The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Relationship Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Sun in Aquarius
Don't you love that old saying about Aquarians? 'They love humanity, it's people they can't stand!' You're awfully smart and have little patience for anyone not up to your intellectual standards. You dismiss them with a wave of your hand and a cutting but very funny insult. They creep away to lick their wounds while you enjoy your own humor and new sense of freedom. That is, until you've worked your way through all your friends, acquaintances and blind dates. It's not much fun when there's no one left to make fun of.If you want lovers to stick around, you're going to have to get over this notion that you're better because you're smarter. Intelligence isn't everything, Aquarius. The new buzzword is not IQ but EQ -- Emotional Quotient. Driving away partner after partner doesn't earn you a very high score on this scale. Improving the nature of your relationships and attracting your ideal partner will require a little more tolerance on your part, and you'll have to rein in that desire to mock them. Turn that humor on yourself, and everyone will feel a lot better.
Mercury in Capricorn
Corporate structure? Chains of command? You grasp these concepts all too well. Trouble is, you've tried to import them into your relationships, and as you now realize, it hasn't been a very successful strategy. As a matter of fact, it's been a disaster! Past lovers have tried to complain about your need to always be right, and you stared at them blankly, uncomprehending. Or worse yet, when they tried to explain their feelings, you rolled your eyes at their emotional display. And when they huffed off, you were left holding the empty bag of your relationship. Hmm, who's in charge now?There's a better way. Buried under your hardworking intellect is a warm heart to which you give precious little expression. From time to time it's a good idea to lock the analytical mind off into a closet somewhere and hide the key. Give your softer side a chance to come out. Take a stab at telling someone close how you feel. It will seem like a foreign language at first, but one that your partner readily understands, and delights in.
Venus in Pisces
No one needed to teach you that the best escape from real life was love. Or what you call love, anyway: the intense fantasies, the constant daydreaming, the spinning mental wheel of romantic illusions. Your faraway gaze could only leave others guessing. And when you had an actual lover, it was even worse! Oh, the endless hours spent cuddling, gazing into your beloved's eyes, or walking slowly, hand-in-hand, along the beach. How disappointed you were when real life intruded! But you've learned somewhere along the line that often, the fantasy of love is better than the reality. Other people can disappoint you when they don't live up to your starry-eyed ideals. They jilt you for work. They just can't see all the wonderful possibilities that every relationship entails. Realists! You'd be most pleased with a lover rather like yourself: someone sensual, peace-loving and sentimental. You long for a tender, intuitive connection. Go on, indulge your fantasies a little more. Real life will be waiting for you when you wake up.
Mars in Aries
You're one hot tamale. Or maybe more like a roman candle, which sparks and sizzles and glows until it suddenly goes out. When you've got your eye on someone you're virtually unstoppable. You'll pursue, chase, follow. You're bold enough to ask someone for a date who's way out of your league, and you don't get discouraged when they slap you upside the head. If you get knocked down, you get up again, brush yourself off and get right back on that horse.How does all this affect your love life? For better and for worse, as it turns out. For better because, well, bold is beautiful. Your very directness often gets you what you want, because such chutzpah is hard to resist. For worse, because you've blown plenty of people right out of the water with your head-on approach. Not only did you sizzle, you burned. Not everyone is wired to handle that kind of passion! The good thing about you is, you don't let that affect your game. Carry on undaunted till you find the perfect match for your fiery passion.
Jupiter in Sagittarius
Don't you think you're just a bit over the top? If your answer is 'no,' why don't you ask your coworkers and anyone else who often shares your space? They may have a different answer! The next step is to ask yourself, 'How might this have affected my relationships?' The truthful answer (and you, of all people, love getting down to the truth) is that your past lovers got tired of you telling the same jokes in that loud voice of yours at every party you ever went to. They grew weary of your jovial habit of talking to everyone, everywhere. They didn't see the point of taking the 'scenic route' even when you were very late for an appointment (and even now you're probably exclaiming, 'Me? Late? Surely you jest!').Clearly you need a partner who is tolerant of your little foibles, someone who is just as unorthodox as you are and who truly enjoys your humor and sense of adventure. Perhaps they will come from a different country, or from an entirely different background. If you give each other enough freedom, you'll both feel happy, and they can simply excuse themselves from the room when you start telling that joke again.
Saturn in Taurus
You are so sure that there won't be enough (love, money, fill in the blank with anything you value) that you cling tenaciously to what little you do have and refuse to let it go. Funny thing is, both love and money like to flow, so when you've got a death grip on them, instead of flowering for you, they wither, and eventually the very thing you valued so much has evaporated from your life. And you ask yourself wonderingly, 'How on earth did that happen?'Your relationships? Well, since you're so anxious about losing the love you have, however imperfect, you tend to stay in relationships long after they're over, simply out of habit, fear of moving on and a misplaced sense of loyalty. Besides that, if you got out of your current relationship, you'd need to get off your butt and find another one, and you don't particularly care for new things. You prefer the tried and true, the known and familiar, the comfort of established routine. New relationships mean compromise, adaptation, establishing new patterns, and you're not so good at that. So you carry on carrying on, ad nauseum. The solution? Loosen your death grip, and resources of all types will move through your life again, with little effort on your part.
Uranus in Libra
You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents. You may decline to participate in long-term relationships altogether, or you may completely rewrite the rules of marriage, factoring in the need for freedom within a relationship. Open marriages, having multiple partners at a time or having different partners for different personal needs are all ways of revolutionizing the world of partnership and romance. Your own relationship history will reflect the changes in the world around you. You and those born around the same time as you will leave a mark on the world that will last for many decades.
Neptune in Sagittarius
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
Pluto in Libra
You and your peers will revolutionize the arena of relationships and romances. As a child, you watched partnerships crumble all around you, if not your own parents', then the relationships of your friends' parents; and you decided early on that you wouldn't repeat the same pattern. You take relationships very, very seriously, and for this reason may wait to start dating or getting serious about anyone. You're not in any hurry, which provides you with enough time to understand yourself and your relationship needs. Don't delay too long, though! Fear of relationship can be just as harmful as hooking up too early. Your challenge will be in finding the right balance of independence and partnership, and in knowing how much of your personal energy to expend toward each.
Mercury square Mars
You have a basic relationship problem: You're a hothead. Easy to insult and quick to criticize, you get in fights over the silliest things, and pursue each battle to the death. These problems are at the very root of the failure of your past pairings. Though you make connections that are passionate and intense, they're also inclined to tumult, since you tend to view any difference of opinion as a threat to your ego. Not only that, but you also find yourself cursed with a curious compulsion to talk incessantly, or to blurt out the most inappropriate things, or a habit of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. You're going to have to work on your communication skills if you want future romances to be more successful. You'll never meld together smoothly with others if you don't put some time in. Schedule regular time to sit down calmly with a disinterested third party and work out your issues. If you feel yourself moving toward a rager, resolve to table the issue until your next session instead. If you can get a little distance, gain a little perspective, you can learn to appreciate what others have to give, and how to avoid alienating them.
Jupiter square Pluto
Hey, jealous lover! It can't be helped that you've chosen such intense and difficult partners, but did you have to reveal your insecurities so nakedly? You should have had a little pride -- no one likes to be begged. Particularly not your button-pushing significant others, who enjoyed your predicaments just a little too much. You were over a barrel, wondering where they were every second you weren't together. What's worse, you then went searching for clues. Emails, phone calls, notes in pants pockets... Shame on you. You let your emotions get the better of you, and it was not a pretty picture. Time to pick yourself up and dust yourself off.The problem lies in the lovers you've picked. Your partners were sexy and compelling, magnetic and irresistible. But there were a lot of negatives along for the ride as well. You're a strong soul, but you'll never be the one in complete power. So it's time to muster your inner confidence, and vow neither to control nor to be controlled. Be your own person instead. Make your own choices. Follow your own path. Your ideal sweetie will come around once it's clear that you're no mere worm to be trod upon -- and won't being wooed feel great for a change?
Mars opposite Uranus
Your lovers always said you were paranoid. You were imagining things. You were irrational, crazy, overreacting. But when the plain truth came out, everything you feared was actually true. Your lovers weren't as trustworthy as you thought. Clandestine flirtations, or worse, outright infidelities, occurred right under your nose. You knew it in your heart, but tried to deny it, and the result was a war between your heart and mind that had you quite perplexed and upset. But, is it possible you set this up right from the very start? You got involved too quickly, and you certainly got physical without thinking first. Frequently you'd get into a situation where you and your lover were quibbling nonstop, both of you unwilling to compromise and cooperate. The answer lies within you. The lovers you choose might never be those cozy, sit-by-the-fire-and-purr types. You may never get a calm, content connection. But who wants calm when you can have fire and excitement? Embrace the tumult. Let go of your desires to control. And you just may find that the excitement of your ideal love relationship is enough to tide you over during the rough times.
Saturn opposite Neptune
Misunderstandings cropped up frequently between you and past lovers, didn't they? It seemed as if you always ended up bewildered, apologizing for something when you didn't even know what you did wrong. Meanwhile, your lover pouted and sulked, wrapped in suspicion. Much of the problem was in the fact that you didn't communicate very well. You were distanced from your emotions, burying yourself in work and your goals instead. And your lover imagined the worst of you, making up scenarios and then treating you as if you had erred somehow, or as if you'd made promises that you wouldn't keep.You are simply going to have to learn how to see eye-to-eye with someone else, and you won't do it by ignoring your problems. Gather your courage and start talking. Reveal your feelings. It's uncomfortable for you, but you must begin, since your partners tend to invent information to fill the gaps you leave. Though you don't know it, your ideal partner's feelings and desires are much the same as yours and a comfortable familiarity will fill your lives once you break through your block. Go for it -- warmth is a lot more fun than ice.
Venus quincunx Uranus
You're one who likes to handle your affairs with a light, sure touch. Others may swoon or weep in your wake, but you're the one on top, confident, smiling. That is, when you're not with a lover who flips your switch but good. Much as you hate to admit it, you keep getting lovers who do not return your amorous intentions. You were intensely drawn to these types right from the start. You ignored your good sense and went too far, too fast. Sometimes you felt helpless in the grip of a towering passion. Yet your lover wasn't similarly enthralled. Did you suspect infidelity? Did strangers call your house and hang up when you answered? Was your lover absent for unusual lengths of time?You fear all is lost in love, but this is not so. However, if you wish to hook up with a new and improved lover, you're going to have to work harder than you ever have before. You will not be able to make your ideal partner dance to your tune; instead, you will have to learn how to play it cool and not reveal how affected you are by them. Find a bird who will not sing in your cage -- and let it fly free. It will surely come back to you.
Jupiter quincunx Saturn
You stumbled into the family den of relationships: Your previous partners were solid, dependable, salt-of-the-earth types, and probably not a whole lot of fun. The problem was in your mismatched aims. Though you're ambitious in your own way, driven to travel, study and communicate with others, you didn't have the same 9-to-5 mentality that your sweeties did. You bagged yourself some hard workers, and while that's great for mundane stuff like paying the bills, it didn't leave a whole lot of room to throw everything up in the air and trot off to Paris for the weekend. You craved more excitement. You wanted more fun. You complained to your friends that your lovers were so sweet, but such a drag.But there were sides to the situation you forgot to consider. What you had was stable and real, something that could have lasted -- and you can find this again. You want the type of relationship that can be a wonderful foundation to build a family upon. Whoever said one person should meet all of your needs? Keep your fun friends and look for another serious sweetie; there are many facets to you, and your ideal lover will help you polish one of the most important ones.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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