The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
Sun: Your Heart and Soul in Love
Sun conjunct Mars
Peace and quiet will probably be a luxury within your relationship, because you spark a lot of energy, creativity, dynamism and, yes, competitiveness in each other. You'll have a lively way of being together and communicating -- one that, from the outside, may look a lot like bickering. From the inside, it will feel more like clearing the air in an important, even necessary way. There's a lot of energy inherent in your relationship, and it has to be expressed somehow; otherwise, you'll boil over like a pot on the stove. So don't try to 'keep the peace' in an artificial way. In this particular relationship, it will be a lot better to air out your complaints, even if it leads to an argument, than to keep things bottled up inside. They'll only come out later in an even angrier, more hostile way. Another great way to steer this energy is to be active together as much as possible. If you join a team sport together, go on frequent jogs or hikes, or join the gym and work out side by side, you'll find that you get along much better and feel more confident and centered in the relationship.
Sun conjunct Neptune
The image you project as a couple may have little to do with the reality behind that image. While you may appear on the surface to be the 'ideal couple,' that appearance may be far from the truth. And one or both of you could be very concerned about continuing to appear as this idealized, glamorous pair. In fact, there's a strong chance you'll both idealize your relationship to a great degree. It might seem as if you have a spiritual connection, and perhaps you will; losing yourselves together in service or spirit is a distinct possibility with this aspect. But with an influence like this one at work, it's all too easy to delude yourselves as to the true nature of your bond and the possibilities of this relationship. You may both feel as if you're so connected that you don't even need to talk to understand each other, and this may be true in moments. But don't ignore the importance of direct, verbal communication. Some things do need to be spelled out in words, even if you both believe you already know or understand them. If you don't make the effort to communicate deliberately and directly, you're likely to wake up at some point as if from a pleasant dream -- all fluff and no substance.
Sun sextile Juno
You have an opportunity to create an important relationship together. You'll both derive a lot of energy and vitality from your partnership, because the core energy of your connection is very similar to the qualities you're each seeking from this relationship. You'll both feel as if your connection embodies the type of values and goals you're looking for, which will make you both feel happy and excited at the prospect of sharing a future. Make sure that you're actually a solid match in terms of your communication, your goals and how much of yourselves and your energy you're willing to commit to the relationship. If you find that you're similar in all of these important ways, it's likely that you'll be able to build a really strong, fun and mutually satisfying connection.
Sun sextile Pluto
This relationship will be nothing if not emotionally intense. In fact, it will have a profound transformative effect on both of you. If you stay together for any length of time, it's almost impossible that you'll remain unchanged. You'll teach each other everything you know about life and love, but more than that, simply being together and interacting will shift the whole way you think about the important things in life -- your general outlook or philosophy, perhaps, or the way you deal with your emotions. Your self-expression will also change a great deal through the course of knowing and loving each other. You'll deepen in your self-awareness, and you'll be able to use this knowledge to enhance not only this relationship but your connections with everyone in your life. Of course, much of this transformation may happen through upsetting periods in your relationship that force you to find new ways to deal with problems and communicate with each other, but you'll find that you have great strength within yourselves as you get through these periods intact. Finally, your sexual connection will also be highly emotional, and you'll both derive a great deal of emotional sustenance from your physical bond.
Mercury: Wear Your Heart on Your SleeveMercury conjunct Neptune
There are a couple of different ways this influence can go. In one case, you may find that your communication takes on a dreamy, unclear quality. You could have a lot of trouble being honest with each other. Even when you are direct, your partner may have trouble understanding what they're hearing, and vice versa. Even if you're both good listeners, when you're together it will be as if you're listening to each other through fog or seeing one another through a distorted lens. It will be all too easy to twist things in your minds, including your partner's words or intentions. But alternatively, you might actually have a strengthening effect on each other's thought processes, if you can bring a more spiritually attuned dimension to one another's logic. Logic in itself, after all, is just one facet of perception, and it is deepened when paired with intuitive knowledge, compassion and the like. You can steer your bond toward the latter manifestation of this energy by trying your hardest not to idealize each other or your bond, and by making a consistent and pointed effort to communicate honestly.
Mercury sextile Pluto
This relationship will give you the chance to face down your own deep-rooted psychological issues and gain understanding about them in a relaxed, non-threatening way. Together, you'll explore your own and each other's psyches. Your conversations will often turn toward important personal matters such as your feelings, your anxieties, your dreams and desires. When issues such as possessiveness, jealousy and insecurity come up between you, as they do in most intimate relationships, you'll be able to discuss them calmly and reasonably rather than flying off the handle or responding on instinct alone -- which is what perpetuates deep-seated fears and other blocks to intimacy. In this connection, you'll be able to explore these problems, understand them and even resolve them. If other influences between you are as positive as this one, you'll quickly develop a strong feeling of trust as you allow yourselves to become more and more vulnerable to each other. This relationship will end up changing the way you think about the world and your place in it.
Venus: The Key to Your Heart
Venus trine Juno
Giving one another affection and getting along well should come easy to you two. In one another's arms, you'll find what you're looking for in terms of partnership and romance. In fact, if there are other more difficult energies at work between you, this one might help to alleviate them. Even when you're really annoyed with each other, you'll usually be able to remember why you're in this relationship and what you like about your sweetie. You'll each hold your connection in a special place in your heart, which means you'll both do what it takes to guard and preserve that bond. In general, you'll cooperate well and compromise when necessary. Do this consciously, though. If you rely too much on this easy, sweet energy, you'll start taking it for granted, which will weaken it. But if you both put continual effort into treating one another well, giving each other plenty of affection and compromising when the situation calls for it, you'll find that your relationship will fulfill you both.
Venus opposite Mars
You'll feel magnetically drawn to each other and you'll find it very hard to resist the pull. At an unconscious level, you may feel so mutually attracted because you'll each recognize that your lover has something you want and need in your own life; but at the conscious level, you'll just feel attraction, pure and simple. Your bond will be very strong as a result, and your sexual connection will be an important link between you. This influence can also bring challenges with it, however. Since this aspect indicates that there's something you want and need from each other, it could be all too easy to let sexual fulfillment become the thing you try to get from your partner. Sex could become a difficult, complex give-and-take rather than being the mutually affirming, connective experience that it should be between two people who care for each other. Watch out for this; if you find yourselves becoming demanding about your physical interactions, take a step back and remind yourselves that sexual encounters are best when they're allowed to happen naturally. You'll need to be deliberate about cooperating in the bedroom if you want this aspect of your relationship to work out.
Venus sextile Saturn
It's possible that you'll always feel just a little bit distanced from each other, and at times, it could be hard to bridge the gap. But there will also be a calm, steady and enduring affection between you, one that could last a long time, especially if other aspects in your composite chart point to a long-term connection. If you do fall in love and stay together, your relationship will be about more than just love, lust, romance or affection. You'll share a deep sense of duty and responsibility toward each other, and you'll have well-defined principles about how you want to conduct your relationship. And it may be these principles or your shared sense of responsibility that keeps you together when you go through rough patches as a couple. Even in happy times, though, you probably won't be the most demonstrative couple around. Your affectionate displays will be restrained at best, which is what might lead to a feeling of distance between you. If you allow your romantic signals to be too subtle, they might fly right over your partner's head. It's better not to let this happen. You'll both need to put in a little extra effort to make sure your lover knows you care about them, truly and deeply.
Mars: What Turns You OnMars trine SaturnTogether, you are a formidable team. Little could prevent you from achieving your goals as a couple. Be careful of settling too firmly into particular patterns of behavior, however. This influence brings a certain amount of stability to your connection, a good thing except in this case, it may contribute to habitual behaviors and responses that could be difficult to break out of. This isn't an insurmountable issue, however; a little self-awareness will go a long way toward solving the problem. Try to be aware of the patterned, habitual responses you have developed with each other. And be sure that you give yourselves plenty of room for genuine, spontaneous self-expression as well. The upside of this aspect is your ability to work long and hard together. It lends certain ambition and desire to succeed. As a couple, you are able to create and develop something significant and long-lasting, even if that takes years. You have the endurance and patience to wait until the time is right. Together, you can go far.
Jupiter: Confidence and Charisma
Jupiter sextile Uranus
As a couple, you'll focus on the excitement of new discoveries and experiences. You'll pick up on a certain love of freedom and adventure in one another, which will attract you to each other from the start. You'll both know intuitively that this is a relationship that won't restrict your desire to experience life to the fullest and constantly broaden your horizons. In fact, you'll help each other to seek out those unique experiences. You won't subject your relationship to overly traditional expectations, either; you'll both be happy to let things follow their own course. You'll encourage independence and individualism in each other, so even if you do become a committed, long-term couple, you'll rarely restrict each other's personal freedom. But this influence also won't undermine your connection or its durability. In fact, it will help to strengthen your bond, because both of you will so appreciate being able to truly be yourselves, through and through. Creativity, discovery, inventiveness, adventure and new perspectives will be core values and interests that define your connection.
Jupiter square Pluto
You'll want to cooperate and support each other as each of you tries to reach your goals, become more self-aware and make your dreams come true; but if you aren't careful, you may get stuck in power struggles instead. Somehow, teamwork won't come naturally to you, even if normally you're both good at working with other people. If there are other more harmonizing influences in your composite chart that indicate amicability and working together, those will help, but it's possible that in this particular pairing, each of you will see your partner's successes as somehow a threat to your own -- as if only one of you can be the achiever at any given time. You'll both want to learn and grow and make progress, but you'll trip yourselves up if you're overly competitive. As things move forward in your relationship, achievement and success could take on too much focus, as if everything in your lives, or at least in your partnership, rides on these. The good news is, you can work on this; you can make a conscious effort not to be too ambitious or aggressive in chasing down your own goals, and you can both be sure to offer your partner they support they deserve.
Saturn: Hook, Line or Sinker?Saturn opposite Juno
Your mutual needs for partnership are completely opposite to your shared security needs, so building the kind of connection and commitment you're seeking will be a real struggle. Perhaps you're both looking for an emotionally attuned, mutually accepting partnership, for example, but you'll build your connection based on on a much more critical, exacting approach to commitment. You might never feel as if you're able to create the kind of partnership you want; similarly, you might feel as if your security needs aren't being met. Still, you might both feel obligated to stay in this relationship, even if you're mismatched in some important ways. Any sense of security you're able to derive from this connection will be bound up with responsibilities and other limitations. You're likely to find each other's careers or families to be an unwanted restriction on your own life and time; you might also feel your relationship itself limits your freedom. You'll need to work together at finding the middle ground between what type of partnership you want to create and what you need to feel secure within the relationship.
Uranus: Your Wild Side
Uranus unaspected
You're a unique couple: everyone agrees on that. But you might never be appreciated for the things that make you truly special, since you reserve these things for each other. Besides that, you don't really care what others think of you, which gives you a lot of independence and freedom to be who you want to be as a pair. You'll rebel in one form or another or take the cutting edge on every subject you discuss. It's your unusual perspective and point of view that brings you together and makes your union different from the rest of the world. You may vividly express your wild side or it may be completely invisible from the rest of your life. Mostly, you just want to be free.
Neptune: Rose Colored GlassesNeptune sextile Pluto
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
Pluto: Primal UrgesPluto unaspectedThere is an intensity about you as a couple, and a certain mystery and charisma, accompanied by an aura of quiet power. This pairing has an internal force, a hidden treasure, and untapped depths. These are important qualities, but with nothing else to restrain or contain them, so they could be either untapped or over-tapped in this relationship. This connection is all about personal transformation and regeneration, and these processes could be turned into something that you feel is beyond your control. It is up to you to direct this powerful energy to accomplish deeds that benefit others besides yourselves.
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