The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
Sun: Your Heart and Soul in Love
Sun conjunct Venus
Love isn't just a possibility between you; it's very likely, especially if other aspects of your relationship agree on a positive, affectionate connection. From the start, there will be a sense of sweetness and tender devotion between you. You'll truly like each other, and if other conditions support the relationship moving forward, then like will almost certainly grow into love. You'll feel quite attracted to each other, whether that's at an overtly physical level or one that's more akin to a natural affinity. The sense of ease and comfort between you will smooth the way for a truly sublime partnership. The magnetic promises of this influence will easily outweigh any difficulties that may come with your relationship, and the sense of romance this aspect brings will work to counterbalance any challenges you face as a couple, keeping you feeling great about each other and the relationship. On a day-to-day basis, you're likely to be courteous, thoughtful and considerate with each other. You'll enjoy getting out and being social together, and you'll be known as a loving, affectionate and romantic couple.
Sun conjunct Mars
Peace and quiet will probably be a luxury within your relationship, because you spark a lot of energy, creativity, dynamism and, yes, competitiveness in each other. You'll have a lively way of being together and communicating -- one that, from the outside, may look a lot like bickering. From the inside, it will feel more like clearing the air in an important, even necessary way. There's a lot of energy inherent in your relationship, and it has to be expressed somehow; otherwise, you'll boil over like a pot on the stove. So don't try to 'keep the peace' in an artificial way. In this particular relationship, it will be a lot better to air out your complaints, even if it leads to an argument, than to keep things bottled up inside. They'll only come out later in an even angrier, more hostile way. Another great way to steer this energy is to be active together as much as possible. If you join a team sport together, go on frequent jogs or hikes, or join the gym and work out side by side, you'll find that you get along much better and feel more confident and centered in the relationship.
Sun square Pluto
No one is perfect, and everyone can stand to change at least a few things about themselves in order to be a better friend, lover and all-around person. In fact, the need for growth is one of the biggest reasons we enter into relationships; they're the perfect venue for learning these lessons. But while this relationship will certainly change you, it may not be for the better. You'll both try to force the other to change in ways that aren't necessary or fair, such as pushing your lover to become the partner you wish you could be with. Power struggles will take center stage in this relationship. You might never feel appreciated and accepted for the person you are inside; similarly, you might never feel as if you can fully relax with each other. Arguments could flare up frequently as you each try to carve out a comfortable space for yourselves. Take a look at the rest of the aspects between you: If there are lots of harmonious influences, they can balance out the challenges of this one. But if there are others that indicate conflict, you can expect this relationship to be a tough one. Still, you can consciously focus together on accepting each other and on toning down your own controlling impulses, and make this work -- with effort.
Mercury: Wear Your Heart on Your Sleeve
Mercury unaspected
As individuals, you may communicate well enough with each other and those outside your relationship. But as a couple, others may not understand you nearly as well as you understand yourselves. When you are together, your conversation is lively and interesting, no matter what you are doing. Communicate frequently with each other so neither of you feels misunderstood. You enjoy talking about a wide range of subjects, and may develop your own lingo or code words, which is funny to you but which excludes others. Because you think as a unit, completing each other''s sentences, it could be a challenge to coordinate your mental processes with others who are not in the circle of your relationship. Others can't keep up with your mental speed, and may misconstrue or misinterpret what you say. You two won't be on the same plane as many others intellectually, and it will be difficult to bridge that gap. On the other hand, as a couple, you aren't restrained by what others say.
Venus: The Key to Your HeartVenus conjunct Mars
There will be a strong, passionate attraction between you that draws you together and holds you there. If other indications are as strong and positive as this one, including good communication, affection, harmony and stability, then chances are very strong that this relationship will be a long, passionate and vital one. You'll really turn each other on, physically and otherwise! There will be a lot of love and affection between you, not to mention heat and sexual tension. Ooh, la la! Remember, though, that when there's this much passion between two people, it can turn quickly into that other kind of passion -- anger. In fact, this influence will heighten all your emotional responses to each other, whatever they may be: love, anger, hurt, sorrow and so on. If you end up hurting one another, the sense of heartbreak will run even deeper than it would in another relationship with a different partner. And if you end up breaking up, you might feel as if you hate each other as passionately as you once loved one another. If so, this will be a mark of how strong your feelings are for one another. However things go between you, it's almost impossible that you'll be indifferent to each other.
Venus sextile Uranus
Together you'll establish both love and friendship, and you'll give each other a lot of freedom to move around and be yourselves. There will be a real openness in the ways you express your affection for and attraction to each other. Jealousy and possessiveness aren't likely to affect your bond, because neither of you will want to engage in petty, controlling behaviors with your lover. This is because you'll both understand that your lover isn't 'yours'; you don't own each other. If you're in one another's lives, it will only be to bring each other pleasure and happiness. This relationship may or may not last long-term, and this influence in itself won't add to the stability of your connection. But one thing is certain: If you can find a way to let this affair follow its own course without trying to control it too much, it will lead you places you never expected to go -- and the ride will be a lot of fun.
Venus square Pluto
Power struggles, control and domination will all be themes of this love affair. You'll feel very much under your partner's sway, as if they hold a certain kind of power over you that you can neither resist nor deny. Especially if you've never felt this way before, you may allow the intensity of your relationship to take center stage in your life, which could have some challenging consequences. It may be all too easy to use physical or emotional affection -- or withholding that affection -- as a manipulative tool to control your lover. Things could potentially even degenerate between you to the point that you'll feel bound to or even obsessed with each other, despite some very real feelings of resentment and deprivation. There's plenty of positive potential between you, too, however, which you can choose to tap into. The intensity of your emotional connection could lead to incredible experiences of love and togetherness; this relationship could change each of you for the better. But you'll have to focus consciously on the positive parts of your bond, and be careful to avoid the negative parts by refusing to take part in any game playing or power struggles.
Mars: What Turns You OnMars sextile Uranus
Through the course of this affair, you'll help each other learn brand-new ways of being and behaving in a relationship. This shouldn't be a difficult process; instead, it should be a fun, exciting and engaging one, one that you're both happy to be involved in. One thing to be aware of is that this relationship won't follow the normal, prescribed course that you're used to. From your first meeting through your courtship and beyond, there will be surprises around every corner, and the best way to deal with them will be simply to accept them as they come. The fewer expectations you have of this connection, the better; that way, you'll be able to enjoy all the unpredictability and excitement. If there are other aspects between you that signal an unstable or unpredictable affair, this influence will add to that energy, but it will also help make sure that your connection is still mutually enjoyable, and that you both grow through sharing this experience.
Mars square Pluto
Separately, you might be the most placid, easygoing people in the world, but when you're together, your aggressive sides will come out in a big way. You'll both constantly try to prove you're right, provoking needless conflict. In the middle of an argument, you may know exactly how silly your behavior is, or how ridiculous the argument itself is, but you'll be hard-pressed to pull yourselves back under control. Something will just make you want to compete against each other -- force against force -- for domination. You'll find it almost impossible to set your egos aside, even when it comes down to what's best for you, your partner or the relationship itself. What does this mean on a day-to-day basis? Lots of arguments and hurt feelings. Lots of anger and aggressive, even hostile behavior. A hard time creating a lasting sense of harmony, togetherness, trust or intimacy. And while you may mistake this abundance of passion for the good kind -- the kind that makes it so fun to kiss and make up after a fight -- sooner or later, you might decide it's just not worth the heartache to stay in this relationship. There would have to be a lot of sweetness between you to counteract this level of aggression and hostility.
Jupiter: Confidence and Charisma
Jupiter conjunct Juno
Your mutual partnership needs will be a very good match with your shared interest in philosophy, learning, travel and other forms of expanding your minds. You'll both feel as if, on that level of intellectual and philosophical interests, you've found just the type of partnership you're looking for, and this point of connection will be an important one for the development of your relationship. Therefore, you should be conscious in honoring that connection in whatever ways are appropriate. If you're both interested in traveling to other countries, then work together to save up money for the plane tickets. If you're both interested in educating yourselves in new subjects, then look through a course catalog from your local community college and find a new subject to explore together. If you're both seeking spiritual enlightenment, then take couples' yoga classes together or research temples or churches in your area that might appeal to you both. Your best bet with this particular energy is to be mindful in how you use and express it. That way, you'll build your connection with each other as you enhance your own minds and lives.
Jupiter trine Saturn
This influence will bring two seemingly opposed energies at work within your relationship -- expansion and restriction -- into harmony with one another. Instead of being pitted against each other, these energies will work together to balance each other out. They can serve to keep each other in check, allowing you to have adventures together and push toward new, exciting experiences, but without going too far or extending yourselves beyond your real means. It can also help with seeing each other realistically and setting your expectations for the relationship accordingly. Thus, you won't often put unnecessary demands upon each other, and you'll make a good team when it comes to setting long-term goals and working toward them at a steady pace. You'll treat each other with patience and calm acceptance, which will really help when you hit those rough patches. In short, you'll help each other to move forward in life in a practical way, feeling supported but not limited by your partner.
Saturn: Hook, Line or Sinker?
Saturn trine Neptune
Your relationship will be about a lot more than simple mutual pleasure and good times. You'll both feel as if your connection is more important than that -- as if you've come together for some higher purpose, to achieve something profound. This influence may tone down the passion between you, turning what would otherwise be something spontaneous and often physical into something more spiritual, refined and restrained. But this restraint won't be unwelcome; instead, it will be something you impose on yourselves in order to honor your commitment to each other and to the relationship. You'll both put a lot of effort into creating an ideal bond, one that is emotionally and spiritually fulfilling. You'll spend time talking about what's most important to you in life, including your problems, and you'll help each other work on your issues and find ways to solve them. You'll look up to each other as mentors, because you'll each bring such an important and helpful influence to your partner's life. With this aspect between you, a long-term connection is a distinct possibility. If your relationship does continue, you'll always respect and look up to each other.
Uranus: Your Wild SideUranus unaspected
You're a unique couple: everyone agrees on that. But you might never be appreciated for the things that make you truly special, since you reserve these things for each other. Besides that, you don't really care what others think of you, which gives you a lot of independence and freedom to be who you want to be as a pair. You'll rebel in one form or another or take the cutting edge on every subject you discuss. It's your unusual perspective and point of view that brings you together and makes your union different from the rest of the world. You may vividly express your wild side or it may be completely invisible from the rest of your life. Mostly, you just want to be free.
Neptune: Rose Colored GlassesNeptune sextile PlutoYour intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
Pluto: Primal UrgesPluto unaspected
There is an intensity about you as a couple, and a certain mystery and charisma, accompanied by an aura of quiet power. This pairing has an internal force, a hidden treasure, and untapped depths. These are important qualities, but with nothing else to restrain or contain them, so they could be either untapped or over-tapped in this relationship. This connection is all about personal transformation and regeneration, and these processes could be turned into something that you feel is beyond your control. It is up to you to direct this powerful energy to accomplish deeds that benefit others besides yourselves.
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