Romantic Personality Profile

Sun in Leo

A loyal, warmhearted lover

You are a born leader, because you've got warmth and charisma to burn and you draw people to you like moths to flame. That certainly goes for lovers, as well; you're a passionate soul, and the people around you can read that from a mile away! A love affair for you is by definition a dramatic affair (as is everything else in life!) -- complete with sweeping emotions and declarations of devotion, preferably against a gorgeous, romantic backdrop of flowers, candlelight, perhaps the moon shining on rippling water... That's right, you're a true romantic, and you've got a well-developed imagination when it comes to setting the scene for amour. And when you're in love, you'll do anything for your sweetie, sparing no expense -- as long as they treat you with the respect and love that you so deserve. But as soon as things start feeling a little off-kilter, meaning you're not as much the center of things as you'd prefer, you can get your feelings hurt pretty mightily. Well, you feel everything passionately, don't you? And your pride and your sense of self are easily wounded. Yes, there's a big of ego there...but there's also a huge heart full of love and sky-high intentions.

Sun conjunct Mars

Driven energy

You don't have to worry that you won't make an impression on that special someone -- you've got a presence that's hard to ignore! Your natural energy and courage are a combined force that drives you in all your actions. Translation: You see what you want, and you go after it. In the game of love, this can work both for you and against you. The people who will be attracted to you are people who love to be the object of pursuit -- who are excited and turned on by the kind of energy you possess, by the way you single-mindedly go after your desires. That approach to life can certainly create a heady kind of energy! But you're also naturally competitive, which means that you don't back down easily when things aren't going your way. If you're competing for that special someone's attentions purely for the sake of beating out the competition, what happens when you succeed? There you'll be, involved with someone you don't even necessarily care about all that much. Make sure that when you pursue someone romantically, you do so for the right reasons. If they resist your advances, it's best to back down gracefully.

Sun square Juno

Learning to make love last

You want true love and a relationship that will last, but you keep getting in your own way of letting that happen. One minute you're involved with someone special and dreaming of the long term, and the next you're feeling restless and pressured, as if the relationship is cramping your personal style, hindering your ability to be yourself and go where you want to go in life. Who knows? Maybe it really is, but if so, it's likely because you're subconsciously attracted to relationships that will present a challenge to your personality and your goals at a basic level. Since shorter or less committed relationships work out fine for you, you may decide that's all you can handle, and go through a string of those before you finally start to realize that your love life isn't as fulfilling as you want it to be. Don't delude yourself into thinking you're just not 'the marrying kind'; if you want love and intimacy and partnership, you are. Your challenge in life is to figure out how to make a long-term relationship work. How can you get past the feeling that your independence is challenged by intimacy with a lover? Remember, for one thing, that practice makes perfect.

Sun sextile Uranus

The maverick within

You excite everyone around you with your natural joie de vivre, your enthusiasm for life. Each new day feels like a really fun promise, full of possibilities that you're eager to discover! This makes you a fun partner in a romantic relationship, because your mind is always wide-open to new experiences. You've got a taste for the unusual, too, which attracts you to oddball types --people who say interesting and unexpected things, or who keep you on your toes by tacitly refusing to let the relationship verge into stable territory (yawn). You work best with a lover who enjoys your numerous strong opinions about every possible facet of life. Your mind is constantly turning, perceiving new things and coming up with new theories, and you need a lover who can keep up with you on a mental level! Furthermore, your best and longest-lasting romantic relationships will be with people who adore and encourage the maverick within you. If you were forced into a traditional relationship with someone who ignored all your best theories and resisted your relentless philosophizing, you'd be miserable. Good thing you're not likely to let that happen!

Mercury in Virgo

Sharp as a paring knife

Your mind is as sharp and practical as a paring knife, and just as good at slicing away the layers with precision to get to the heart of the matter. You have little patience for people who think less precisely than you do, which can be a problem in relationships. In an argument with your sweetie, for example, you see everything -- the details of your side of things and theirs and the most practical and efficient route to a resolution. Understandably, your attitude is that your sweetie should just listen to you, because you know what you're talking about. And it's true: You don't miss much. But in a heated discussion with your honey, logic may not be as important as emotion. In acting as if your practical, detailed view of things is the most important viewpoint in the equation, you're invalidating your sweetie's feelings, which will only perpetuate the problem in the long run. Try to accept that not everyone thinks the way that you do; not everyone has a mind like a steel trap! And in arguments with your lover, keep it to the present. You're great at remembering every little thing they said in past arguments, but they might not like having their words used against them in this way.

Mercury trine Juno

Building intimacy through sharing

Every couple argues from time to time, but you bring a real gift of communication to your relationships that helps you and your sweetie resolve your misunderstandings faster. You're very communicative with someone that you love; you rely on that bond, and nurture it. You probably wouldn't stay long in a relationship that wasn't founded on good communication, because you wouldn't be able to stand it! You're not good at sitting on your feelings for long, either your positive ones or your negative ones. You want to share everything with your lover, and you want them to open up to you as well. A great first date for you will include lots and lots of conversation, and as the relationship deepens, you'll build trust by talking things out -- listening, supporting, offering advice and encouragement, and asking for all the same things from your honey. Even the more simple, passive forms of communication add to your sense of intimacy, like watching a movie together and laughing or crying at the same scenes. You like to feel mentally and emotionally on a par with your lover, and you like to feel as if they're open to talking to you about whatever, whenever.

Mercury sextile Jupiter

A good dinner date

Communication is one of your greatest strengths. You know how to talk to strangers as well as the people you know and love best, which makes those awkward first dates at least a little less tense! A mental connection with a potential sweetie is something of a prerequisite of yours when it comes to romance, but you're not one to talk down to someone or ridicule them if you think they're not as smart or well-informed as you are. And, hey -- being as well-informed as you are is a tall order! You're highly philosophical, and you back your ideas up with learning. You're constantly pushing outward with your mind and taking in anything and everything that you can. You may be attracted to people from another culture or who speak a different language than you, because those barriers are more interesting than inhibitive to you. You have less trouble than most in communicating with someone about subjects that are completely unfamiliar to you. Your future sweetie will really appreciate this quality of yours, because you have a rare and unique ability to make another person feel not only heard, but understood.

Mercury square Neptune

In love with a dream

Staying focused on reality -- the reality, that is, that's commonly accepted by the rest of the world -- can be difficult for you. You tend to be more interested in your own imaginings than in what's actually going on around you. You like to create dramas in your head and play them out in real life, with your friends, coworkers or whoever might be around as the unsuspecting star players. In romance, this can make things both more fun and more difficult. On the one hand, romance itself is like a dream, and there's nothing wrong with playing up the fanciful factor of falling in love with some self-created dreamy romance -- especially if you invite your sweetie in on the game. But when it gets into the realm of deceiving yourself as to the actual state of your relationship or your love life, that's when the trouble begins. And sometimes, you might even decide to mislead your honey. A little sense of mystery is fine, but actual deception should definitely be avoided. The truth almost always comes out at some point, and true intimacy is about honesty, not deception -- no matter how benign you might think your little games are.

Venus in Virgo

A discriminating lover

In love, you've got very high standards. You know just what you want, even if you're not exactly sure how to get it; and to be sure, your road toward true love could be something of a long one. You need to be courted slowly and carefully, because you don't respond well to the fast, wham-bam approach. After all, you strive for perfection in yourself as a partner, and you want the same from your lover. When you're committed to someone, you give them your all, and you want that in return. But not everyone is like you. If they're a little less discriminating, it doesn't mean that their love is any less true. But for you, loving someone is all about being in their service -- which can include a healthy dose of criticism and nagging! You consider it your job to worry about the people you love, and to help them lead the best, most refined and high-quality life that they can lead. So, sure, that means you'll nag them a little, if you find them being sloppy around the house or in their pursuit of their career or academic goals. You only do it because you love them, and you want them to be the best person and partner that they can be -- the very same expectations that you put upon yourself.

Venus conjunct Pluto

Seeking that universal truth

You experience the heights and the depths of love and passion, and as intense as it gets -- which can include intensely uncomfortable or even heartbreaking -- you love it all. For you, love is a transformative experience. Through connecting with another soul, your own soul is changed; love brings you closer to that universal truth that you've been striving to grasp for as long as you can remember. Sex is also an incredible rush for you; you have a hard time being cavalier about physical intimacy, because it's too important to you to treat it casually. Even your flings take on significance in your life, because everything you experience in love contains a lesson for you, or opens up some new, previously undiscovered realm of human experience. Because you take love and sex so seriously and experience them so intensely, you make both the physical and the emotional experience equally intense and compelling for your sweetie. They find you as compelling as you find them. Obsession, in fact, can be a problem for you; you tend to fixate on the object of your desires, and it's hard for you to give them the space that they might require.

Venus trine Saturn

Quiet devotion

You express your affections for your sweetie in a quiet way, but a way that is real and devoted. When you're in love, you'll do anything for your honey. You're tremendously devoted to your loved ones in general, friends, family and romantic partners alike. It may take you awhile to get to the point where you really trust someone enough to open up to them romantically, but once you do, you'll put everything you have into the relationship. Now, that being said, you're not one to go overboard in love; you'll commit yourself completely to a lover, but you wouldn't go down with a sinking ship. You know enough to leave a relationship that isn't working out, even if it breaks your heart. But you don't tend to be attracted to unstable people in the first place, so if you get to the point of commitment with someone, it has a great chance of working out long-term. You serve as the rock in your love affairs -- the stable, loyal rock that your lover comes to for strength and comfort. You're grounded and you help to ground your sweetie. You treat them well, with sensitivity and respect, and you expect the same kind of treatment in return.

Venus sextile Neptune

Adjusting to their needs

You make a really sweet, accepting and forgiving partner in love. You tend to look for the good in people instead of focusing on their flaws. Sometimes you can mislead yourself as to the reality of a love affair, but in general, your emphasis on the positive is a benefit to your life and your relationships. You make your honey feel comfortable and relaxed; you really let them know that they don't have to pretend to be perfect. They know you'll still love them even if they're flawed -- which they are, of course, since everyone is. You're very sympathetic to their insecurities and other issues, and your compassion puts them at ease. You're also very creative, and you have a wonderful way of incorporating fantasy and romance into your love life. Candles and flowers enhance the romantic mood for you, as do murmured sweet nothings and soft caresses shared with your sweetie. There is a word of caution in order, however: Make sure that your honey deserves the TLC you heap all over them. You have no problem with adjusting to make room for someone else in your life, so just be sure that you're not letting yourself get walked all over.

Mars in Leo

Taking the lead

You're a dramatic and passionate lover. You like to set the tone in the bedroom, and that tone is always hot, hot, hot! You're something of a dominant lover, but you're also incredibly generous and demonstrative. You'll cherish your sweetie for hours, as long as they give you your well-deserved props. You work really well with a somewhat naive or submissive lover, because you just adore taking the lead and showing them how it should be done. And boy, do you know how it should be done! You're passionate and yet gentle; you're ardent and yet you take your time, lingering over each sweet moment. You're very much into setting and sensual pleasures, and you like to take the time to make sure everything is in its place: the sheets are clean and sweet-smelling, the candles are lit, the music is softly playing... You're into pampering your sweetheart, and you won't say no to a little pampering yourself. Your sensuality is vital and warm, and you make a wonderful partner in the bedroom. Even a shy or insecure lover feels safe and adored under your ministrations. And when they sigh in satisfaction, this makes you feel fulfilled!

Mars square Juno

You think it's easier to be alone

Independence is of extreme importance to you, and you might even pride yourself on your ability to be alone. You may prefer not to be in steady relationships, because you think of them as restrictive, more trouble than they're worth, and you need your freedom. You might think that you can get everything you need out of a love affair with no strings attached -- a passionate sexual connection, occasional companionship and excitement; the rest, you believe you can provide for yourself. But if you think this way, there's a whole world that you're missing out on. Love and stability don't have to be restrictive, but it's difficult for you to experience them as comfortable, much less freeing. You might be attracted to strength, but you tend to get involved either with rigid, controlling types who react badly to your own controlling behavior, or with pushover types who let you bully them. Perhaps you've been bullied in the past, and you refuse to let that ever happen again; but whatever the reason, when you're involved with someone in a stable relationship, you start to feel itchy and react by lashing out, provoking arguments and so on. Love is rarely a smooth, comfortable experience for you.

Mars sextile Uranus

Fast on your feet

You're fast on your feet, impulsive and generally exciting to be around. Your looks and the way that you carry yourself make a real impression on other people, because you've got a certain energy that's magnetic. Physically, you're strong and graceful; these qualities might make you a good dancer or athlete, or good at something else that works up a sweat as you execute all your best moves (hint, hint)! You're definitely an exciting contender in the game of love. Your passions run strong and you're a true original in all your tastes and desires. In love, you keep your honey on their toes with all your new and different ideas for dates, lovemaking and more. You're open to their ideas and urges, too; you've got a definite taste for adventure, and you're not one to back down from a dare. That makes you a fun, spontaneous lover, but also somewhat restless. When things become stale in your love life, you know how to spice it up -- or how to call things off. You're great at handling anything that comes up except boredom; if a relationship is restrictive or passionless for too long, you're not one to stick around, twiddling your thumbs while you wait for things to change.

Jupiter in Libra

Harmony over truth

Your romantic past may be quite long indeed, because you really don't like to be alone. You're happiest in a romantic relationship, and even more than that, you're always working at getting it just right. You have some very high ideals when it comes to love affairs; you want harmony, affection and tenderness in spades, and you'll do what it takes to create this atmosphere with your sweetie. You're a born diplomat, and you bring this skill to your personal partnerships as well as your relationships with colleagues, clients and others. But your tendency is to be conciliatory when sometimes you should really put your foot down and fight for what you believe in. But this is hard for you to do, because you really abhor conflict -- even over an important and worthy issue. You might back down in an argument with your sweetie in order to keep the peace, or always let them choose the movie you see or where to go to dinner just to give them a sense of control. As you can see, this can go overboard sometimes, especially if you're involved with someone who's difficult or domineering. You have to learn to stand up for yourself, at least on the important issues that arise.

Saturn in Taurus

Commitment is your middle name

When it comes to love, you're either serious about it or you're not in the game. Casual affairs don't come naturally to you; you're much more about steady affection and quiet, rock-solid commitment. In relationships, you serve as that rock -- you provide support for your sweetie, sometimes financial, other times just emotional. You really want them to know that you're there for them no matter what happens. And that's both your strength in love and your occasional downfall, because your natural urge to commit, to stick grimly with it through thick and thin, can mean that you stay in a relationship long past when you should have just cut and run. Furthermore, while you're so steady and committed in your heart, you often forget to reassure your sweetie of that fact, or to back it up with simple affection. For you, love is a serious matter, not a playful one -- and because of this, you could inadvertently starve your honey of the adoration that they crave. You also open yourself up to heartbreak by being so serious about things. Not everyone has the steadfastness that you do, so choose carefully when you're seeking a long-term lover.

Saturn trine Pluto

Exposing the roots

Your love affairs can be quite intense, because you love to find the roots of problems in relationships and expose them to the healing light. While other people might like keeping their skeletons comfortably in the closet (or uncomfortably, as the case may be), you don't want to live under the weight of old wounds. And you don't want to watch your loved ones do it, either. If you get involved with someone who's made a lifestyle out of avoiding some painful issue from their past, you'll be on top of the problem as soon as the relationship starts to deepen -- and maybe even before that happens. Be forewarned: Lots of people won't like this. They sweep their problems under the rug for a reason. So don't be surprised if you scare off a lover by digging a little too persistently at the source of their issues -- their relationship with their parents, their experience growing up in an emotionally cold household, their feelings about losing their grandmother at an early age, or any other old wounds you might unearth. Tread lightly with other people! Help them along their path, but gently. Turn that healing intensity inward, and you'll make huge strides in your own enlightenment.

Saturn opposite Neptune

Finding the middle ground

You've had your share of trouble in love, because you always seem to fall for pretty promises and empty fantasies. It's wonderful to be a romantic, but creating security and happiness in your love affairs will mean balancing out your romantic ideals with a dose of realism -- and not pessimism that masquerades as realism, either. You tend to swing between idealism and pessimism, including disillusionment, suspicion, fear of abandonment and a whole host of other not-fun feelings that aren't fun or stable for you or your partner. The good news is, there's a middle ground between being glowingly in love, believing you're headed into the sunset with your soul mate, and being utterly disillusioned by love, unable to believe a word that comes out of your sweetie's mouth. The bad news is, where that middle ground lies is for you to figure out on your own, and not without some trouble. It will mean trying to hold on to those fantasies and ideals while still keeping at least one foot firmly on the ground, and it will mean accepting some flaws and shortcomings in your lover -- not an easy thing to do when you have such high ideals.

Uranus in Libra

Commitment and independence

You can have a hard time with committed relationships. In your heart, you're singing, 'I just gotta be free' even as you're professing your love to your sweetheart. Now, your love is true; it's just the commitment thing that alarms you, and makes you want to run in the opposite direction. You're quite independent, and you might feel, deep down in your soul, that no one could ever understand or accept this about you. Finding that long-term relationship in which you can be comfortable might just be a matter of giving that special someone a chance, because freedom within a relationship probably isn't as difficult to attain as you might think. But knowing that logically is different from believing it down in your soul, so you may find yourself faced with the prospect of a committed relationship with a wonderful person that you love...and instead of feeling happy at the prospect, you're breaking out in hives at the idea that your freedom is about to be cut off like the split ends in your hair. Your best bet? Talk openly with your sweetie about your concerns. You'll probably find that they're a lot more amenable to your freedom and independence than you think they'll be.

Neptune in Scorpio

Seeking the light

You feel things at a powerfully intense level -- your physical desires as well as your emotional or internal ones -- and you should make sure that you don't get too in touch with the dark side of love and your own psyche. You're drawn to darkness, after all, to an extent. You see the difficult parts of love, such as possessiveness, jealousy and manipulative behavior, as avenues toward learning and enlightenment, and you're right. If you travel through the darkness, you'll come out on the other side in the light...eventually. But sometimes it's easy to get stuck in the darkness. If you find yourself in an obsessive relationship that exhibits any of the above themes of darkness, you may have a really hard time ever bringing things out into the light, because you're so drawn to that sort of intensity. De-intensifying a relationship can be difficult, if not impossible! A lover with whom you shared this depth of intensity would probably be very sexually compelling, as well, because it's easy to merge sex with emotions and possessiveness and all the rest of it -- and that blend can be utterly compelling. So do yourself a favor and keep things a bit on the lighter side of life!

Neptune sextile Pluto

The transcendent experience of love

While you may get involved in a few flings, you're more able than some to transcend your bodily needs for a higher ideal. Sex just for its own sake may not hold a lot of appeal for you unless other aspects indicate it; you'd much rather connect on a physical level with someone with whom you're emotionally bonded with, because that way, the experience is so much more transcendent and important. Sex without love is basically empty, but sex can be an important growth experience when paired up with true intimacy and emotional attachment. You've always understood that, so you tend to look for relationships that really mean something to you rather than pursuing someone who just appeals to you on a physical level. Love, also, is a spiritual experience for you, one that helps you grow hugely as a human being. If you look back over your life, you'll find that your romantic affairs corresponded with periods of intense personal growth and transformation, and it will always be this way for you. So when you're getting involved with someone new, use this truth about yourself as a barometer for whether the relationship is worth pursuing. If there's more there than simple attraction, it probably is.

Pluto in Virgo

Go easy on yourself

You're quite strict with yourself when it comes to physical and mental health -- or, if you're not, deep down you wish that you were. You firmly believe in self-analysis and you hold your mind and body to strict standards of functionality. In a love affair, you can't stand it when your lover fails to exercise on a regular basis, eats too much fast food or isn't as hygienic as you'd like. These things turn you off in a big way, because they represent something that you abhor: general slothfulness and the gradual decline of the body and mind. You know that these can be avoided with constant and rigorous upkeep, but do remember that not everyone has your discipline -- including, perhaps, you. You might hold everyone to strict standards but fail to live up to them yourself. Don't be so hard on everyone all the time! Let your lover be the person they are, whatever that may be; and give yourself a break from time to time, too. It's okay to skip a workout, indulge in a high-calorie treat from time to time, or lie around in front of the TV every now and again. And if you stop subjecting your every emotional response to intense scrutiny, you can actually build the authenticity of your emotions.

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