The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Relationship Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Sun in Scorpio
Your past relationships fall into two categories, Scorpio: the quick, passionate, short-term hookups, and the deep, intense, passionate, you're-mine-forever relationships. Romantic partnerships are a double-edged sword, are they not? On the one hand, you deeply crave that ultimate, intimate connection, the one where you recognize each other immediately and crash into love before a word is spoken. On the other hand, such a partnership requires you to reveal yourself, to be vulnerable, to admit that someone else has something over on you. The dilemma wrecks you.The temptation, once you've thrown out yet another lover with yesterday's trash, is to fold -- to throw in the towel on this whole concept of relationship. You're not the first Scorpio to toy with the idea of hermit-hood. It would be a lot easier, you admit to yourself. But, the things you'd miss! The flutter deep inside when you look into your lover's eyes; the rising passion, the exquisite release. For this, you're willing to put up with a lot. And when you find that ideal love, the one who can meet you halfway, who proves trustworthy with your innermost secrets, whose passion matches yours -- this love is beyond compare, and well worth the wait.
Mercury in Scorpio
You're a true mystery. No matter how close anyone tries to get to you, there's always something you hold back. Past partners could see it in your eyes and feel it in the way you held yourself when you talked, but they could never get it out of you. It's all part of the control you seek in relationships, the withholding of certain parts of yourself, even in the most intimate of situations. And you can't blame your exes for trying to draw you out, and then eventually giving up. After all, it's a brave and noble person who would keep trying to force emotional intimacy, even when you've made it clear that your thoughts and emotions are your own.The bitter truth is that if you truly want to gain the intimate relationship you seek, you're going to have to pony up with those deep, dark secrets. You might be surprised to find that the reaction isn't as shocked as you were sure it was going to be...which could be a bit of a disappointment. Gasp -- what if you find that you're just like everyone else? You think you're the only one holding such dreadful thoughts, but you're not. So don't get offended when the partner of your dreams responds with, 'Oh, is that all?' Learn to appreciate the fact that you're not alone. You don't always have to be such a mystery.
Venus in Scorpio
It's not hard to see why you've had problems in past relationships. Many have felt the pull of your charisma and animal attraction. Some lovers, you scare away with your intense gaze and fervent passion. Some are alarmed by your focused attention on them. Others like the intensity and passion, but can't handle your possessiveness or complex emotions. Only the bravest are willing to commit forever to you, though that's what you truly want in your heart of hearts. Will you get it? There's no reason why not. All you need is to find someone who can match your intensity, and who is willing to meet you halfway in the realms of commitment and desire. Won't they be the lucky one! For it is in these profound, we're-in-this-for-the-long-haul connections that your deepest passion truly blossoms. Together, you'll be determined to make it last, and will ignite the most potent thrills that either of you has ever known. This will be well worth the wait.
Mars in Scorpio
You're kind of scary sometimes. That look in your eye, your drive, your intensity and your determination have all frightened away more than one lover in your past. They found you a little too much to handle. Come to think of it, your anger issues might have played a part, too. Not that you're easy to anger; not at all. It takes a lot to piss you off, but once you're there, your rages are towering! It's hugely important that you express that anger, because keeping it all inside will make you sick in the long run. Besides, your posture suffers when you've got such a big chip on your shoulder. So, what about your love life? Your sex drive is so strong that you're usually not between relationships for long. In fact, you've probably found sex to be the perfect vehicle for your control issues; you withhold it when you're upset and insist on it when you're not. You offer extreme fidelity and insist on it in your partner. If you can overcome those control issues and come to view your relationship as a safe haven, it will provide a wonderful place to escape from the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune. And that's something we all need.
Jupiter in Leo
Alert and perceptive partners in your past soon figured out that the louder you boast, the smaller you feel. Ironic, isn't it? That you, with so much to offer, can feel so puny inside? Where does that come from? Like the old song, you can spell it out in one word: R-E-S-P-E-C-T. The more you give of yourself and the more you demand from others, the less you have to boast, because your work and ideas will stand up for themselves. The better your relationships will go, too, not surprisingly. The whole respect concept is the key to success in your professional and romantic lives.You have plenty of reason to feel confident. You're a natural leader and maintain a sunny, even disposition even when everything is not running as smoothly as you'd like. Your irrepressible optimism inspires others. You stand out in a crowd and receive approval from others almost without doing anything, simply by the strength of your natural personality. When you shine your gifts on a lover, they feel like a million dollars. And that's a priceless gift.
Saturn in Virgo
When your past lovers inquired if you'd been tested for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, that should have been a red flag for you. OK, maybe you're not obsessive-compulsive, or even a neat freak. But there's a perfectionist streak inside you that's a mile wide, and even the tidiest or hardest-working person might feel oppressed by your efforts to perform up to your own impossible standards. Fastidiousness, after all, is not a virtue unless you're in a hospital or science lab, and no one but you expects you to ace that test every single time. The standards you hold for yourself are in the stratosphere, yet you struggle incessantly to fulfill them -- and if you can't, you throw a temper tantrum and then give up completely. The people who know you best can only sit back and shake their heads at you.You're not given to flights of fancy, that's for sure, but you could still lighten up a little. Stop worrying that people will think you're not good enough, or productive enough, or diligent enough. You trump everyone in those departments. Have a little faith in yourself! Once this happens, it will be easier to see the admiring glances that are cast your way. You've many fine qualities to offer if you could just learn to let things go a little bit. The sky won't fall, Chicken Little.
Uranus in Scorpio
Have you noticed that it's all the rage now to be bisexual? The world has you and your generation to thank for that; you are opening doors on new ways of being, particularly in the sexual arena. Experiences and orientations that have been taboo since forever are coming up for review. You and your peers open these areas confidently, seeking to find out what's going on behind the closed doors. You let the full light fall on subjects that were previously off-limits. In fact, you accept no limits on your sexuality; it's obvious to you that everyone should be free to love whom they want, when they want and how they want. This new way of viewing sexuality is only part of what your generation is called upon to open up; the human psyche is no less a target for your revolutionary ways. Your job is to shine the light on all areas that have been taboo up until now. The effects of the changes started by you and your peers will be long-lasting, indeed.
Neptune in Sagittarius
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
Pluto in Libra
You and your peers will revolutionize the arena of relationships and romances. As a child, you watched partnerships crumble all around you, if not your own parents', then the relationships of your friends' parents; and you decided early on that you wouldn't repeat the same pattern. You take relationships very, very seriously, and for this reason may wait to start dating or getting serious about anyone. You're not in any hurry, which provides you with enough time to understand yourself and your relationship needs. Don't delay too long, though! Fear of relationship can be just as harmful as hooking up too early. Your challenge will be in finding the right balance of independence and partnership, and in knowing how much of your personal energy to expend toward each.
Sun square Jupiter
It's lucky for you that you can laugh at yourself. That's a handy quality to have when you find yourself in those inevitable relational difficulties, which often take you completely by surprise. After all, you're generous to a fault, stately, wise and larger than life. It's hard to believe such a wonderful person could ever have problems with partners! You can't see that you appear just a bit egotistic, or that there seems to be an ulterior motive as you charm your way into getting what you want. At other times, you work at cross purposes with yourself. Fate throws obstacles in your way, and you make choices that create chaos and friction. Your exuberance overcomes good sense and commandeers everyone's attention. You get annoyed too easily, impatient with anyone who doesn't see it your way. You can be self-centered, overconfident and so driven to meet the goals you've set that you lose sight of the big picture. And you know what? That big picture is important, because it helps you keep your perspective clear and your priorities straight. Experiences teach you to enjoy others as much as you enjoy yourself.
Saturn square NeptuneRomantic success seemed tantalizingly close so many times, yet always eluded you. Were you looking at things as they really were, or as you wished they were? There was something insubstantial in your pairings, something secret or unexpressed lurking right beneath the surface. Did you or your partner have issues from the past that were never admitted to or worked through? Was one of you up to something secretive and unhealthy? Whatever the issues, they caused problems between you, problems you can't understand without owning up to exactly what went wrong. You thought you knew your partner, but you were wrong.Moving forward, take the time to get to know the next person you date. Talk about your feelings. What are each of you looking for in your relationship? What is it you need that you're not getting? And, most painfully, what parts of you do you fear are unlovable? It could turn out that your fears and anxieties are not grounded in reality. And in any case, you must let the real you be known if you are to be loved and accepted. Let your true self be seen. Do not fear that when you open up you'll be rejected. You have much love to give, and your ideal lover will have tender regard for you; letting that love in to your private, bruised parts will start a glorious healing process.
No Oppositions
You're pretty secure in your own viewpoint. You're not the wishy-washy type, and if you are, you're absolutely dedicated to each particular opinion -- even if you completely change your mind five minutes later. In short, you've got the courage of conviction, but in your past relationships, this often looked to your partners like smugness, or even emotional neglect. Even when you felt certain that you understood them and their feelings, they were still upset that you just didn't get where they were coming from. If they were the patient, communicative type, they might have kept trying for a while before giving up on you. If they were the short-fused type, they probably left in a huff the first time you gave them that blank look that meant, 'What's the problem, babe?' Sympathy and empathy are essential to a functional intimate relationship. You and your lover are two completely different people, and while you'll each experience life from your own unique perspective, you still need to be able to translate your experiences to each other, and you both need to feel respected and understood. In future relationships, you'll have to work on listening to your partner when they describe their feelings or how they view a particular situation. Even if what they describe sounds utterly foreign -- and therefore negligible -- to you, take them seriously anyway. You may even need to remind yourself on a regular basis that their feelings and perspective are every bit as valid as your own.
No Quincunxes
You've never been much for compromise, have you? In past relationships, when issues came up between you and your lover, you used whatever tools you had -- sweetly cajoling, arguing, turning a cold shoulder -- to get your own way. But why was having your own way so important? After all, other people have feelings, needs and agendas, too, just like yours. Who decides which person's need is the most important one in any given moment? That's a perennial question for all relationships, and except in the one between an infant and its caretaker, the answer isn't as simple as 'I decide, and my needs always come first.' Relationships, after all, should be about give and take. Sometimes you get your way; sometimes your lover does. Insisting on always getting your way not only makes you look uncomfortably similar to that aforementioned infant, it could actually lead to loneliness. After all, if it's a choice between getting your way or bailing out of the relationship, well, you'll end up either with a partner who's a pushover or sleeping alone. If you want a well-functioning, long-term relationship, you'll have to learn to choose your battles. The art of compromise is the perfect place to start your lessons, because if you give your lover a little, they'll probably want to give back a lot. You'll feel a lot better once you learn to step back and let someone else take reins from time to time.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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