. You view your lover as impossibly vain -- and surprise, that's the exact same complaint you hear back! And it's a small thing, but you really can't abide the way it takes your sweetie hours and hours to get ready to go to just about any social event. Luckily, all is not lost. These problems are really fairly unimportant in the grand scheme of things. You two like each other, right? So stop rubbing each other the wrong way. Make like a second grader and cooperate. Share more. Don't do the stuff that drives your lover mad. There's a lot here to love.
No oppositions
Do you two have trouble walking a mile in each other's moccasins? Is it difficult for either of you to view things from your partner's perspective? In arguments as well as in day-to-day life, are you both so attached to your own points of view that you just can't comprehend where your sweetie is coming from?If you answered 'yes' to any of the above questions, it may be because the two of you lack any oppositions between you. An opposition is a somewhat stressful planetary connection, but it does something very important: It provides a wider perspective than just your own. Oppositions bring awareness of The Other and the ability to see things from your partner's point of view.Not being 'in opposition' to your lover might sound like a good thing, but look at it this way: When there are no oppositions present between you, it's like you're each going in your own direction, but your paths don't align. They don't cross and they don't run parallel. You're each simply moving along on your own track, one that's noticeably unrelated to your partner's.You each think you know the other, but if you took a test on each other's likes and dislikes, you probably wouldn't do as well as you think. There's a basic inability for either of you to look across the table at the other and see the person who's actually sitting there; you both have a strong tendency to view the other through your own looking glass, which distorts the picture. Finding the balance between you will require a lot of awareness and honesty on both your parts -- difficult, but not impossible.
No quincunxes
With no quincunxes -- one type of stressful planetary connection -- between you, there's good news: It's safe to say that you two are together purely because you want to be. You aren't drawn to each other for some deep, unfathomable reason; your mutual attraction is bold and aboveboard -- and what a relief! After all, plenty of couples are pulled together by forces even they don't understand, forces like karma and unconscious, psychological urges that stem from their deep pasts.This doesn't mean that you two don't have relationship issues to work out; every couple has them. The previous chapters in this report will help you to clarify and understand the issues you face together, and how you can use these challenges for growth and positive transformation. For example, you each bring your own unique family conditioning and relationship history into your current pairing. But these are issues you can think about, talk about and work on together with great openness and awareness. And frankly, these types of problems are a lot easier to work through than karmic baggage that's been carried forward from previous lives that you can't even remember, much less articulate.One area of difficulty you two may experience together, however, concerns the issue of compromise. Every successful relationship requires that both partners learn the art of give-and-take. With no quincunxes forcing you to learn to adjust to each other's quirks, flexibility and compromise may not come easily for you two. But with practice, each of you can learn the cues that will let you know when it's time to back down from an issue or give your sweetie center stage for the good of the relationship.So, consider yourselves fortunate among couples. There's no heavy odor of karmic debt permeating the air of your relationship; the problems you face together are rooted in this lifetime, and can be worked through in this lifetime, too. You two can bring great awareness to each other, and if you can lear
No conjunctions
There's glue, and then there's glue. Elmer's versus epoxy, Velcro versus nails. Fortunately, with no difficult conjunctions between you, your relationship is bound by the easy-to-separate type of togetherness, not the wild-horses-couldn't-drag-us-apart variety. Now, don't misunderstand: This is not to say that there's not a strong connection between you. But it's nice, isn't it, to be able to take the occasional separate vacation; to enjoy your own interests without your partner feeling threatened; to be two distinct individuals who choose to hang out together. Compare this to the joined-at-the-hip, can't-bear-to-be-apart couple. Don't you always wonder about them? What do they think will happen if they're not together for an entire evening, much less a day or even a week?Separation is not a problem for you two; in fact, you may do it by choice on a regular basis. After all, absence makes the heart grow fonder, and this is surely true of you and your partner. You take great joy in sharing your individual experiences, as well as in spending time together. If anything, you might have to make it a point to schedule in time to be together! You may each be so wrapped up in your own orbit that you suddenly realize that days or even weeks have gone by without you two sharing a full day together.Don't let that happen. Use the previous sections of this report to discover the challenges of your relationship, which so often turn out to be opportunities for growth and development. You two have chosen to be together, and likewise, you can choose to grow together.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
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