Romantic Personality Profile

Sun in Libra

A true romantic

You are all about partnerships, and a love affair is your favorite kind! You love to be safely in a union, and you're a romantic through and through. Hearts and flowers get you every time; throw in a little candlelight, soft music and murmured words of devotion, and you're a goner. You have refined tastes, however, so if your lover can get creative -- and maybe just a little bit expensive! -- they'll reel you in that much more thoroughly. You have a truly soft heart, so much so that you can't stand conflict. In fact, you would rather just let them make most of the decisions in the relationship than take a firm stance on anything that might cause discord in the relationship. Though this means your own wants and needs get trampled from time to time, it does make you a very cooperative and agreeable lover. You're definitely built for commitment -- so much so that you might move from one to the next, if the relationship doesn't work out. It's not that you have grass-is-greener syndrome; you love harmony and will do what you can to maintain it. But you're most comfortable in a relationship, and will move on to a new one if the current one isn't happening.

Sun square Juno

Learning to make love last

You want true love and a relationship that will last, but you keep getting in your own way of letting that happen. One minute you're involved with someone special and dreaming of the long term, and the next you're feeling restless and pressured, as if the relationship is cramping your personal style, hindering your ability to be yourself and go where you want to go in life. Who knows? Maybe it really is, but if so, it's likely because you're subconsciously attracted to relationships that will present a challenge to your personality and your goals at a basic level. Since shorter or less committed relationships work out fine for you, you may decide that's all you can handle, and go through a string of those before you finally start to realize that your love life isn't as fulfilling as you want it to be. Don't delude yourself into thinking you're just not 'the marrying kind'; if you want love and intimacy and partnership, you are. Your challenge in life is to figure out how to make a long-term relationship work. How can you get past the feeling that your independence is challenged by intimacy with a lover? Remember, for one thing, that practice makes perfect.

Mercury in Scorpio

An emotional communicator

You're an intuitive thinker and communicator, often relying much more on your instincts than on any surface impressions -- such as what's actually being said out loud -- to determine what's going on in any given situation. You can also be quite secretive, which sometimes creates an imbalance in your love relationships. You want your sweetie to divulge all their secrets, to lay their soul bare to you, to let you plunder the depths of their feelings and their psyche, their distant past, their fondest hopes and greatest fears...and at the same time, you want to guard your own feelings, hopes, fears and motivations. This can get frustrating for your partner; why should they always bare their soul when you're so rarely willing to do the same? Furthermore, you have a variety of defenses set up for whenever your sweetie tries to get past your protective walls. You do have a temper, and if you feel threatened you're not afraid to lash out with anger, sarcasm or derision to throw your honey off the trail of the truth. The truth, of course, is that you're just like everyone else -- vulnerable, in need of an emotional connection that you can count on.

Mercury conjunct Uranus

That sharp, unusual mind of yours

You're a unique thinker, and in love, you have to find a partner who appreciates that about you. You tend to let your mind wander as it will, riffing off on whatever wild, wonderful idea has currently taken hold. It takes a similar mind to follow yours along its more unusual paths! Conservative, cautious thinkers don't hold much appeal for you. If you're out with someone new and you bring up one of your strange ideas, and your date looks at you as if you've just sprouted another head, you probably won't bother calling them back for a second go-round. You're attracted to people who aren't scared of odd ideas and unexpected twists in the conversation; you appreciate a dinner companion who can throw a few monkey wrenches of their own into the mix! For this reason, your relationships may be a bit unstable, purely because you're attracted to oddball types who are unpredictable at best. But that's what you find exciting! And that's what you serve up as well. A great date for you will include lots and lots of conversation, laughter, even debate. A freeform mental connection with a potential sweetie is, for you, a sign of even better things to come.

Mercury sextile Saturn

Learning from your mistakes

Whatever your dating experiences have been or will be, you'll learn from them. You take a rather serious view of life, and a sober approach to it -- not in a stick-in-the-mud kind of way, just in a steady, considered way. You're a practical thinker, which means that you don't like to make the same mistake too many times before learning your lesson. If you've had a love affair that went wrong, you may regret it or you may not; but either way, you learned the lessons implicit in the experience, and odds are, you won't repeat the same mistakes again. In love, you're attracted to people who are as serious-minded as you are. Frivolous banter over cocktails can be fun, but it can also put you on edge, making you wonder what's beneath your date's glittery surface. You might think they're hiding something if they come across as too glib or polished -- and who knows? You may be right. On the other hand, finding a mate who's more of a smooth-talking, socially graceful type could be a nice counterbalance to your more sober, pragmatic personality. And you, in turn, have that sharp mind and great powers of concentration as gifts to add to the mix.

Mercury square Jupiter

False confidence

You mean well, but your tendency to exaggerate and overstate things in an attempt to impress can spell minor disaster in the dating game. When you're out with someone new, you rarely feel comfortable enough just to relax and be yourself. Of course, no one's comfortable on a first date; by their very nature, first dates are awkward and weird, and both people usually end up feeling nervous and more than a little lackluster. But while someone else might clam up, your typical response to this is to get grandiose in your conversation. You might tell white lies about all the places you've been and the things you've seen and experienced, all in the name of impressing on this special someone that you're also someone special, someone who deserves their notice. But what's wrong with just being yourself? Your potential sweetie would probably be a lot more impressed with honesty than with grandiosity. Another little trap you may tend to fall into in your love life is being overconfident about what you have to offer in a relationship. Make sure you don't make promises that you can't keep, purely out of a yearning to be everything your lover wants you to be.

Venus in Scorpio

Magnetically seductive

Your passions run strong and deep in love. You're the type who can love your sweetie down to the depths of your soul, but if they hurt you or break your heart, you'll hate them just as passionately as you adored them. You rarely do things halfway in love affairs, and you always lead with your heart. This can get you into trouble, for example, when your sweetie inadvertently steps on your toes and you lash out at them, wanting only to hurt them back -- in that moment. But a moment later, when you've calmed down enough to see that they didn't mean whatever it was that so got under your skin in the first place, you have to soothe their now-hurt feelings and make things better again. Good thing you're so magnetic! A relationship with you can be a bit like an emotional roller coaster ride -- up, down, always intense -- but you live for those addictive highs and lows. A strong emotional connection is extremely important to you, as is an equally strong sexual one. In fact, you tend to use your sexuality to both form and test that emotional connection. When it comes to arguments with your sweetie, you really like the part where you get to kiss and make up.

Venus retrograde

Wait for what you want

You have a hard time with silly, meaningless pursuits like small talk on a date or flirtation at the grocery checkout counter. While other people seem to derive a lot of pleasure out of interactions like these, for you, they're annoying time-fillers, and there are a lot of other, deeper matters you'd prefer to talk about. This sense of yours -- that flirting, coyness, murmured sweet nothings and so on are basically a waste of time -- may have set you apart in the dating scene, because what is dating if not a coquettish dance of attraction that's basically surface-level? But you know there's something deeper and more important than that -- you can just feel it. And if you don't mind waiting (and probably going through periods of loneliness and celibacy as a result), you'll find the love you're looking for, with someone as serious and deeply focused as you are. When that happens, you can skip all the small talk and the meaningless flirtation and get to the good stuff, the important matters underneath: Who are you, how do you see the world and what are you all about? But until then, you could be rather lonely and alone.

Venus conjunct Mars

In love with love

It's probably rare that you're single, because you live and breathe love and romance. Relationships are second nature to you; you adore all the ins and outs of love. You even appreciate the bittersweet end of an affair! Of course, the exciting, heady rush of the beginning of a new one is way better. This aspect in itself doesn't determine whether your relationships will be happy or troubled ones; it simply denotes a bone-deep interest in love, and an innate passion that will burn within you your whole life. You don't like to stay home alone very often; you're a social creature and you have lots of friends and admirers. You're very popular, the life of the party; anywhere you go, people gather around, wanting to talk and bask in your warm energy! You're very affectionate and charming, and you know how to put people at ease. You also know how to make someone feel like the only other person in the room -- no matter how many attractive people you intend to chat up throughout the evening! Yes, you can be a bit of a player, but it's all in good fun, right? You don't like to get bogged down in love; you like it best when things are new, fresh and exciting.

Venus conjunct Uranus

Restless attractions

You're impulsive in love -- you may have a string of short-lived but intense affairs behind you, because you jump into relationships without thinking of the consequences! For you, consequences just don't mean much. You're more interested in the immediate experience of passion than you are in what might happen later. You aren't afraid of having your heart broken, either -- maybe because it doesn't happen very often. Since you're always moving on without notice to someone newer and more exciting, you rarely get your heart involved in your love affairs. That makes for more fun and less mess in your life, but at some point, you're going to have to give a relationship a chance to deepen if you ever want real love and intimacy. And when you do commit to one person long-term, it's going to be someone very unusual. Your tastes run to the weird, interesting and even kinky in love, and you grow bored fast with routine. You might fall for someone who refuses to commit to you, or who's incredibly moody; either of those scenarios would certainly keep you on your toes! Your love life might not be terribly romantic or satisfying, but it does hold your interest.

Venus sextile Juno

Devoted to love

Active expression of your love for your partner is very important to you. Regardless of whatever other influences to the contrary that you may live under, it is important to you to have an open flow of love, communication and attraction with your sweetie, because for you, love is one of the ultimate experiences of life. You are capable of incredible devotion to your sweetie, and even more than that, you know how to keep the love alive. It's not enough for you just to make a commitment and then settle back into a lifelong, comfortable affair; you're attuned to attraction and desire as well, and you'll work hard to keep those influences fresh and satisfying for you and your honey. You also aren't one to 'let yourself go' once you get into a comfortable, loving relationship; if anything, being in love makes you pay even more attention to your health and appearance, because you want to make a great impression on your sweetie every time they see you. You're one of those people who will be leaving little surprise love notes under your honey's pillow when you're both old and gray! You'll always make that effort, so make sure you commit yourself to someone who's just as devoted.

Mars in Scorpio

Off the charts!

Whew-wee! Is it getting hot in here, or is it just you? Your sexual drive and charisma are off the charts, and you draw admirers into your orbit like the gravitational pull of the sun on the planets -- inexorably. That's right, your charms are that powerful! And you know it. You know how to use them, too; when you set your sights on a potential lover, you're driven in your pursuit of them, and it's the rare person that can resist you. In the bedroom, you're passionate and intense. You can wear your lover out and still be going strong! But remember that with all this passion comes that other kind of passion, the kind that's not so fun for either you or your honey. If you feel crossed or betrayed by a lover, for example, you might start fantasizing about how you could make the score even by hurting them back. But don't do it! Revenge fantasies are one thing, but actually lashing out against someone you care about is entirely another. You'll know you've matured when you're able to keep your passions under control. Similarly, though you may be drawn to secretive, even illicit affairs, it's always best to keep things aboveboard.

Mars conjunct Uranus

Always the iconoclast

Anyone who goes out on a date with you is in for a surprise; the only question is, what kind! You're nothing if not unexpected, in your behavior, your opinions, your tastes and so on. In fact, sometimes you take the opposing viewpoint just to be different. On dates with someone new, this can make the wrong impression if you accidentally come across as argumentative. You're going for iconoclastic, but you like playing the devil's advocate, and sometimes you can push things too far and really get under other people's skin. Some people will be turned off by this tendency of yours, but others will find it very exciting. You just have an electric air of energy around you, as if anything could happen. And with you, it often does. Your relationships may not last long; you insist on freedom, and that put together with your tendency to provoke your sweetie can bring things to a premature end. If you do want to find a stable, lasting love, it will have to be with someone who can handle everything you dish out -- and who can keep things interesting by serving it back up to you; someone who gives you the independence you need to feel comfortable.

Mars sextile Juno

Passionate in love

When you see what you want, you go for it, and that goes for love and attraction as well as your career or whatever other venue where you set goals and then work to achieve them. In love, you know just how to turn on the charm and use your natural charisma to get the object of your desires to look your way. A strong and vital sexual connection is important to you with someone you love; without it, you won't be able to sustain your interest in the relationship for long, because you associate a strong physical bond with equally strong emotional ties. When it comes to settling down for the long haul with someone very special, it's going to take a partner who is as passionate and energetic as you are. A pushover wouldn't claim your heart, but neither would someone whose passion verges too quickly into hotheadedness and temper tantrums. You need to find someone with a definite backbone, but also plenty of kindness; someone who's passionate, but not so controlling that they can't let you express your passion as well. Independence is important to you in a love affair, so look for a partner who pursues their own ambitions as they encourage and allow you to pursue yours.

Jupiter in Leo

Splashy gestures

You have big ideals when it comes to love and romance. In your philosophy, love should be a grand, sweeping, passionate affair, one that sweeps you and your sweetie both off your feet and into the clouds. You're also very generous and something of a big spender, because you love treating your sweetie with expensive gifts, fancy meals, nights out on the town... So what if it ratchets up your credit card debt? Well, generosity is wonderful, but remember that you can't buy friends and lovers. (And the ones that you can buy, you probably don't want.) Your admirers are already attracted to you for your expansive, generous nature; you don't have to back it up with big, splashy, expensive gestures. But sometimes, when it comes to treating yourself and your sweetie like royalty, you really don't know when enough is enough. Furthermore, try to be conscious of letting the other person take center stage once in a while. You like to be at the center of things, and you make a very warm, gregarious and enthusiastic center indeed. But if the balance of power is weighted too heavily toward your side, your sweetie could get grumpy from time to time.

Jupiter opposite Juno

Let go of your fear

You want to find true, lasting love -- the stable, committed relationship you've always dreamed of. But you also want to 'sow your wild oats,' or maybe it isn't even that straightforward. Perhaps whatever it is that holds you back from a comfortable commitment with someone special is more abstract than that; maybe, deep down in your soul, you want some kind of intellectual freedom that you're afraid you can't have in a relationship. Your theories on life, after all, are very important to you -- as is your right and ability to philosophize. If you've ever been romantically involved with someone who wasn't interested in your theorizing, the experience might have left a bad taste in your mouth. You may think that falling in love for the long term will necessarily mean an end to all your spiritual questing, but it doesn't have to be that way. You could find a partner who was interested in traveling those paths with you -- even if it meant that, at times, you weren't together in the same place. But that's easier said than done, of course; and your first step toward finding that expansive love is letting go of your own fear that commitment will curb your freedom.

Saturn in Virgo

A logical approach to problem-solving

Your methodical approach to problem-solving can be a real boon to your love life, as long as you don't let yourself get so steeped in logic that you ignore the validity of emotions. After all, not every issue that comes up in your love life will have an efficient, logical solution. Some things simply need a heartfelt response, and that could be difficult for you to discern. But in general, in a love affair, you're incredibly loyal and committed. You're also practical: You know that treating your lover well and respecting them and the relationship just makes sense, as it avoids messy, unnecessary problems. You're a good listener with your sweetie, and you expect the same in return from them -- which you probably won't always get. You tend to want and expect more perfection in your relationship than is really possible, which can mean that you're too hard on both your lover and yourself. It's just that you have high ideals when it comes to love, in terms of the ways that people in love should treat each other -- and you're not wrong in your ideas. It just might not be possible, for either of you, to be that restrained, dedicated, well-mannered lover every minute of the day.

Saturn sextile Uranus

On your own terms

You have a healthy respect for tradition -- for example, the traditional institution of marriage, or commitment within a relationship -- but you won't be blindly held back by it. You've got a wonderful balance between self-discipline and brilliant, progressive thought, and in love affairs, this is a real gift. You're not one to rock the boat just for the sake of rocking it, but you bring a real sense of freshness and uniqueness to your interactions with a lover. You wouldn't get married just to please your parents, or make a commitment just because you thought that was supposed to be the next step in your relationship. Instead, you try to make your relationships unique. You interact with your sweetie in whatever way feels right and natural, not in some way that you think you should. And while you're not necessarily a restless type, you'll leave a relationship when it's clear to you that it isn't working. On the other hand, you've got the discipline needed to give a love affair a real go: You'll willingly put in your time and energy if you think it's worth it -- if it seems like the relationship's going someplace wonderful and you're getting something out of it that you love.

Saturn square Neptune

Push onward!

You may be very lonely in love as a result of constantly wishing things were one way while refusing to accept how they really are. You have all these wonderful hopes and dreams for your intimate relationships, and then, time and again, they just don't happen. This, in itself, could lead to disillusionment, loneliness and self-doubt, but it's likely that those feelings existed before your love affairs ever started disappointing you. You have a hard time being your own advocate in life; instead, you may throw your energies behind someone else, or behind a cause that's not particularly important to you. Could this be because it's too scary to throw your energies into yourself, your own life, your own causes -- because if you were to fail, it would be too much to take? Or do you just not bother because you're so sure things aren't going to work out the way you want them to? Either way, the result is the same: You don't put enough energy and positivity into number one -- you. And your love life suffers as a result. If you can convince yourself to push forward in love despite your misgivings, you may find that things eventually work out a lot better than you think they will.

Uranus in Scorpio

Intensely sexual

As odd or counterintuitive as it may sound, your intense sexuality could be the undoing of your relationship. But you have deep, strong desires, and you're not one to repress them. When they take hold of you, you want to act on them -- even if you have to do so in a secretive way. And sometimes, acting on your desires, especially secretively, may not be in the best interest of your blossoming or committed love affair. On the other hand, you're very sexually compelling to your lover. You have an innovative mind about new positions to try and new feelings to explore; you like nothing more than to get down and dirty with another person, and find out what it truly is to be human! But this urge to explore 'the dark side' and plumb the depths of your psyche via sexual encounters that lay your soul bare...well, it can get a little too intense at times, for your sweetheart and even for you. On the other hand, intensity, even the disturbing kind, is what you live for, and your strong will can get you through even the darkest moments. And you'll almost certainly come out on the other side with greater self-knowledge of your own truth.

Neptune in Sagittarius

Strong intuitions

You have a strongly intuitive side, but you often misread your inner compass, and if you act according to your instincts, you might find yourself moving in the entirely wrong direction. When it comes to your instincts, you tend to miss the trees in favor of the forest. That means your 'inner eye' isn't attuned to the important little details, or the subtle variations of whatever feeling you're getting. In a romance, for example, you could get a strong sense that things are off with your partner -- but you'll ignore the specifics about your feeling and end up drawing the totally wrong conclusion about what's going on with your sweetie and why. You're seeking the truth, though, and that's the very reason why you so often misread your own signals -- because the truth is such a broadly varied and changeable concept. And it's wonderful that you shoot for the stars in your quest for the truth. But you should always incorporate all your senses, not just your sixth one. Rely on the combination of your inner feelings plus the facts as you can see and understand them, and you'll steer yourself along a straighter track.

Neptune sextile Pluto

The transcendent experience of love

While you may get involved in a few flings, you're more able than some to transcend your bodily needs for a higher ideal. Sex just for its own sake may not hold a lot of appeal for you unless other aspects indicate it; you'd much rather connect on a physical level with someone with whom you're emotionally bonded with, because that way, the experience is so much more transcendent and important. Sex without love is basically empty, but sex can be an important growth experience when paired up with true intimacy and emotional attachment. You've always understood that, so you tend to look for relationships that really mean something to you rather than pursuing someone who just appeals to you on a physical level. Love, also, is a spiritual experience for you, one that helps you grow hugely as a human being. If you look back over your life, you'll find that your romantic affairs corresponded with periods of intense personal growth and transformation, and it will always be this way for you. So when you're getting involved with someone new, use this truth about yourself as a barometer for whether the relationship is worth pursuing. If there's more there than simple attraction, it probably is.

Pluto in Libra

Personal growth through relationship

Love affairs have always been intense for you, because that is one arena that really lets you progress and transform yourself as a person. While other people might do their best internal work on their own, you're all about relationships and the lessons you can glean through being intimately involved with someone. Of course, 'relationship' can also mean the one you share with your therapist; that would be another wonderful way for you to connect more deeply with yourself and grow to understand and nurture yourself. But love affairs for you tend to be intense and symbiotic, and you rarely come out of them unchanged. A harmonious balance between you and your sweetie is one of your highest ideals, and you're willing to go to great lengths to bring that ideal into reality. You'll work hard on a relationship that's important to you, and you can be very introspective in your quest to make the bond the best that it can be. Just remember not to be too hard on yourself -- you're allowed at least a few flaws and idiosyncrasies! -- and not to subvert your own needs and desires in favor of maintaining harmony. With some effort, you should be able to have both.

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