The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
You'll both derive a lot of energy and vitality from your partnership, because the core energy of your connection matches the things you're both seeking from this relationship. You'll both feel as if your connection embodies exactly the type of values and goals you're looking for, which will make you both feel happy and excited at the prospect of sharing a future. You'll both sense that together, you'll be able to make things happen, in your own lives as well as in your shared life. The longer you're together, the more you might feel as if you 'couldn't have done it' without your sweetie by your side. But do make sure that you're actually a solid match in terms of your communication, your goals and how much of yourselves and your energy you're willing to commit to the relationship. If you find that you're on a par in all of these important ways, it's likely that you'll be able to build a really strong, fun and mutually satisfying connection.
You'll idealize this relationship and each other to a great degree, and you'll both feel as if you've come together to achieve something very special -- some sort of spiritual pursuit or higher ideal. You'll tune in to each other's thoughts and feelings intuitively, and you'll share such feelings of devotion that you'll work selflessly to meet each other's needs. Your connection will seem incredibly meaningful to both of you, significant at some intangible level that defies reason. There are a couple of potential pitfalls here that can be avoided if you watch out for them. One is that your focus on the more 'perfect' parts of your bond may encourage you to ignore the mundane or imperfect parts, even though those parts of your connection will be just as important as anything else in the relationship. If you try not to use this influence as an excuse for avoiding reality, you should be fine -- in fact, better than fine. It's lovely in a romance to have such spiritual attunement! Just don't neglect the more tedious, day-to-day issues that will crop up between you. And don't neglect your physical connection in favor of nurturing a more spiritual or emotional one. If you do, this relationship may stay in the platonic realm.
This relationship will be nothing if not emotionally intense. In fact, it will have a profound transformative effect on both of you. If you stay together for any length of time, it's almost impossible that you'll remain unchanged. You'll teach each other everything you know about life and love, but more than that, simply being together and interacting will shift the whole way you think about the important things in life -- your general outlook or philosophy, perhaps, or the way you deal with your emotions. Your self-expression will also change a great deal through the course of knowing and loving each other. You'll deepen in your self-awareness, and you'll be able to use this knowledge to enhance not only this relationship but your connections with everyone in your life. Of course, much of this transformation may happen through upsetting periods in your relationship that force you to find new ways to deal with problems and communicate with each other, but you'll find that you have great strength within yourselves as you get through these periods intact. Finally, your sexual connection will also be highly emotional, and you'll both derive a great deal of emotional sustenance from your physical bond.
You'll both have high expectations of yourselves and each other in terms of your mutual development in this relationship. Your hopes will be high for what this connection can be, and you'll have a hard time accepting it if the relationship turns out to be less than what you've imagined. It will be possible to channel this idealism carefully and use it to create a relationship that's based on mutual growth and understanding, but it will be all too easy to let things veer in the direction of impossible expectations. Whatever happens, when you're together you'll feel the need to make things happen -- to learn, grow and gain understanding -- which can easily turn into something bigger than it really is. You might never feel satisfied with the way things are; you'll always want to change and improve, which in itself isn't a bad thing. It will become a real issue, though, if you can't ever accept each other as you are, or the relationship. Be sure, too, that you're giving as much to the relationship as you're demanding from it. Developing patience and tolerance as a couple will be key for the success of this connection.
A meeting of the minds is a strong possibility in this relationship, especially if you have an overall positive communicative bond. The way you'll naturally communicate with each other will reinforce what you're each looking for in this partnership, which will make it easy to talk about any issues that might come up through the course of the relationship. In an important sense, you'll speak the same language when it comes to love. You'll also just enjoy talking to each other, and you may want to keep in close touch, chatting often on the phone or e-mailing each other from work, even when you know you're going to see each other later that evening. Whatever your goals are for the relationship, you'll be able to talk those out together and make decisions as a team on meeting both your needs.
In the beginning you two might start arguing over real, important issues you have with each other, but over time, arguing will become such a normal, familiar way of interacting that you'll fight over just about anything. Every couple gets into it now and again, of course, and everyone needs to get tension off their chest rather than letting it stagnate. It's important to communicate openly about your real feelings and perceptions within the relationship, even if those feelings aren't pleasant; but you two will probably go well past that boundary together. You'll annoy each other frequently, because the ways you talk to each other will be pointed, aggressive and rarely kind or sensitive. In short, you'll talk to each other not like lovers or friends, but like enemies issuing a challenge. You'll become more and more sensitive to each other over time, too, so that after a while, it will be difficult to say anything to your partner that doesn't come across as inflammatory. You can avoid this eventuality, however, if you're aware of your argumentative tendency from the start. You can both make the effort to pay attention to how you speak to each other, and try to differentiate between real, important issues and petty disagreements that don't merit the trouble of fighting them out.
You'll encourage each other to reject traditional ideas and conventional ways of thinking, which has its good points as well as its challenging ones. On the positive side, you'll both make sure that you keep thinking well outside the box, and you'll both look for alternative perspectives in any given situation. But that's also where trouble will come in. Sometimes, the conventional viewpoint is also the most appropriate one, but if you two simply reject convention automatically, you'll fall into the habit of challenging ideas -- including each other's -- solely for the sake of the challenge itself. Needless to say, this will lead to feeling unsettled, criticized and judged if you're on the receiving end of your partner's constant, automatic disagreement. And if you team up together to treat other people this way, you'll find that standing alone too much can lead to ending up alone, when your friends and family feel too criticized to put up with you any longer. Rebellion solely for its own sake doesn't hold a lot of meaning, which is a lesson you'll have to learn together through the course of this relationship.
You could have a lot of trouble expressing your tender, affectionate feelings for each other, because there will always be a certain coolness between you -- a restricted feeling that will make you feel as if flirting and having fun together are just trivial pursuits. Over time, you could both develop the sense that there are more important things you should focus on together than anything so silly as sensuality or romance. It's even possible that some outside circumstance -- a demanding job, perhaps, or living in separate cities -- will make you feel as if it's just not possible to pursue this relationship with the ardor you feel inside. The bottom line is, if you're looking for an exciting, heated, spontaneous affair, this probably won't be it. But on the plus side, what it lacks in dramatic flair, it can make up in steadiness and genuineness. Even if your connection is cool and restrained, it will also be stable, loyal and dedicated. It's up to you to decide whether this is the type of relationship you're looking for, and whether this will be a level of coolness and restraint you can put up with.
Power struggles, control and domination will all be themes of this love affair. You'll feel very much under your partner's sway, as if they hold a certain kind of power over you that you can neither resist nor deny. Especially if you've never felt this way before, you may allow the intensity of your relationship to take center stage in your life, which could have some challenging consequences. It may be all too easy to use physical or emotional affection -- or withholding that affection -- as a manipulative tool to control your lover. Things could potentially even degenerate between you to the point that you'll feel bound to or even obsessed with each other, despite some very real feelings of resentment and deprivation. There's plenty of positive potential between you, too, however, which you can choose to tap into. The intensity of your emotional connection could lead to incredible experiences of love and togetherness; this relationship could change each of you for the better. But you'll have to focus consciously on the positive parts of your bond, and be careful to avoid the negative parts by refusing to take part in any game playing or power struggles.
This relationship will be nothing if not unusual, and it could be so unusual that neither of you can ultimately handle its unpredictability. There will be a very challenging, competitive energy that grows between you, pushing you to provoke each other on a regular basis regarding your work, your behavior, your goals and so on. Furthermore, you'll both find it hard to let things roll off your backs in this relationship; when your partner does or says something to you that provokes you, you'll want to address it immediately. You'll have a hard time creating balance, which will in turn make it difficult to create any sense of stability between you. You may also have to add outside pressures into the mix, especially if your connection is outwardly so odd or hard to accept that your friends and families actively disapprove of the relationship. Above all, don't try to subject this affair to any of your usual standards or expectations. If you care about each other and want this to last, the only way to make that happen will be to give each other plenty of freedom as well as support, and let the relationship follow its own unique course.
This influence will help a great deal in creating dynamic stability in your relationship. You'll make an excellent working team, and you'll work hard to help each other make your dreams come true. Together, you'll want to have a positive effect on the world and change things for the better, and you can make that happen through your combined positive outlook and your dedication to your cause. This influence will also help a lot in dealing with any problems you two face as a couple. Even if you run into big obstacles -- misunderstandings, mismatched objectives and the like -- you'll be able to find your way back to each other and reunite as a strong team. This is where stability is created between you; over time, a sense of trust, harmony and optimism will grow, as each of you begins to realize that when you're together, there's very little you can't accomplish, and very little that can drive you apart. If you make sure to focus together on making positive change and progress that will benefit the world, not just yourselves, you'll be able to reap all the best that this relationship has to offer.
When it comes to your mutual partnership needs as compared with your shared interests in philosophy, learning, travel and other forms of expanding your minds, you'll find that you're on opposite sides of the fence, and this could make a real dent in your faith in the relationship. You're both seeking particular things from this partnership, and you'll both feel disappointed at the fact that your intellectual and philosophical interests will be so different from the connection you've envisioned for yourselves. You may have plenty of good ideas about how to enhance your shared spiritual life or which subjects to learn more about as a couple, but as the natural course of your relationship steers you away from these things, you'll both feel shortchanged. Depending on how well you communicate, you could get into some real struggles over these issues. You'll need to be conscious in seeking ways to blend your interests rather than just arguing over them and trying to get your own way. It will be important to work toward a compromise in these issues, because staying in conflict over them could damage your bond.
Your spiritual attunement with one another will be apparent to you both from the start, and the more intimate you become, the more your souls will feel uplifted, as if you've tapped into a wellspring of joy and enlightenment. You'll certainly have a lot to teach each other within these realms, and if other influences within your relationship point to a strong emotional, spiritual or intuitive connection, it's possible that you'll live out your love more through thought and feeling than through touch or anything else that's tied to the physical realm. Emotional and spiritual intimacy could become more important to you than physical intimacy; or, your physical bond could become a way to connect with each other and transcend the physical world into a dimension that's all your own, beautiful and perfect in its idealized state. You will need to pay special attention to the mundane, everyday world, however; don't allow yourselves to be so carried away on a cloud of feeling and togetherness that you forget to eat, get to work on time, pay the bills and so on! The spiritual and physical worlds are meant to complement one another; try not to ignore one for the other.
No matter how sweet, harmonious or supportive the rest of your relationship may seem, there will be a sense of restriction between you, as if one or both of you isn't getting what you want at an important level. As these feelings return repeatedly, frustration could build, and blame will be a natural, if unfortunate, result. You might feel as if the relationship inhibits your freedom or your happiness in some fundamental way, or it could be your partner who feels that way. Alternatively, you could both feel as if in this relationship, you can never have quite enough money, commitment, trust or any of the other elements that make it easy to relax and just float awhile. You may feel as if your friends or your families don't support the relationship, which makes it harder to have a carefree time together. It's possible that, even if this relationship starts out with the warmest of feelings and the best of intentions, things will really cool off emotionally between you. However, if you can remember that this is a growth opportunity, a chance to work through your mutual issues of resources, trust or commitment, then as a couple you can burn through these issues and gain the rewards of a deep and intimate connection.
You're a unique couple: everyone agrees on that. But you might never be appreciated for the things that make you truly special, since you reserve these things for each other. Besides that, you don't really care what others think of you, which gives you a lot of independence and freedom to be who you want to be as a pair. You'll rebel in one form or another or take the cutting edge on every subject you discuss. It's your unusual perspective and point of view that brings you together and makes your union different from the rest of the world. You may vividly express your wild side or it may be completely invisible from the rest of your life. Mostly, you just want to be free.
You'll both feel as if you've found just what you're looking for in this partnership. The emotional intimacy you'll share will seem more like a spiritual connection, as if your souls are merging as one, and the way you'll bond will feed your needs for union and togetherness. You're likely to find it incredibly easy to communicate, as if you can tap intuitively into one another's needs and emotions. If you have an otherwise difficult communicative bond, this influence will help. You'll have to be careful about over-idealizing one another, as it will be easy to deceive yourselves about the nature of your relationship or of your partner, which could lead to disappointment when you find that the reality measures less than you thought. But in general, trying to see the best in each will serve your partnership needs in a positive way. Just be sure to be honest with each other about your feelings, needs and desires, and your levels of commitment to the relationship. That will help avoid disappointment later.
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
You'll share some specific needs as to the type of commitment and togetherness you'll want to create with each other, and one of the best ways to manifest your needs in this relationship will be to go deeply together into your own interiors: the parts of yourselves that are powerful and passionate, and ready for transformation. Exploring this intense emotional energy together will be your ticket to building the kind of deep union you'll both wish and hope for. This could be difficult, uncomfortable work at times, as old hurts and anxieties flare up anew, demanding that you feel them thoroughly and process them this time. But the good news is, if you can work together on creating a mutually supportive relationship, you'll have one another to lean on through this process. If you play this right, you'll get to know yourselves through and through while becoming a closer, more committed couple in the process.
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